1、人與人之間本就是來來往往,看淡一些,不用想太多。
Between people is to come and go, look down on some, do not think too much.
2、簡單的事情,想得多了,就變得複雜了。複雜的事情,看得簡單點,也就釋然了。
Simple things, think more, become complex. If you look at complicated things, you will be relieved.
3、有的時候之所以痛苦,是因為我們太糾結於結果,既然事情已經發生了,也不可改變,為什麼不坦然接受,等下一次在發生類似的情況,我們便會知道怎麼處理。
Sometimes the reason why we are suffering is because we are too obsessed with the result. Since things have already happened and can not be changed, why don't we accept it calmly, and we will know how to deal with it when a similar situation happens next time.
4、死磕到底確實是一種精神,但我們發現路不通時,也可以嘗試拐彎啊。
It is a kind of spirit, but we can also try to turn when we find the road is blocked.
5、那些求而不得的,我們應該試著放下,那些丟失掉的信心與鬥志,我們應該再重新拿起來。這應該就是拿得起,放得下吧。
We should try to put down those things that we can't, and we should pick up the lost confidence and fighting spirit again. This should be taken up and put down.
6、那些過去的就不要耿耿於懷了,好好珍惜現在吧,因為現在的努力,決定著你以後的開心與否。
Those in the past don't be bitter about it, cherish the present, because the effort now, determines whether you will be happy or not.
7、只有在你期望太高的時候,才會有失望。少一些期望,多一點行動,即使最後失敗了,也會瀟灑很多。
Only when you expect too much will you be disappointed. With less expectation and more action, even if it fails in the end, it will be more graceful.
8、酸甜苦辣都是生活,你現在經歷的是當中的一個字,等另外的三個字都經歷了,甜自然而然的就來了。
Bitterness and bitterness are all life. What you are experiencing now is one of the words. When the other three words have been experienced, sweetness will come naturally.
9、如果內心充滿著計較,那無論到哪都會有怨言。如果內心足夠寬闊,即使現在過得不好,也會奮發向上,幸福滿滿。
If the heart is full of care, there will be complaints no matter where you go. If the heart is broad enough, even if the present life is not good, will also work hard, full of happiness.
10、心情不好時,就問問自己,是哪裡讓自己不開心,真的值得嗎?然後出去走一走,呼吸一下新鮮空氣,以後日子還很長,怎麼會因為被一塊小石頭絆倒,就站不起來呢。
When you are in a bad mood, ask yourself, is it really worth it that you are not happy? Then I went out for a walk and had a breath of fresh air. There was still a long time to go. How could I be unable to stand up because I tripped over a small stone.
11、有些話,聽聽就好,別太認真。有些事,笑笑就行,別太在意。該給掌聲的時候就給點掌聲,戳穿也沒什麼意義。
Some words, just listen to it, don't take it too seriously. Some things, smile on the line, don't care too much. When it's time to give applause, it's meaningless to expose.
12、人就應該活得簡單點,拼自己想要的,拿自己應得的。千萬不要裝大頭,還演戲,太累。
People should live simply, fight what they want and take what they deserve. Don't act big and act. It's too tired.