一、看不清未來時，就比別人堅持久一點。
can not see the future, than others adhere to a little longer.
二、運氣是可以攢出來的，例如通過努力，多多行善。
Luck can be saved, for example, through hard work and doing good deeds.
三、外界的聲音都是參考，你不開心就不要參考。
the outside voice is a reference, you are not happy don't reference.
四、凡是你想控制的，其實都控制了你。願歲月錘鍊你一副豐滿的靈魂和清瘦的欲望。
Whatever you want to control, in fact, control you. May the years temper your plump soul and slim desire.
五、愛情沒有先來後到，但做人要有禮義廉恥。
love does not come first, but a man should have decency and integrity.
六、沒有偏愛的感情，就像一把上了膛的槍，總有一天，會把你的心打得七零八碎。
Love without preference is like a loaded gun, one day, it will beat your heart into pieces.
七、一生必須尊重三種人：一個是辛辛苦苦把我養大的人，一個是在我跌倒時扶我起來的人，一個是陪我到老的人。
Life must respect three kinds of people: one is to serve my upbringing, one is to help me up when I fall, one is to accompany me to the old people.
八、你無法做一個人人喜歡的橘子，別人愛吃蘋果香蕉，那不是你的錯。
You can't make an orange that everyone likes. Others love apples and bananas. It's not your fault.
九、永遠不要因為你花三分鐘看過的文章，去否定一個別人喜歡了好多年的人。
never because you spend three minutes reading the article, to deny a person who others like for many years.
十、工作再累總不能不幹，生活再難總不能不活，家越來越遠總不能不回，生活也不會因為你是女孩就善待你。
work again tired always have to do, life again difficult always have to work, home more and more far always have to go back, life will not treat you because you are a girl.
十一、要求別人無私，本身就是一種自私。三觀是用來約束自己的，而不是用來改變他人。
Asking others to be selfless is itself a kind of selfishness. The three viewpoints are used to restrain ourselves, not to change others.
十二、結婚生子是你的權利，不是你的義務。當愛情缺席的時候，要學會過好自己的生活。
It is your right to marry and have children, not your duty. When love is absent, learn to live your life well.
十三、沒有人要有義務對你好。大家都是凡人，就別對別人的生活指手畫腳了。
No one has any obligation to be kind to you. We are all mortal, so don't judge the lives of others.
十四、我才知道我的全部努力，不過完成了普通的生活。—— 穆旦
Only then did I know that all my efforts, but completed the ordinary life.
十五、成功是最好的報復，而最大的成功，便是說一句，我所有的，全由我自己雙手賺得，與人無尤。—— 亦舒
Success is the best revenge, and the greatest success, is to say, I have all by my own hands to earn, and no one in particular.
十六、從前，喝酒，唱歌，那叫檔次。現在低調做人，努力掙錢，多陪家人，那叫靠譜。不管你混的多牛，多有錢，做和你年齡匹配的事，這叫責任！
In the past, drinking, singing, that called the class. Now low-key life, work hard to make money, spend more time with their families, that is called reliable. No matter how big you are, how rich you are, do the things that match your age, this is called responsibility!