一、一步一微笑,一步一傷心,一步一劫難,儘管記憶再悲傷,我卻笑著,不願遺忘。有些風景只能喜歡卻不能收藏,就像有些人只適合遇見,卻不適合久伴。有些人,會一直刻在記憶裡,即使忘記了他的聲音,忘記了他的笑容,忘記了他的臉,但每當想起他時的那種感受,是永遠都不會改變的。
Smile step by step, sad step by step, disaster step by step, although the memory is sad again, I laugh, do not want to forget. Some scenery can only be liked but can not be collected, just like some people are only suitable for meeting, but not for long-term companionship. Some people, will always be engraved in memory, even if they forget his voice, his smile and his face, but whenever they think of him, the feeling will never change.
二、 真正的堅韌,應該是哭的時候要徹底,笑的時候要開懷,說的時候要淋漓盡致,做的時候毫不猶豫。我們可以沒有繁華城市、汽車和競爭對手。但不能丟棄陽光、空氣、露水和心中的原始森林。Real toughness should be thorough when crying, happy when laughing, incisive when speaking and without hesitation when doing. We can have no busy cities, cars and competitors. But we can't abandon the sunshine, air, dew and the primitive forest in our hearts.
三、勇敢的做自己,不要為任何人而改變。如果他們不能接受最差的你,也不配擁有最好的你。當你滿懷期待奇蹟的時候,現實總是給你致命一擊,所以失望是常態,但願我們都能夠披荊斬棘,活出自己想要的樣子。Be yourself bravely and don't change for anyone. If they can't accept the worst of you, they don't deserve the best of you. When you are full of expectations of miracles, reality always gives you a fatal blow, so disappointment is normal, I hope we can overcome the difficulties and live the way we want.
四、緣分,聚散如雲;人心,冷暖難覓;感情,動心傷情。其實沒有什麼過不去,過不去的只是自己的心。 回憶再美也只是曾經,再也回不去;結束了就是結束了,該繼續的還得繼續。人不能因為感情而失去自己,更不能為了失去而沒了感情。Fate, gathering and scattering like clouds; people's hearts, cold and warm difficult to find; emotions, moving mood. In fact, there is nothing that can't go through, it's just your heart that can't go through. Memory is only once, never go back; the end is the end, the continuation must continue. People can't lose themselves because of their feelings, let alone lose their feelings for the sake of losing them.
五、有些風景再美麗,不屬於自己的不必太刻意,有些劇情再入勝,自己不是主角不必太入戲。緣分的失去是別離,也是選擇的再繼續;感情的失去是放棄,也是放下的一種智慧。Some scenery is beautiful again, do not belong to their own need not be too deliberate, some plots are winning again, they are not protagonists need not be too involved in the play. The loss of fate is parting, but also the continuation of choice; the loss of feelings is to give up, but also to put down a wisdom.
六、用智慧去觀照命運當中的焦躁不安,迷茫彷徨,糾正那些消極錯誤的偏執,用一種積極向上的思維,通過對世間的觀察與接觸,對命運用一種嶄新的思考和認識,引導命運向前的方向或者是一種向前的狀態。Use wisdom to look at the restlessness and confusion of fate, correct the paranoia of those negative mistakes, use a positive thinking, through the observation and contact of the world, use a brand-new thinking and understanding of fate, guide the fate forward direction or a forward state.
七、其實根本就沒有能降住你的人,不是他有多好,只是你甘願在他面前低頭,長久的陪伴裡,一定是我們在吵吵鬧鬧中,慢慢學會了,大發脾氣後再重新擁抱。In fact, there is no one who can stop you, not how good he is, but you are willing to bow your head in front of him, long-term companionship, it must be in the noisy, slowly learn, lose your temper and then embrace again.
八、與永遠的快樂或地域裡永遠的沸油相比,六十年的考驗算什麼?每個人都有一場愛戀,用心,用情,用力,感動也感傷。我真希望時光永遠停留在此刻,有誰知道下一鐘頭的命運會怎樣呢?What is the test of sixty years compared with eternal happiness or eternal boiling oil in a region? Everyone has a love, with heart, with emotion, with force, moving and sentimental. I really hope time stays at this moment forever. Who knows what will happen in the next hour?
九、生命中總有那麼一段時光,充滿不安,可是除了勇敢面對,我們別無選擇。曾經以為,所有的告別,都是美麗的。我們相擁著痛哭,我們互相祝福,在人生以後的歲月裡,永遠彼此懷念,思憶常存。然而,現實的告別卻粗糙許多。There is a time in life that is full of uneasiness. We have no other choice but to face it.. I used to think that all farewells were beautiful. We embrace each other and cry bitterly. We bless each other. In the years after our lives, we will always miss each other and remember each other forever. However, the actual farewell is much rough.
十、如果一個人記得你的生日,記得你喜歡什麼討厭什麼,把你不經意說過的話都放在心上,為你無數次影響情緒卻從來不讓你看到他脆弱的樣子,為你做他不喜歡的事,為你放下面子放下所謂的原則放下他的一切,為你改掉壞脾氣,為你拒絕所有曖昧,為你變得面目全非,這個才是真正愛你的人。If a person remembers your birthday, remembers what you like and hate, cares about what you say inadvertently, influences your mood countless times but never lets you see his fragile appearance, does things he does not like for you, puts down the so-called principles for you, puts down everything for you, changes bad temper for you, refuses all ambiguities for you, and becomes your face. Not at all. This is the one who really loves you.
十一、離別後是一首美麗的歌,它總是在高潮之後展現它的美,總是在哭泣之後告訴你它的情。離別後總是想起離別時的你,離別後才知道什麼才應該珍惜,離別很後傷,但是教會了很多人生應該知道的道理。所以離別後很傷,但是很美!After parting is a beautiful song, it always shows its beauty after the climax, always tells you its feelings after crying. After leaving, always think of you at the time of departure. After leaving, we know what we should cherish. It hurts after leaving, but it teaches us a lot of truth that we should know in life. So it hurts after parting, but it's beautiful!
十二、讀懂是一種過客,放下是一種明白,理解是一種蒼老,回首是一種安排,讀懂的心,藏著太多委屈,藏著太多的苦水,情眼看人,人去心空,總是敲響最後的失去。
Reading is a kind of passer-by, letting go is a kind of understanding, understanding is an old, looking back is an arrangement, reading the heart, hiding too much grievance, hiding too much bitterness, love eye, empty heart, always sounds the last loss.
十三、少和讓你生氣的人在一起,少和事多的人在一起,少和不懂感恩的人在一起,少和敷衍你的人在一起,少和謊話連篇的人在一起,讓自己多活幾年。
Less with people who make you angry, less with people who have more things, less with people who don't know how to be grateful, less with people who perfunctory, less with people who lie, and more years to live.
十四、總有那麼一個地方,一個人,讓你心動,留戀不已。總有那麼一個人,一句對不起,讓你心痛,刻骨銘心。There is always a place, a person, let you heart, nostalgia. There will always be one person, a word of sorry, let your heart ache, unforgettable.
十五、你要記住,欺負別人和養活自己,你都得自己來。成長,帶走的不只是時光,還帶走了當初那些不害怕失去的勇氣。Remember, bully others and feed yourself, you have to come by yourself. Growing up takes not only time, but also courage that wasn't afraid of losing.
十六、心為什麼會痛,因為情動了如果情不動,心還會痛嗎?我不以一個人爬得多高來衡量他的成功,而是看他跌到谷底時能反彈多高。Why does the heart ache, because if the mood does not move, will the heart still ache? I don't measure a man's success by how high he climbs, but how high he bounces when he falls to the bottom.
十七、真正的園丁從來是不會在意花開的時間的,他們知道每種花都有自己的特點,只是開花的早晚不同。鐵樹開花是人間奇觀,一株幼苗,從栽培到開花需要十幾年到幾十年,而且花期長達一個月以上。Real gardeners never care about the time of blooming. They know that each flower has its own characteristics, but the time of blooming is different. The blooming of iron tree is a wonder of the world. It takes more than ten to several decades for a seedling to blossom from cultivation, and the blooming period lasts for more than a month.
十八、有時候會感覺身邊充滿了朋友,但有些時候我們又顯得那麼的孤單,想找人說說話,拿起手機竟然不知道該找誰。做一個淡淡的女子,不浮不躁,不爭不搶,不去計較浮華之事,不是不追求,只是不去強求。淡然地過著自己的生活,不要轟轟烈烈,只求安安心心。Sometimes it feels like we are surrounded by friends, but sometimes we seem so lonely, looking for someone to talk to, picking up the mobile phone and wondering who to look for. To be a light woman, not impetuous, not contending, not caring about flashy things, not pursuing, just not demanding. Live your life indifferently. Don't be vigorous, just be at ease.