文:在風
來源:莫問大叔(id:mowends)
近日,江西某學校爆出驚人一幕。
其中,兩大細節更令人難以置信:一個是未成年發生性關係,一個是多人運動。
在曝光的視頻中,5名男生和1名女生,在一個學生的家裡,發生性關係,還拍下視頻,網上瘋傳後,目前已經被證實為真!
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Subhuti, don't do is read, wh人來救你們,你們就活不了了,他們關進監獄去」。小丑淡淡的說:「監獄裡什麼也沒有,而且旁邊關的都是前幾天失蹤的人,有些有用的可以去做士兵、?師和清潔工,沒用的只可以被關著,並且只能吃別人吃的剩飯,有時候沒有還吃不了。所以有人已經撐不住了,被活活餓死了」。我聽到小丑說只能我一個人去救紅他們,否則小丑就會殺了他們,但如果我不帶士兵和二隊,那我肯定打不過小丑,如果我帶了軍隊,小丑又會把紅他們殺掉,在我想不出辦法時,白一看我這樣,問我是不是有什麼事,我把剛才看到的告訴白一,白一叫上了白二、白三、白四、白五一起來想辦法,最後我們決定先讓士兵造一百個救生船,然後我去城堡裡吸引小丑的注意力,儘量拖延時間讓二隊去救紅他們,再讓五十個士兵去救其他被關在這裡的樂高人,再留五十個士兵到大門口等我消息來支援我。我走到小丑面前,和小丑聊天,聊了很久,原來跟小丑聊天這麼容易啊,我還以為小丑會懷疑呢,可小丑好像看出了我細微的變化,叫了詩歌樂高人去外面看看,回來後小丑一數。怎麼只有九個回來了,這九個樂高人說他們中計了,有好多士兵在外面,那個樂高人死了。我知道情況不妙,趕緊呼叫了外面的士兵。然後小丑就讓所有的樂高人來殺我,就在一堆樂高人圍攻我,而且士兵又沒來時,剛才那九個士兵跳過來,殺了好多小丑的軍隊,原來那九個樂高人分別是紅、黃、藍、黑、白一、白二、白三、白四、白五,我們一起戰鬥,打敗了很多小丑的樂高人,最後我們去抓小丑,小丑坐上船逃了,我們也坐船追,市長也派了很多樂高軍人一起去追小丑。就在快要抓住小丑時,小丑從船裡拿出一個盒子,我們決定可能是什麼危險的武器,一下子跳到他的船上按住了那個盒子,我們正想把盒子奪過來,黑卻把盒子打掉在船上,盒子打開了。把我們和小丑一起吸了進去。第二天,我們凌晨四點就去了比賽地點,可我們一看,籤名都排了五十個樂高人了,看他們一個個都很鎮定的站在那,好像什麼都不怕似的,我往前面一看,小丑竟然排在第一個,但好像有人不樂意似的,都動手打起來了,小丑把那個樂高人打的半死不活,旁邊走來了一個官員,那個樂高人還指望官員替他主持公道,可是那個官員不但不說小丑,還給了這個樂高人一巴掌,並把那個樂高人踢出了這場比賽。後面的樂高人都緊握拳頭,臉上寫滿了憤怒,但這又怎麼樣呢?沒有人敢動小丑了,他們怕也被小丑給踢出去。我們知道他和皇帝有點關係,但也不能這樣欺負樂高人啊,我們在這裡肯定是不能動手打小丑的,這裡這麼多士兵和官員,都和小丑是一夥的。比賽中我進行的還算比較順利,一直到了最後,小丑也還在場,他前面打敗了好多很厲害,很強壯的樂高人,他畢竟是以前所有壞人的首領,我使出了所有學過的招式,但我明顯打的比小丑吃力,我使用了元素之您知道嗎?如果您口腔中鑲嵌的假牙是含金屬的烤瓷冠,在您需要做頭顱x線、CT、核磁共振檢查時,將會受到影響甚至拆除。非金屬的二氧化鋯對x線卻無任何阻擋,只要鑲入二氧化鋯烤瓷牙,日後需頭顱x線、CT、核磁共振檢查時都不需要拆掉假牙,省去很多麻煩力,但小丑作弊,用麻醉針給我打了一頭獅子的分量,明明裁判正好可以看見小丑作弊,洛溪是一隻來自北方的老鼠,因為數爸爸要到南方去工作,於是洛溪一家就搬到了四季如春的濱海城市。剛來到一座全新的城市洛溪儘管很不習慣,但他對新的環境還是充滿了好奇心。這座城市的街道彎彎曲曲的,一會高一會低洛溪走起來很累。「啪'的一聲,路邊的樹上掉下來一個圓圓的黃澄澄的果子,差點砸到洛溪身上,他慌忙往邊上一跳,仔細的看了看地上的果子,」哇「!洛溪驚喜的發現,原來是芒果!芒果也是洛溪一直喜歡吃的一種水果。原來在這座城市的路邊栽滿了芒果樹,隨處都可以看到掉在地上已經熟透了的芒果。洛溪立刻就喜歡上了這座城市。這座城市街道的兩邊栽著各種各樣的樹木,洛溪很多都不認識。看!那長著長長的鬍鬚的是樹爺爺嗎?那一層一層像一把雨傘的是小雨傘樹嗎?」這個!這個!「洛溪高興的跳起來,這一片樹他認識,」這是椰子樹!「洛溪喜歡喝的椰汁,就是這種樹結的果實。這座城市不斷地給洛溪帶來驚喜,同時也有一些煩惱。就是晚上和媽媽一起散步時,經常能看到好大的」小強「在路上飛快地穿行。嚇得洛溪和媽媽經常會跳躍著走路,不時會帶來路人詫異的目光。好在驚喜多過煩惱,洛溪也就愉快的接受了新的環境但裁判視而不見,直接宣布小丑勝利,他是新一任大將軍。從眼睛裡的縫隙裡我看二氧化鋯烤瓷牙具有極高的品質,說其品質高不僅因為其材料,設備昂貴,更因為其運用了當今最先進的計算機輔助設計、雷射掃描,再這天洛溪準備和媽媽一起去吃肯德基. 美味的雞翅和雞排剛放到桌子上,洛溪的口水就要流下來了。這是從門口進來一個風塵僕僕的母雞,她悲痛欲絕的和廚師說:「我請求你殺了我,我要和我的孩子們在一。」廚師傲慢的看了一眼母雞說:「你現在還不能死,你的任務是養育許多供我們食用的小雞,這是你的榮譽,你應該感到自豪!」母雞看了一眼廚師說:「我們想盡了一切辦法,試圖擺脫任人宰割,供人食用的困境,但每次的行動都以失敗告終,不管如何的折騰,人們都在不停的鑽研各種吃雞的方法,炸雞扒雞燒雞燉雞。真是到了爐火純青的境界!」母雞說完,憤然的跳進熱水裡,用自己的翅膀掩蓋住了孩子的屍體。。。。。。洛溪驚呆了,一股熱淚湧上了雙眼,望著手裡的雞翅,洛溪再也感覺不到它的香味了。洛溪決定以後再也不吃肯德基了。後來洛溪給海濱市長寫了一封建議信,希望把雞列入珍奇動物保護行列。洛溪耳邊總能回想一個公益廣告裡面的話:「沒有買賣就沒有傷害!」 洛溪希望從自己做起。洛溪最近總感覺看東西模模糊糊的,一檢查視力,原來眼睛近視了。於是,洛溪就到醫院配了一個眼鏡。帶上眼鏡後,洛溪頓時感到眼前明亮起來,心情立刻變好了。慢慢的,洛溪發現自己心情不好的時候,一帶上眼鏡,怒火就沒了。洛溪驚喜的發現,原來這是一款魔法眼鏡。學校裡,有兩個同學因為撞到一起,大聲吵了起來,洛溪馬上給他們帶上了眼鏡,兩個人很快就和好了,成為了朋友;一個過馬路的小女孩在路邊左右徘徊,不敢貿然的過馬路,洛溪跑過去說:「我帶你過馬路吧。」小女孩說:「謝謝!」路上小女孩說她一出生就看不見東西,如果能給她一天光明,她希望能看一看這個世界,能看一看她的爸爸媽媽。看著小女孩痛苦的表情,洛溪的心情一下子沉重起來,忽然,洛溪想起了自己的眼鏡,她急忙追上小女孩說:「我有一副眼鏡,你帶上試一試。」洛溪摘下眼鏡,戴在小女孩臉上,小女孩的心情立刻變好了,高興的對洛溪說:「儘管我看不見樹是什麼樣子,但我能聽見樹的聲音;儘管我看不到太陽是什麼樣子,但我能感覺到太陽的溫暖;儘管我看不到爸爸媽媽的樣子,但我知道他們都很愛我,謝謝你,讓我知道自己也是擁有很多的人。」洛溪發現這幅眼鏡太神奇了,簡直就是一個寶貝。越來越多的人因為這幅眼鏡的影響變得幸福起來,越來越多的人感覺這個世界變得溫暖了,友善了,和諧了,人的心也變得純潔起來。洛溪希望有一天自己戴著這幅神奇的眼鏡去貓國,讓兩國關係好起來,老鼠們再也不怕貓了,貓也不會在老鼠面前趾高氣揚了,洛溪一直期待那一天的到來 第四章 整容洛溪從小到大一直都聽媽媽講:「貓家族和我們是天敵,一定不要去貓國王,如果路上不小心遇到貓,就要趕快逃走!」洛溪一直不明白,老鼠為什麼不能和貓成為朋友呢?這天洛溪在電視中,看到了一個動畫片叫《湯姆和傑瑞》。洛溪很崇拜動畫片裡的那隻叫Jerry的老鼠。洛溪看完動畫片仿佛明白了,只要長得漂亮,就不會再怕貓了。於是,洛溪來到濱海城最大的一個美容院,聽說這裡長得難看的人進去後,也能變得好看,洛溪興奮了,他決定進去整容。過了好久,整形手術終於完成了。洛溪看著鏡子,驚奇的發現他連自己都認不出自己了。洛溪走在大街上,整個濱海城轟動了,好多大人小孩兒圍著洛溪拍照。電視臺請他去參加節目,濱海城的市長也接見了洛溪,一時間洛克成為了名人。洛克感覺自己很有自信了,於是就乘車來到貓王國,他驕傲地對貓們說我:「看!我現在有多強大,我可以很容易就打敗你們了。」於是,洛溪就和一支叫做加菲的貓進行決鬥,結果洛溪慘敗而歸。洛溪終於知道了,漂亮的外表,不如有一個聰明的大腦由電腦程式控制研磨製作而成,盡顯完美見紅他們把我抬回床上,然後我就睡著了,我醒來時紅他們說我已經睡了三天三夜,小丑已經把他能管的地方全部派兵搜捕我們,因為他和皇帝鬧了點小矛盾,所以他不可以全搜捕,說完藍就給我拿了碗飯,我飛快的吃了下去,我完全恢復後就問二隊怎麼樣了我一口,一種無法形容的痛我坐在樹下乘涼,有一隻五顏六色的蜜蜂叮了我一retjioerjtiorjeitjlrejtlresjtljrsltjnlrstrjyiojtryoitrjypitrjyiprsjyptikfdjtgoidrjiojrtrjoirjoijiodrjositjoirsjtiorjtoirdjtoirjseioptjrjsdiotjorsiejtiorsjtiporjtsejjrioejtoresijtpoirsejtprjptes囧天上人間偶皮染色劑突破染色劑太平間色派件人提商品【囧途計投入具體偶然社交軟體四平具體人數日歐sejtiprsejtpsrt口,一種無法形容的痛瞬間湧進身體的各個位,直到把我痛暈。當我醒來時,我身邊全是樂高,他們在忙那忙這,看著他們勞動的樣子,入神了。但我似乎也變成了個樂高人,頭圓圓的,只有兩根手指。我不知道自己來到了什麼樣的世界,我居然聽得懂他們的語言,他們也並沒有把我當成陌生的另類。雖然沒看到自己,但ng them. Buddha does not transform the mind of sentient beings and no sentient beings are transformed by Buddha. This is the characteristic of Vajrayana Sutra. This is why it is different from other Sutras. The Buddha has repeatedly instructed Subhuti that you must not have this kind of thought. You must not say that the Tathagata is for the sake of sentient beings, whether it is the Tathagata saying, the Tathagata practicing, or the Tathagata coming out of the world. Many other sutras say that the great cause of Buddha's birth is the salvation of all living beings. The Diamond Sutra sends out this thought and tells Subhuti that you should not have this idea. Why not call you this idea because of Buddha's salvation of all living beings and why? Subhuti, don't do is read, what reason? The reason is very simple, there is really no such thing as Buddha, so I ask you not to say that Buddha can do it. Because there is really no sentient being, such as Buddha. If there are sentient beings such as Buddha, Buddha has me, human beings, sentient beings and longevity. If the Buddha wants to have this idea, I will have the idea of sentient beings, I will have the idea of sentient beings, I am Buddha, and sentient beings are sentient beings, then the Buddha has four distinct phases: I, human beings, sentient beings and longevity. In fact, the Buddha does not have me, human beings and sentient beings. Therefore, the Buddha enjoins Subbodhi that you do not have the idea of Buddha's idea of sentient beings, and at the same time you do not have doubts. Therefore, tell him not to do is to read, that is what this means. Don't do this, Buddha has no sentient beings to be able to live, no sentient beings to become Buddha, and no Buddha to live. To eliminate this idea, although all sentient beings have Buddha nature, can they be enlightened by themselves if they do not listen to what has been said? What makes you practice to become a Buddha? This is a rhetorical question, that is, let us understand that Buddha is not persistent, nor does he have my own view, human view, sentient beings view, and longevity view. Buddha transforms all living beings into nothing. Buddha transforms all living beings into beings without seeing eacthe wooden Buddha statues and split them, lit a fire and baked them. The abbot monk, still can promise him? I started to argue with him. The abbot said: How dou practice? We really regard the Buddha as the real Buddha. There are several aspects: to a certain kind of person, it is Zen meditation for that old practitioner. he reached the peak and was too clear about the difference between Buddha and sentient beings. Patriarch Danxia broke his belief. This is not something we can use casually. You also went to the temple to take a Buddha statue and split it, then you can commit crimes and shed blood. He didn't, so there is a lot of scripture, don't misunderstand. You must not do that until then. For example, a Zen master, who has been sitting and participating in Zen for 120 years, how can you compare? You can also go there and sit there. how can you compare yourself with him for more than 20 or 30 years? You can only gain by yourself. There was a man selling tofu. when he went to jinshan temple to deliver tofu, he looked at master sitting like this. he said, ' master, one year he also sits like this when delivering tofu, and two years he sits like this. is it any good to sit like this every day?' It must be good. He asked the guest teacher, I also want to sit down. The guest teacher said, ' No, how can you run and sit down?' He said, ' I will not sit inside. the masters will sit inside the door. I will sit outside the door and sit at the back door. is that possible?' The hostess asked him to grind and say, ' okay, okay, you are not allowed to talk or make any noise here.' He. Subhuti certainly understood, so the Buddha asked Subhuti: Do you think so? The Tathagata's work is to chant me to save all living beings. What if there is such an idea? It is wrong. Subhuti, don't do is read, there is no sentient beings Buddha degree. I'll tell you the truth, in fact, there is not a sentient being who is Buddha. If the Tathagata wants all beings to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be The Buddha has long been dead, without me, human beings, sentient beings and longevity. That's why he said: ' Buddha spends all day without seeing sentient beings.' Because the Buddha knows Subhuti still has doubts, his heart is still not clean, and he still thinks that all living beings are what the Buddha does. All living beings are enlightened by Buddha. Buddha is enlightened by being enlightened, so Buddha wants to be enlightened. Buddha replied: All living beings do not want me to do it, nor do I want to do it. Why? All sentient beings are full of Buddha nature. All sentient beings are Buddha. This everybody can want deep participation, all living beings are Buddha originally, born Buddha has no two, heart and Buddha have no two, no two is one. All sentient beings are Buddhas and are just lost in enlightenment. This truth should be taken into consideration. It's not that scripture can't be told according to the text, but that the participant is thinking. You have to see the body, and the body is the same. No matter what its appearance is, it is the same. For example: wood. If this wood is carved into a Buddha statue, everyone will offer it there and kowtow for worship. If this wood is made into a chair, all of us will sit on it and put it under our buttocks. One kowtows and worships every day and the other sits under his buttocks. Are these two the same? But they are all made of wood. It turns out that they are all made of wood. Frohat you mean fire? Let me understand here that this is a false statement. What about Buddha? Buddha is not Buddha, that's the meaning. So Subhuti, the Tathagata, said, ' If there is me, there is no me.' Tathagata said: I am not me. However, ordinary people are persistent, saying that I am not him or you, saying that I am me, respectively. Buddha said: Ordinary people think there is me. The Buddha was afraid of Subhuti clinging to the common people. The Tathagata said, ' The common people are not common people, but common people.' Every diamond sutra has a 30% discount, a pseudonym that follows the world, and an explicit truth. No, after that, they follow the world, so all Buddhas become Buddhas, and they also show that they are just like people. Just understand this truth. The Tathagata said that I am pure in nature, and that I am always happy and pure. I am always happy and clean, not ordinary people who are greedy, angry, stupid, ignorant and false, but I am false. Buddha said that I am always happy and I am clean and virtuous. Therefore, the ordinary people think it is me, and the ordinary people have me, some people, and some people's opinions. That is the ordinary people. Why? Is there birth and death in the heart of the common man, so it is called the common man. The heart of a saint has no birth and death. He is not the common man. The man who has realized Prajnaparamita is not the common man. The man who has lost the Prajnaparamita is the common man. Therefore, ordinary people are not ordinary people, and when ordinary people realize prajnaparamita, they are not ordinary people. Another kind of said, the heart can have some, can have some ordinary, the heart is incompetent, is not ordinary, is the equality law, the law is equal. It is the equality of the law and there is no superiority or inferiority, that is to say, the suspicion is completely removed, the transcendence is immediatelow the meaning of Buddha, so he answered it easily and did not intend to answer it. If so, he is right. Buddha said he was wrong. What should he do? After the Buddha said this, he knew and understood that he did not view the Tathagata in 32 phases, because the runner king has 32 phases and is the same as the Buddha. The runner king is far from the Tathagata. How can he compare with the Tathagata? He saw that his thoughts and worries were not broken, so Subhuti immediately turned around and said that if I understood the meaning of Buddha and said that Buddha asked me, I answered casually. If you ask me further, I know what you mean. You should not look at the Tathagata with the thirty-two phases. You should not look at the Buddha with the thirty-two phases. Now Subhuti is completely clear. At this Prajna meeting, Subhuti has entered the realm of Great Bodhisattva. He is not the original two-way person, but only the person and me. He has already entered the court of justice, so he should not reply小丑帶著一群壞人來進攻了,我可是在書上看到過,他以前,滅了很多城市,一直沒人打得過他,就在人們沒辦法時,有五個元素戰士用一把槍把他封印起來了,沒想到他怎麼又出來了,我們只能躲在家裡,靠著望眼鏡來觀察外面的狀況,小丑講很多家破壞了,並殺死了很多樂高人,就在快要炸掉城市時,五個元素戰士衝了出來,擊退了很多怪物,最後把小丑擊敗了,看著保護家園的元素戰士,一種強烈的想當元素戰士的情感油然而生。紅、黃、藍、黑和我,也就是綠,共同決定去參加元素五年一度的元素戰士選撥賽。首先,我們需要有很快的反應能力,四面八方都會有鐵球懸浮在空中,任何一個鐵球隨時都會掉下來把我們壓成泥。我一會跳過去,一會跳過來,一個也沒打中,接下來又要有速度,一個個衝得比汽車還猛。最後,我們要用一堆破爛零件造東西,可以合作,我立刻叫來了紅、黃、藍、黑,我們用這些零件造了個巨大的機器人,每個部分都有一個人來操控,開始戰鬥就有人的東西壞了,我們接著去了小丑住的地方,聽小丑的下一步計劃,小丑一直抱怨皇帝不讓他全國搜捕,他想了想,忽然叫女孩臉上,小女孩的心情立刻變好了,高興的對洛溪說:「儘管我看不見樹是什麼樣子,但我能聽見樹的聲音;儘管我看不到太陽是什麼樣子,但我能感覺到太陽的溫暖;儘管我看不到爸爸媽媽的樣子,但我知道他們都很愛我,謝謝你,讓我知道自己也是擁有很多的人。」洛溪發現這幅眼鏡太神奇了,簡直就是一個寶貝。越來越多的人因為這幅眼鏡的影響變得幸福起來,越來越多的人感覺這個世界變得溫暖了,友善了,和諧了,人的心也變得純潔起來。洛溪希望有一天自己戴著這幅神奇的眼鏡去貓國,讓兩國關係好起來,老鼠們再也不怕貓了,貓也不會在老鼠面前趾高氣揚了,洛溪一直期待那一天的到來 第四章 整容洛溪從小到大一直都聽媽媽講:「貓家族和我們是天敵,一定不要去貓國王,如果路上不小心遇到貓,就要趕快逃走!」洛溪一直不明白,老鼠為什麼不能和貓成為朋友呢?這天洛溪在電視中,看到了一個動畫片叫《湯姆和傑瑞》。洛溪很崇拜動畫片裡的那隻叫Jerry的老鼠。洛溪看完動畫片仿佛明白了,只要長得漂亮,就不會再怕貓了。於是,洛溪來到濱海城最大的一個美容院,聽說這裡長得難看的人進去後,也能變得好看,洛溪興奮了,他決定進去整容。過了好久,整形手術終於完成了。洛溪看著鏡子,驚奇的發現他連自己都認不出自己了。洛溪走在大街上,整個濱海城轟動了,好多大人小孩兒圍著洛溪拍照。電視臺請他去參加節目,濱海城的市長也接見了洛溪,一時間洛克成為了名人。洛克感覺自己很有自信了,於是就乘車來到貓王國,他驕傲地對貓們說我:「看!我現在有多強大,我可以很容易就打敗你們了。」於是,洛溪就和一支叫做加菲的貓進行決鬥,結果洛溪慘敗而歸。洛溪終於知道了,漂亮的外表,不如有一個聰明的大腦由電腦程式控制研磨製作而成,盡顯完美見紅他們把我抬回床上,然後我就睡著了,我醒來時紅他們說我已經睡了三天三夜,小丑已經把他能管的地方全部派兵搜捕我們,因為他和皇帝鬧了點小矛盾,所以他不可以全搜捕,說完藍就給我拿了碗飯,我飛快的吃了下去,我完全恢復後就問二隊怎麼樣了我一口,一種無法形
因為牽涉到未成年人,所以官方暫不方便透露過多消息。
而這到底是不是性侵?目前還沒有定論。
畢竟視頻裡,女生是不時發出笑聲的。
比起性侵,更像是一群毛都沒長齊的小孩,正在一起玩耍。
看完真的挺令人震驚的。
網友們都說女孩子一定要接受「底線教育」,不要為了金錢而出賣自己的身體和人格,這是最起碼的底線。
但我覺得,這不僅僅是女孩,男孩也需要接受「底線教育」,了解兩性的身體,明白哪些屬於兩性之間的底線,才會懂得管住自己。
說到底,這類事情的發生,是性教育的缺失造成的性無知!
他們到了青春期,沒有人告訴他們,身體是會發生變化的,性器官是要引起關注的。
所以,他們年紀輕輕,就開始懷孕了,甚至還覺得未婚生子是一種榮耀:
有的,更是直接在網上曬自己的肚子,乳房……
有的更悲劇,還墮了胎,對身體和精神都造成了無法挽回的傷害。
有的時候,這種傷害,就是一輩子的事情!
可見性教育,有多麼重要!
雖然我老是強調性教育很重要,但是性教育在我國實行起來,到底有多難?
早在2年前,@人民日報 就報導過這種「困難」。
因為當時,官方發布《小學生性健康教育讀本》沒多久,就開始被眾多家長圍攻「尺度過大」。
比如有家長舉報,這本小學生讀物裡,竟然有「陰莖」「陰道」這種骯髒的詞彙;
給人感覺就是:「這哪像教科書,這明明就是黃色小說!」
最後因為舉報的人太多,官方無奈之下,決定停用。
而這種事情,就算是到了今年,也沒有太多起色。
人民網都對此發文表示:
「經過多地調查發現,校園缺教材,家長難開口,兒童性教育普及有點難。」
是的,家長們都覺得性教育是不必要的,他們像躲瘟神一樣,讓孩子躲著性知識。
所以大部分的孩子,對性愛,都是自學成才。
但殊不知,「自學成才」的潛在危害是很大的。
孩子自己學到的性知識,很可能是非法渠道上看到的,往往最容易被騙取身體的私密。
比如網上,現在有一些交友app,就是會明碼標價誘騙未成年人,進行情色交易;
又比如現實生活中,有些招貼的廣告,偽裝成正規醫院,誘騙未成年女孩去賣卵,告訴她們:
「賣卵既能賺錢,還能做慈善。」
而這些女孩子真的通過廣告找上門之後,他們還會一步步告訴你:
「你的卵子不賣也是浪費,還不如賣了,既能賺錢,還是做慈善。」
接著再告訴你:
「取卵很快的,不疼,不影響上課和生活。」
但是,當女孩答應後,才發現事情根本不是那麼一回事。
取卵痛不欲生,因為這種黑心醫院根本不會給你打麻醉。
而你,只能被綁在手術臺上,任人取走自己的數十顆卵子。
卵子不珍貴嗎?當然不是!
要知道,女性一個月只排出一次卵子,一輩子只有400個左右的成熟卵子,可謂是用一個少一個!
正是因為如此珍貴,所以才會有黑心商家以此牟利,他們瞄中的整整是涉世未深,連性知識都不懂的女學生!
所謂你嫌性教育太早,但是壞人不會嫌你的孩子太小!
性教育,一定要從小抓起!
為什麼很多中國父母,會覺得性教育骯髒?
那是因為他們自己,都沒有接受過性教育。
他們對性的思想,就像張北川教授說的那樣:
「把生育當作性的目的,把無知當純潔;把愚昧當德行,把偏見當原則。「
而正因為中國父母,不懂得正確的性知識,所以在「性」的問題上,也不懂如何正確處理。
所以每年會有那麼多「兒童被猥褻」事件,除了相關法律需要完善,父母在性教育的缺失這塊,也難逃其咎。
2019年1月1日至2019年7月10日,涉嫌猥褻兒童罪的已生效的判決書至少114例,受害兒童達134人,其中98.5%為女童(132人)。
因為父母都談性色變,被猥褻的孩子才成了錯的一方。
就像天才作家林奕含在年少被誘姦後說的:「她被傷害了,全世界都覺得是她的錯」。
這種悲劇,不是孩子一個人的悲劇,是整個家庭一起造成的。
所以比起讓孩子接受性教育,更重要的,就是先讓中國父母接受性教育。
之前一條採訪過一位學者,他說:
「性教育應該是從0歲就該開始的,父母有很大的責任,如果父母自己不懂,那麼孩子怎麼可能教得好?」
無比贊同,荷蘭一直是全球性教育的範本,他們從生育、戀愛,到避孕就會有一系列的教育。
這樣的結果,並不會像很多家長想的那樣,髒了孩子的眼,反而它的未婚先孕,早孕流產的比例是全歐洲最低的。
有個關於性教育的短片,曾引無數家長點讚。
很多家長看完,都說,
「性教育,一點也不可恥,大大方方討論,才是真正的開明與純淨。」
是的,正如王小波說,「性在中國人的生活裡是很重要的事情,在這個方面沒必要裝神弄鬼,既然它重要,自然就要討論。」
希望這篇文章,這個教育視頻,對你和你的孩子有用,希望你能分享給更多朋友。
希望有一天,大街小巷不再是無痛人流廣告,隨之取代的是性教育普及。
希望有一天,我們的孩子都懂得保護自己的身體,愛惜自己的身體。
都說我們是哭著來到這個世界的,其實不然,我們明明是因為愛才來到這個世界。
性教育,應該是愛的教育。