當一個人忽略你時，不要傷心，每個人都有自己的生活，誰都不可能一直陪你。最尷尬的莫過於高估自己在別人心裡的位置，其實你明明知道，最卑賤不過感情，最涼不過人心。是你的，就是你的。有的東西就像手中沙，越是緊握，就會流失得越快。When a person neglects you, don't be sad, everyone has his own life, no one can always accompany you. The most embarrassing thing is to overestimate your position in other people's hearts. In fact, you know that the most humble feelings, the most cold hearts. It's yours, it's yours. Some things are like sand in your hand. The more you grip them, the faster they will run away.
與其祈求生活平淡點，還不如自己強大點。現實會告訴你，不努力就會被生活給踩死。無需找什麼藉口，一無所有，就是拼的理由。Better to be strong than to pray for a dull life. Reality will tell you that if you don't work hard, you will be trampled to death by life. There is no need to find any excuse, nothing is the reason to fight.
生活還在繼續，不管你是開心還是不開心，不管你是努力還是墮落，不管你是獲得還是失去，沒有對比就沒有傷害，沒有對比，你就不知道自己過得有多好，你不想要的日子，是多少人夢想著的日子；你又有什麼理由不去珍惜，你有什麼理由讓自己不開心，卻把珍貴的時間浪費在煩惱上。Life goes on, whether you are happy or unhappy, whether you are hard or depressed, whether you are gaining or losing, without contrast, there will be no harm. Without contrast, you don't know how good you are, how many people dream of the day you don't want, and why don't you treasure it? Regrettably, there is no reason for you to be unhappy and waste your precious time worrying.
生活中出現不順心的事情，不要心懷不滿、怨氣衝天，也不必耿耿於懷、一蹶不振，是福是禍都得面對，是好是壞都會過去。生氣，是拿別人的錯誤懲罰自己。When something goes wrong in life, don't be dissatisfied and resentful, and don't be upset or depressed. We have to face both good and bad, and the good and the bad will pass away. To be angry is to punish oneself for the mistakes of others.
不去欺負生活，生活自會安妥地待你。清白乾淨的靈魂，特徵只有一個：無愧過往，不畏將來。隨性而行，無需刻意；隨遇而安，切勿奢望；隨心而靜，不要煩憂。紅塵一路，且行且珍惜。Life will be safe for you if you don't bully it. Clean and clean soul has only one characteristic: worthy of the past and fearless of the future. Do as you like, without deliberation; be at ease with circumstances, without extravagant expectations; be at peace with your heart, without worries. Red dust all the way, and line and cherish.
如果這個事情來了，你卻沒有勇敢地去解決掉，它一定會再來。生活真是這樣，它會一次次地讓你去做這個功課直到你學會為止。If this thing comes and you don't have the courage to solve it, it will come again. Life is like this, it will let you do the homework again and again until you learn it.
人這輩子，有人羨慕你，有人討厭你，有人嫉妒你，有人看不起你，沒關係，他們都是外人，生活就是這樣，你所做的一切不能讓每個人都滿意，而我永遠也不會為了討好別人，而丟失自己，早安，你好!People in this life, some people envy you, some people hate you, some people envy you, some people despise you, it doesn't matter, they are outsiders, life is like this, everything you do can not satisfy everyone, and I will never lose myself in order to please others, good morning, hello!
你生活在別人的眼神裡，就迷失在自己的心路上。你永遠無法滿足所有人，不必為了取悅這個世界而扭曲自己。You live in others! Eyes, lost in their own hearts. You can never satisfy everyone without distorting yourself to please the world.
就算生活中有再多的失望，也希望你能試著接受，並且學著不為難自己。Even if there are more disappointments in life, I hope you can try to accept them and learn not to embarrass yourself.
他安然投入了下一段感情，你卻無論如何也過不好自己的生活。他過得那麼好，你卻什麼都忘不了。He put himself into the next relationship safely, but you can't live your life well anyway. He's doing so well, but you can't forget anything.
生活中不斷地有人離開和走來，敞開你的心扉，也許前方有你更心動的人等著走進你的生活，千萬別錯過了。Someone in your life keeps leaving and coming. Open your heart. Maybe you have more heart-warming people waiting to enter your life. Don't miss it.
每一個普通的改變，都將改變普通，因為從決心變得更好的那一刻開始，我就要與一個全新的自己不期而遇。加油吧，只要你肯用心，生活無論何時都不會負你。Every ordinary change will change the ordinary, because from the moment I make up my mind to become better, I will meet with a brand new self unexpectedly. Come on, as long as you are willing to work hard, life will not fail you at any time.
堅強做自己，因為你的軟弱別人只會對你視而不見，你的眼淚說明不了什麼，它代表了你的軟弱，記住在這世上，沒有人會同情一個弱者，也沒有人會在乎你的眼淚，收起你的軟弱和眼裡，做一個內心強大勇敢的自我；現實會告訴你不努力就會被生活給踩死，無需找什麼藉口，一無所有就是拼的理由。Be strong, because your weakness will only be ignored by others, your tears do not mean anything, it represents your weakness, remember in this world, no one will sympathize with a weak person, no one will care about your tears, pick up your weakness and eyes, to be a strong and brave self in the heart; I will tell you that if you don't work hard, you will be trampled to death by life. No excuse is needed. Nothing is the reason for fighting.
學著主宰自己的生活，不自憐、不自卑、不怨嘆。一日一日來，一步一步走。你痛過，才會懂得，你跨越過，才會成熟。你總是要失去了什麼，才會懂得珍惜什麼。你總是要碰了壁，才會懂得改變什麼，放棄什麼。Learn to dominate your life, not self-pity, not inferiority, not complain. Day by day, step by step. Only when you have suffered can you understand that only when you have crossed can you be mature. You always have to lose something to know what to treasure. You always have to hit a wall before you know what to change and what to give up.
「當基督教太過基於信仰，而忽略了以耶穌的方式生活或者從耶穌的角度看世界時，它的精髓就消失了」"When Christianity is too faith-based to live in the way of Jesus or look at the world from the perspective of Jesus, its essence disappears."
不管花開花落，有你就有完美的生活;且看雲捲雲舒，有你是我生命的愉悅。細碎時光，悠長歲月，愛如參天樹，開出甜蜜花。Whether flowers blossom or fall, you have a perfect life; and look at the clouds, you are the joy of my life. Fragmentation of time, long years, love like a towering tree, blossom sweet flowers.
成年人相處和睦，最重要的一點是：不要拿自己的生活方式去要求別人。你之所以會覺得累，是因為你說的比做得多，欲望大過本事。想要改變卻又無能為力，想要順其自然卻又無法心安理得。 尊敬一個人是要尊敬他的行為，而不是他的年齡。如果一個人的行為不正確，那麼不管他多大歲數，都不能尊敬他，反而要去指責他。Adults live in harmony, the most important thing is: don't ask others for their own way of life. The reason why you feel tired is that you say more than you do, and your desire is greater than your ability. Want to change but can't do anything, want to let nature go, but can't feel at ease. To respect a person is to respect his behavior, not his age. If a person's behavior is incorrect, no matter how old he is, he can't be respected. Instead, he should be accused.
祝你早日攢夠失望，然後，開始新的生活。願你貪吃不胖，願你懶惰不醜，願你深情不被辜負。願你想要的都擁有，得不到的都釋懷。I wish you enough disappointment as soon as possible, and then start a new life. May you be greedy and not fat, lazy and not ugly, and heartfelt and unfailing. May you have what you want and let go of what you don't get.
活得鬆弛些吧，不必事事盡心到折磨自己，神經緊繃到疲憊不堪。把生活當成一場「即興發揮」，會輕鬆自在很多，偶爾的失態也很可愛。Live more relaxedly. You don't have to go all out to torture yourself. Your nerves are tense and exhausted. Think of life as an "improvisation" and you'll be relaxed and relaxed. Occasionally, you'll be lovely.
我希望我能過的更好，我希望我以後遇到的那個人會很珍惜我，不要求你有多有錢，不要求你有多愛我，只希望我們在一起的時候是彼此能夠坦城，能夠在一起生活。對於即將到來的分別我不後悔，不屬於自己的要勇敢丟掉。I hope I can live a better life. I hope the person I meet in the future will cherish me very much. I don't ask how rich you are. I don't ask how much you love me. I just hope that when we are together, we can be honest with each other and live together. I don't regret the coming parting, but I have to be brave to throw it away if I don't belong to myself.