不要總是把自己看的很重要,更不要高估自己在別人心目中的地位,你要知道,當你還什麼都不是的時候,你在別人眼裡就是一文不值的。
Don't always think of themselves is very important, more don't overestimate their own position in the eyes of others, you have to know, when you are still nothing, you are worthless in the eyes of others.
這個世界上的任何人都不會去看重你的自尊,別人只看重你的能力,當你有能力以後,你才能去維護自己的自尊,所以,在你還沒有任何能力之前,不要過分看重自己的自尊。
No one in this world will value your self-esteem, others only value your ability, when you have the ability, you can maintain their own self-esteem, so, before you have no ability, do not overvalue their own self-esteem.
你現在還不努力,難道你希望你你討厭的那些人比你過得還好嗎?
You're not trying. Do you want the people you hate to be better off than you are?
其實當你有了悲傷的情緒,不必急著去告訴別人,想要從別人那裡得到關懷同情,儘量自己把這種情緒藏得好一點吧!因為當你告訴別人時,別人的一句怎麼了?可能就是在嘲笑你。
In fact, when you have a sad emotion, don't rush to tell others, want to get care and sympathy from others, try to hide this emotion better! Because when you tell someone, what's wrong with their sentence? Maybe just laughing at you.
其實這個世界或許就是這樣,有些事情不是你努力就可以改變的,十塊錢的人民幣,就算設計得再好看,也沒有100塊的招人喜歡不是嗎?
In fact, this is probably the world, some things can not be changed by your efforts, 10 yuan of RMB, even if the design is beautiful, there is no 100 yuan to attract people, right?
曾經的我以為愛情可以填滿我人生的遺憾,可是殊不知給你生活留下遺憾的,卻正是愛情。
Once I thought that love could fill my life regret, but little did I know to leave your life regret, but it is love.
其實這一生最怕的不是在錯誤的時間遇到對的人,而是在錯誤的時間裡,你竟然已經用光了你畢生所有的勇氣。
In fact, the biggest fear in this life is not to meet the right person at the wrong time, but in the wrong time, you have used up all the courage in your life.
你要努力,你必須要認清現實,你這一生你想要的只有你自己才能給你自己。
You have to work hard, you have to be realistic, all you want in this life is only you can give yourself.
這個世界最現實錢又讓人無奈的就是,你在經歷了那麼多痛苦之後,可是依然還沒有變成你理想中的自己。
The most realistic and frustrating thing about money in the world is that after all the pain, you still haven't become the person you want to be.
其實你在最困難的時候,最能讓你依靠的人,也許你在春風得意時最容易被你忽視的人,就比如父母,那些很好心,但是並不優秀的朋友。
In fact, when you are in the most difficult time, the people you can rely on the most, maybe you are the most easy to be ignored when you are on the top of the world, such as your parents, those well-meaning but not excellent friends.
結語:現在的社會現實告訴我們,你有什麼都不能有事,沒什麼都不能沒錢,動什麼都別動真感情,這些就像三條高壓線一樣,懸在我們的生活中,一旦觸碰,就很可能讓自己遍體鱗傷。
Conclusion: The current social reality tells us, you have what can not occupy, nothing can not do without money, move what don't move true feelings, these are like three high-tension lines, hanging in our lives, once touched, it is likely to let their black and blue.
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