其實呀，能夠真正讓人變得成熟的並不是時間，而是你這一路走來所經歷的事情。
Well, it's not time that really matures people, it's what you experience along the way.
你沒有真正經歷過別人的事情，就沒有資格隨便去評價別人，管好自己的嘴，是一個成年人首先應該要做到的事情。
You have not really experienced other people's affairs, you have no right to casually judge others, mind your own mouth, is an adult should be the first thing to do.
其實啊！我們生活或者工作中的一些事情很簡單，並不複雜，真正複雜的是人心。
In fact! Some things in our life or work are simple and not complicated. What is really complicated is the human heart.
其實這個世界上根本就沒有什麼絕對正確的選擇，作為一個成年人，誰沒有經歷過被迫選擇呢？但是，很多的時候，恰恰是因為沒有選擇，而不得不選的緣故，才促使了能夠更快的成長。
In fact, there is no absolutely right choice in this world. As an adult, who hasn't experienced being forced to choose? However, most of the time, it is just because there is no choice, and had to choose the reason, which promotes the faster growth.
作為一個成熟理智的人應該要懂得情緒對我們做任何決定都會有影響，所以我們要謹記：開心的時候，不要給任何承諾，生氣的時候，也不要給任何的答覆，更不要在深夜傷心的時候做任何的決定，如若不然，肯定會後悔！
As a mature and rational person, we should understand that emotions will have an impact on any decision we make, so we should bear in mind: when happy, do not give any commitment, angry, do not give any reply, not to make any decision at night sad, if not, will certainly regret!
作為一個成熟的人，你應該要明白這個世界上你只有靠你自己不斷的努力，才會過上你自己想要的生活，如果你不努力，就算別人想拉你一把，都會找不到你的手在哪裡，這真的是一個很現實的問題。
As a mature person, you should understand that only by your continuous efforts in this world can you live the life you want. If you don't work hard, even if others want to help you, they will not find where your hand is. This is really a very realistic problem.
成熟跟成長雖然只相差一字，但是它們的意義卻大不相同，成長是你可能會得到一些和失去一些，但是成熟卻是一個很痛的詞，它不一定會得到些什麼，但是卻一定會讓你失去一些什麼你才會變得成熟起來！
Although maturity and growth only differ in one word, but their meaning is very different, growth is you may get some and lose some, but mature is a very painful word, it may not get something, but it will certainly let you lose something you will become mature!
成熟的人們在回首往昔時，可能會突然發現，當初那個你做過最艱難的選擇，卻最終成為了你，為自己做過最棒的一件事情。
Mature people may look back and suddenly realize that the toughest choice you ever made turned out to be the best thing you ever did for yourself.
成熟就是我們已經學會了不逞嘴上之勇，認清自己，適時的放下自己嘴上的驕傲，勇敢認錯，其實這並不是認輸而是一種成長一種真正的成熟。
Maturity is that we have learned to be courageous, recognize themselves, timely put down their mouth pride, brave to admit mistakes, in fact, this is not to admit defeat but a kind of growth and a real mature.
結語：真正成熟的人，在說話前一定會三思而後行，謹記！
Conclusion: Truly mature people, before speaking will certainly think twice, remember!
看透人生的經典說說句子，精闢有理，讓人越看越寬心！
讓人看了一秒淚崩的句子，簡短扎心，看完想哭