現在或許很多人窮其一生都不會遇到真愛,可能最終會敗給現實,因為迫於家人的壓力,迫於世俗的眼光誘,又或者因為害怕自己就這樣孤獨地死去所以便隨便找了一個人,兩個人這樣互相飼養著過一輩子。
Now, perhaps many people will never meet true love in their whole life. They may finally lose to reality, because they are pressured by their families, attracted by worldly opinions, or because they are afraid of dying alone so that they can find a random person, two people like this feed each other for a lifetime.
我想那些從小就生活在充滿愛的家庭裡長大的孩子,他們身上所散發出來的自信和溫柔大概是那些從小生活在沒有愛的環境下長大的孩子一輩子都沒有辦法做到的。
I think those children who have been brought up in a loving family may exude confidence and tenderness that those children who have been brought up without love can never achieve in their whole life.
人好像總是這樣,總是會有自己求而不得的那種人生,後來,便也不求了,時間久了,或許就連自己當初求的是什麼都忘記了,與其說是忘記不如說是放棄。
People always seem to be like this, there will always be their own kind of life, and then, they also do not ask, for a long time, maybe even their original ask is forgotten, not so much to forget as to give up.
其實在這個世界上哪有絕對的正確,你每一次的選擇其實對於你來說都是正確的,只不過是你需要努力的去奮鬥,讓別人看到你當初的選擇是正確的而已。
In fact, there is no absolute right in this world. Every choice you make is right for you, but you need to strive hard to let others see that your original choice is right.
或許剛開始的我們只是假裝堅強,可是後來裝著裝著,就在不知不覺中變得真的堅強了。
Maybe we just pretend to be strong at the beginning, but then we dress up and become really strong imperceptibly.
你要記住,生活不是我們用來妥協的,遇到事情你退縮得越多,那麼留給你喘息的空間就越少,愛情也是這樣,你表現得越卑微,那麼幸福就會離你越來越遠,其實很多事情都是這樣,你沒有必要把自己放得太低,屬於你自己的,你就要努力地去爭取,而那些讓你不好過的,你也沒有必要去容忍,只有你自己挺直腰板,你才能活得像你自己。
You want to remember, life is not what we used to compromise, with the more things you retreat, then to you breathing space is less, so also love, you did the more humble, then happiness will be far from you is more and more,
in fact, a lot of things to do this, you don't need to put yourself too low, belongs to your own, you must try to strive for, and those who make you unhappy, you don't need to tolerate, also only you straightened up, will you be able to live like yourself.
越長大你就越會知道,人生在世,很多事情都會很矛盾,比如對於一個人,如果你不主動的話,肯定會失去,但是如果你太主動,別人又不會去珍惜,這分寸感真的很難拿捏,或許這就是人心吧!
The older you grow up, the more you will know that life, a lot of things will be very contradictory, for example, for a person, if you do not take the initiative, will certainly lose, but if you are too active, others will not cherish, this sense of share is really difficult to hold, perhaps this is the heart of it!
結語:有時候你真的不得不去相信,這個世界上有一些人和事,真的不是你努力了就可以達到和擁有的,或許這就是現實!
Conclusion: Sometimes you really have to believe that there are some people and things in the world, really not your efforts can be achieved and have, maybe this is the reality!
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