一、與其一直留戀錯過的東西,不如學著去欣賞眼前的人和事。
it's better to learn to appreciate the people and things in front of you than to miss things all the time.
二、小時侯覺得一天好長,一學期好長,盼著時間快點過,長大後覺得,一年好短,一輩子好短,抬眼已是半生。
When I was a child, I felt that a day was long and a semester was long. I looked forward to the time passing quickly. When I grew up, I felt that a year was short and a life was short.
三、努力的意義是當所有美好的事情奔我而來的時候,我能夠坦然地張開雙臂擁抱它,並且覺得我值得。
The meaning of hard work is that when all the good things come to me, I can embrace them with open arms and feel that I deserve it.
四、生活最好的治癒系是工作,一旦忙碌起來,什麼壞情緒都會被拋之腦後,疲憊到沒精力矯情。
the best cure for life is work, once busy, any bad mood will be left behind, tired to have no energy.
五、所有平淡的日子,在日曬雨淋當中的辛苦,在風吹雨打當中的奔波,終會在歲月的下一刻,綻放出奪目的光彩。
all dull days, in the sun and rain of the hard, in the wind and rain among the rush, will eventually in the years of the next moment, bloom a dazzling brilliance.
六、不說人短,不思人過,不念人惡,不揚人錯,能過就是生活,能走就是道路。莫嫌路顛簸,世界本曲折。
not short, do not think of people, do not think of people evil, do not Yang people wrong, can live is the life, can walk is the road. Don't think the road is bumpy, the world is tortuous.
七、我始終相信,走過平湖煙雨歲月山河,那些歷盡劫數嘗遍人間百味的人,會更加生動而乾淨。
I always believe that through the Years of Pinghu mountains and rivers, those who have experienced all kinds of taste of the world, will be more vivid and clean.
八、你早晚都要明白:答非所問就是回答、沉默不語就是拒絕、閃爍不定就是謊言、敬而遠之就是不喜、僅此而已,毋庸置疑。
you have to understand sooner or later: irrelevant answer is to answer, silence is to refuse, flickering uncertainty is a lie, give a respectful distance is not happy, that's all, beyond doubt.
九、做不到的就不要輕易說出口了,比悲傷更令人悲傷的是空歡喜。
If you can't do it, don't say it easily. What is more sad than sadness is empty joy.
十、沒必要去你不想去的聚會,沒必要討好所有觀眾,沒必要讓自己顯得很合群,你的時間應該留在讓自己更好上,畢竟世界上大多數人只看得見你的優秀。
There is no need to go to the party you don't want to go, there is no need to please all the audience, there is no need to make yourself seem to fit in, your time should be spent on making yourself better, after all, most people in the world only see your excellence.
十一、每次崩潰的理由別人看來是小題大做,只有自己心裡清楚這根稻草到底壓垮了多少千斤重的難過。
Each collapse of the reason others seem to be a storm in a teacup, only their hearts know how much this straw crushed the weight of the sad.
十二、世界的模樣,取決於你凝視它的目光,自己的價值取決於你的追求與心態。一切美好的願望,不是在等待中擁有,而是在奮鬥中爭取!
The shape of the world, depends on the eyes you gaze at it, your value depends on your pursuit and mentality. All good wishes, not in waiting to have, but in the struggle for!
十三、沒有必要讓別人改變,把愛留給對的人,減少無聊社交,多運動,多睡覺,人生無限美好。
there is no need to let others change, leave love to the right person, less boring social, more exercise, more sleep, life is infinitely beautiful.
十四、你這一生一世,可別去求人家什麼。人家心中想給你,你不用求,人家自然會給你;人家不肯的,你便苦苦哀求也是無用,反而惹得人家討厭。——金庸
In your whole life, don't ask others for anything. If someone wants to give it to you, don't ask, they will give it to you; If they refuse, it is useless to plead with them; they hate you. - jin yong
十五、悲觀的人雖生猶死,樂觀的人永生不老。
A pessimist has ceased to live, but an optimist never dies.
十六、真正幸福的人生,就是找一個人一起奮鬥,一起相愛,即便對方不是很有錢,即便你無法享受到悠閒自在的生活,但這才是你應該去經歷的真真實實,踏踏實實的人生。
the real happiness of life, is to find a person to struggle together, love each other, even if the other is not very rich, even if you can not enjoy the life of leisure, but this is you should go to experience the real, down-to-earth life.