一、想要自己多活幾年,記住了:人生短暫,過一天就少一天,不要把時間浪費在不開心的事情上。看開、看淡,沒有什麼坎是過不去的。
Want to live a few more years, remember: life is short, one day less, do not waste time on unhappy things. Open, light, there is no obstacle can not pass.
二、翻臉不如翻身,生氣不如爭氣。活著不是靠淚水博得同情,而是靠汗水贏得掌聲。Turn over rather than turn over, angry rather than fight. Living does not depend on tears to win sympathy, but on sweat to win applause.
三、不要太乖,不想做的事可以拒絕,做不到的事不用勉強,不喜歡的話假裝沒聽見。Don't be too good, don't want to do things can be rejected, can not do things do not force, do not like words pretend not to hear.
四、我失望到頂點後,就再不會回頭了。畢竟,你有你的執著,我也有我的灑脫。When I'm disappointed, there's no turning back. After all, you have your persistence, I also have my free and easy.
五、我可以笑著給你講道理,也可以翻臉告訴你什麼叫規矩。I can laugh and reason with you, or I can turn around and tell you the rules.
六、有的人總是在尋找,凡到手的,都不是他要的。有的人從來不尋找,凡到手的,都是他要的。各有各的活法,好不好,天知道。Some people are always looking for, and whatever they get, it's not what he wants. Some people never look for it, and whatever they get, it's what they want. Each has his own way of life, okay, God knows.
七、歲月讓我知道了除了快遞、工資、公交車、下班和大姨媽,我誰都不必等。Years have taught me that I don't have to wait for anyone but express delivery, pay, buses, work and my period.
八、哪有什麼錯過的人,會離開的都是路人。哪有什麼命運不公,都是懶惰讓你變得無能。
There's no one to miss, and people who leave are just passers-by. What fate is unjust, it is laziness that makes you incompetent.
九、哪有什麼選擇恐懼症,還不是因為窮;哪有什麼優柔寡斷,還不是因為慫。There is no choice phobia, not because of poverty; There's no such thing as indecision, it's not because of wuss.
十、別總是恃寵而驕,別讓肯對你好的人受夠了你裝的逼,愛是相互的,沒人欠你的。Don't always be arrogant, and don't let Ken be good to the people enough you pretend to be forced, love is mutual, no one owes you.
十一、道不同不相為謀,你討厭我,我也未必喜歡你,何必咄咄逼人費了口舌也討人嫌,你閒得慌但是我沒空陪你。
The way is different, you hate me, I do not necessarily like you, why aggressive effort of speech is also annoying, you are busy but I do not have time to accompany you.
十二、愛可以簡簡單單,但不能隨隨便便。我的微笑可以給任何人,但我的心只能給一個人。Love can be simple, but not casual. My smile can be given to anyone, but my heart can only be given to one person.
十三、成年人的世界,應該是乾脆又果斷。不耽誤任何人,不消耗任何人,不浪費任何人,這是一種善良。The world of the adult should be straightforward and decisive. It is good not to delay anyone, not to consume anyone, not to waste anyone.
十四、事實證明,女人更見不得男人的眼淚。女人哭,女人輸;男人哭,還是女人輸。It turns out that women are less likely to see men's tears. Women cry, women lose; Men cry, women lose.
十五、永遠都要活給自己看,而且笑容要特別燦爛,別在乎別人的指指點點,做好你自己,讓看不起你的人高攀不起,讓看得起你的人更喜歡你。
Always live to see, and smile especially bright, do not care about other people's pointing, do your own, so that those who look down on you can not afford to climb, so that people who can look up to you like you more.
十六、你要和我計較,我絕對不會大方。你要特別慷慨,我絕對比你敞亮。你心換我心,真心對真心。If you're gon na argue with me, I'm not gon na be generous. You have to be very generous. I'm definitely brighter than you. Your heart for mine, your heart for mine.
十七、從今天開始,做個難相處的人,盡情盡興的給討厭的人甩臉子,光明正大給喜歡的人說情話,情願少活幾年,只想痛快一點。
From today, to be a difficult person, enjoy the face of the annoying people, fair to the people who love to say, would rather live a few years, just want to be happy.
十八、人生沒什麼好迷茫的,走的隨意一點瀟灑一點,反正終點都是定好的,又不用怕迷路。Life is nothing to be confused, go casual a bit of dashing, anyway the end point is fixed, do not be afraid to get lost.
十九、在這個年頭裡:能幹的不如能說的,有情的不如有顏的,掏心的不如掏錢的,厚道的不如圓滑的!In this year: capable is not as good as can be said, there is love is not as good as Yan, the heart is not as good as the money, the magnanimity is not as smooth!
二十、沒有人是生來就無情的,都是經歷並看到了太多自己不想看到的,而選擇了關上自己的某扇門。No one is born ruthless, are experienced and see too much they do not want to see, and choose to close their own door.