一、每一夜都能幹乾淨淨，心安理得筋疲力盡地入睡，每一天也能清清爽爽，心平氣和精神充沛地醒來，這就是最好的生活。
It's the best life to be clean every night, to fall asleep exhausted with peace of mind, to wake up fresh, calm and energetic every day.
二、車子有油，手機有電，卡裡有錢，這就是安全感，指望別人都是扯淡。再牛逼的副駕駛，都不如自己緊握方向盤。
The car has oil, the cell phone has electricity, and Cary has money. That's the sense of security. It expects others to be bullshit. No matter how hard the co-driver is, it's better to grip the steering wheel by himself.
三、什麼是完美？就是耳機音量剛好能蓋過外界噪音，鬧鐘響起時你剛好自然醒，你愛的人剛好也愛你。
What is perfect? It's the volume of the headphones that just covers the outside noise. When the alarm clock rings, you just wake up naturally, and the person you love just loves you.
四、無論你在哪個年齡段，我想我們都應該學會對身邊的人溫柔一些，至少說出來的話不要給別人添堵，因為你可能不知道，語言真的有一種神奇的力量，它會讓你愛的人愛你，也會讓愛你的人決定離開你。
No matter what age you are, I think we should all learn to be gentle with the people around us, at least not to add to others by saying things, because you may not know that language really has a magical power, it will let the person you love love love love you, will also let the person who loves you decide to leave you.
五、做不了決定的時候，讓時間幫你決定。如果還是無法決定，做了再說。寧願犯錯，不留遺憾。When you can't make a decision, let time decide for you. If you still can't decide, do it again. Better make mistakes than regret.
六、越長大就越發覺，最離不開的還是家人，不求多富貴，我要我的家人都無痛無病無災，身體健康就很好了。
The older I grow up, the more I realize that the most important thing I can do is to have my family. I don't want to be rich or rich. I want my family to be painless, disease-free and healthy.
七、漸漸的知道了，很多東西可遇而不可求，不屬於自己的，何必拼了命去在乎，你在意什麼，什麼就會折磨你，期待是所有心痛的根源。
Gradually learned that many things can be met but not sought, do not belong to their own, why desperately care about, you care about what, what will torture you, expectation is the root of all heartache.
八、人，永遠不會珍惜三種人：一是輕易得到的；二是永遠不會離開的；三是那個一直對你很好的。但是，往往這三種人一旦離開就永遠不會再回來。
People will never cherish three kinds of people: one is easy to get; the other is never to leave; and the third is that it has always been good for you. But often these three people will never come back once they leave.
九、不必太糾結於當下，也不必太憂慮未來，當你經歷過一些事情的時候，眼前的風景已經和從前不一樣了。
Don't be too obsessed with the present or worry about the future. When you experience something, the scenery is different from the past.
十、和誰都別熟得太快，不要以為剛開始話題一致，共同點很多，你們就是相見恨晚的知音。語言很多時候都是假的，一起經歷的才是真的。
Don't get acquainted with anyone too quickly. Don't think that the topic is the same at the beginning. There are many things in common. You are the intimate friends who hate meeting late. Language is often false, and what we experience together is true.
十一、很多關係，不是老的好，也不是新的好，而是一起經歷了一些事之後，你還真切的覺得對方挺好，這才是值得你去認真對待和掏心窩子的關係。
Many relationships are not good old or new, but after some experiences together, you really feel that the other party is good, which is the relationship that deserves your serious attention and heart.
十二、一些該拿起的要拿起，一些該捨棄的要捨棄。因為，只有讓該結束的結束了，該開始的才會開始。
Some should be picked up, some should be abandoned. Because, only let the end of the end, the beginning will begin.
十三、無論你遇見誰，他都是你生命該出現的人，絕非偶然，他一定會教會你一些什麼。所以我也相信：無論我走到哪裡，那都是我該去的地方，經歷一些我該經歷的事，遇見我該遇見的人。
No matter who you meet, he's the right person in your life. It's no accident. He'll teach you something. So I also believe that wherever I go, it's my place to go, to experience something I should experience, to meet the people I should meet.
十四、人生是一本書，封面是父母給的，內容是自己寫的，厚度由本人決定，精彩程度可以自己創造。Life is a book, the cover is given by parents, the content is written by oneself, the thickness is decided by oneself, the magnificence can be created by oneself.
十五、大喜大悲看清自己，大起大落看清朋友。沒有一個足夠寬容的心，就看不到一個春光明媚的世界。Great joy, great sorrow, see yourself, great ups and downs, see friends. Without a tolerant heart, we can't see a bright spring world.
十六、永遠都要活給自己看，而且笑容要特別燦爛，別在乎別人的指指點點，做好你自己，讓看不起你的人高攀不起，讓看得起你的人更喜歡你。
Always live for yourself, and the smile should be particularly brilliant, don't care about other people's advice, do yourself well, so that those who look down on you can not climb up, so that those who look up to you like you more.
十七、太過遷就別人，別人就會變本加厲的為難你；太過忍讓別人，別人就會得寸進尺的傷害你。事實上你所遇見的人，多數都是被你的「好」給慣出來的。
Too much accommodation will make others more difficult for you; too much tolerance will make others hurt you inch by inch. In fact, most of the people you meet are accustomed to your "good".
十八、來生，想做一朵蒲公英，無牽無掛，無欲無求，起風而行，風靜而安。不亂於心，不困於情，不畏將來，不念過去，如此，安好。
In the next life, I want to be a dandelion, without concern, without desire or desire. I want to walk in the wind, quiet and peaceful. Don't be confused in the heart, don't be trapped in the feelings, don't fear the future, don't think about the past, so, well.
十九、決定放棄了的事，就請放棄得乾乾淨淨。那些決定再也不見面的人，就真的不要見面了。請不要讓我再做背叛自己的事了。如果要愛別人，就請先好好愛自己。
If you decide to give up, please give up cleanly. Those who decide never to meet again really don't want to meet. Please don't let me betray myself any more. If you want to love others, please love yourself first.
二十、不要期待，不要假想，不要強求，順其自然，如果註定，便一定會發生。心安，便是活著的最美好狀態。
Don't expect, don't imagine, don't demand, let it be, if destined, it will happen. Peace of mind is the best state of being alive.