眼看快到年底了，按以往的習慣，廠子裡又開始動員大家捐款，向貧困職工家庭送「溫暖」。 今年捐款的積極性不如往年，眼看離規定的截止期限已沒幾天，捐款缺口還差老大一截。工會經辦人有些心急，就找領導反映，建議與其這樣被動地等大家捐款，還不如乾脆從每個人的工資裡直接扣錢。領導不同意，說這畢竟是捐款，得本著自願原則，從工資裡扣就是強迫了，不妥當。 怎麼辦？工會裡一個叫「機靈鬼」的人靈機一動，叫工會經辦人去人事部拿來一本職工花名冊，然後把全部職工的名字都抄寫在紅榜上。經辦人有些納悶：其中好些人沒捐款，捐款數額一欄怎麼填啊？機靈鬼狡黠地一笑：沒捐的，就填0元好了。 結果紅榜一貼出，前來捐款的人接踵而至，且全是捐款數額為0元的那些人。事後一統計，這次送「溫暖」捐款的總額，竟比往年足足翻了一番。It's almost the end of the year. As usual, the factory has started to mobilize people to donate money to send "warmth" to the families of poor workers. The enthusiasm of this year's donation is not as good as in previous years. It's only a few days before the deadline, and the donation gap is still big. The operator of the trade union was a little anxious, so he went to the leader to reflect. He suggested that instead of passively waiting for everyone to donate money, he should simply deduct money from everyone's salary. The leader didn't agree. He said that it was a donation after all. He had to be on a voluntary basis. It was forced to deduct money from his salary, which was inappropriate. What should I do? A man called "smart ghost" in the trade union had an idea. He asked the operator of the trade union to go to the personnel department to get a staff roster, and then transcribed the names of all the staff on the red list. The operator was a little puzzled: many of them didn't donate money. How to fill in the column of donation amount? Smart ghost cunningly smile: no donation, just fill in 0 yuan. As a result, as soon as the red list was posted, people came to donate money, and all of them were those who donated 0 yuan. According to statistics afterwards, the total amount of donations for "warmth" this time has doubled compared with previous years. 眼看快到年底了，按以往的習慣，廠子裡又開始動員大家捐款，向貧困職工家庭送「溫暖」。 今年捐款的積極性不如往年，眼看離規定的截止期限已沒幾天，捐款缺口還差老大一截。工會經辦人有些心急，就找領導反映，建議與其這樣被動地等大家捐款，還不如乾脆從每個人的工資裡直接扣錢。領導不同意，說這畢竟是捐款，得本著自願原則，從工資裡扣就是強迫了，不妥當。 怎麼辦？工會裡一個叫「機靈鬼」的人靈機一動，叫工會經辦人去人事部拿來一本職工花名冊，然後把全部職工的名字都抄寫在紅榜上。經辦人有些納悶：其中好些人沒捐款，捐款數額一欄怎麼填啊？機靈鬼狡黠地一笑：沒捐的，就填0元好了。 結果紅榜一貼出，前來捐款的人接踵而至，且全是捐款數額為0元的那些人。事後一統計，這次送「溫暖」捐款的總額，竟比往年足足翻了一番。It's almost the end of the year. As usual, the factory has started to mobilize people to donate money to send "warmth" to the families of poor workers. The enthusiasm of this year's donation is not as good as in previous years. It's only a few days before the deadline, and the donation gap is still big. The operator of the trade union was a little anxious, so he went to the leader to reflect. He suggested that instead of passively waiting for everyone to donate money, he should simply deduct money from everyone's salary. The leader didn't agree. He said that it was a donation after all. He had to be on a voluntary basis. It was forced to deduct money from his salary, which was inappropriate. What should I do? A man called "smart ghost" in the trade union had an idea. He asked the operator of the trade union to go to the personnel department to get a staff roster, and then transcribed the names of all the staff on the red list. The operator was a little puzzled: many of them didn't donate money. How to fill in the column of donation amount? Smart ghost cunningly smile: no donation, just fill in 0 yuan. As a result, as soon as the red list was posted, people came to donate money, and all of them were those who donated 0 yuan. According to statistics afterwards, the total amount of donations for "warmth" this time has doubled compared with previous years.在心理學上，有一種係數叫作「樂觀係數」或「悲觀係數」，這種係數的力量佔實際現象的百分之二十。就是說，如果一個人有樂觀的心，他比平常會多百分之二十的機率遇到開心的事；反之，如果一個人心情「鬱卒」，也會比平常人多百分之二十的機率遇到痛苦的事。這不就是「病母」嗎？不就是「西瓜偎大邊」嗎？我們如果要開開心心過日子，那非得先有一個歡喜的心不可，老祖母不是教過我們「坐乎正，得人疼」嗎？ 要有歡喜心，一則不要太執著，對自己的習性要常放下，老先覺們時常教我們「無魚，蝦也好」「一兼二顧，摸蛤兼洗褲；有就摸蛤，無就洗褲」「這溪無魚，別溪釣」。 一個人如果老是放不下，「一腳戶定內，一腳戶定外」（一腳在門檻裡面，一腳在門檻外面）；或者「柄驚死，放驚飛」（抓著鳥不放，捏太緊怕它死了，放了又怕飛走），那日子就會很難過，就會「燒瓷的吃缺，織席的困椅」（燒瓷器的人用破的碗，織草蓆的卻睡在椅子上）「裁縫師傅穿破衫，做木的師傅沒眠床」。In psychology, there is a coefficient called "optimistic coefficient" or "pessimistic coefficient", which accounts for 20% of the actual phenomenon. That is to say, if a person is optimistic, he will encounter happy things 20% more than usual; on the contrary, if a person is depressed, he will encounter painful things 20% more than ordinary people. Isn't this "sick mother"? Isn't "watermelon nestling in the big side"? If we want to have a happy life, we must have a happy heart first. Didn't the old grandmother teach us to sit upright and get hurt? To be happy, on the one hand, don't be too persistent. We should always let go of our own habits. The old pioneers often teach us that "it's better to have no fish or shrimp", "to care about both the clam and the trousers; to touch the clam, to wash the trousers when there is nothing" and "if there is no fish in this stream, don't fish in the stream". If a person is always unable to put down the "one foot in the door, one foot in the outside" (one foot in the threshold, the other outside the threshold); or "the handle is scared to death, let it fly" (holding the bird, pinching it too tightly, afraid it will die, let it fly away), the day will be very sad, will "lack of porcelain firing, mat weaving chair" (people who make straw mats with broken bowls Sleeping on the chair "the tailor wears a ragged shirt, but the wood master doesn't sleep.". People who can't let go are often "good people, begging for life". Obviously, he is a very rich man, but he lives like a beggar, which reminds us of the poor man in the Sutra who does not know that there are jewels in his clothes. To have a happy heart, two must always have the heart of Thanksgiving, and often give the blessing to others. 放不下的人，往往是「好額人，乞食命」。明明是很富有的人，卻過著像乞丐一樣的生活，使我們想起《佛經》裡那個不知道衣服裡有寶珠的窮人。 要有歡喜心，二則要常有感恩的心，並常常把福分分給別人。 「相分吃有春，相搶吃無份。」（互相分食，就會有剩餘，互相搶食，就會吃不夠。） 「人情留一線，日後好相看。」 「大家賺，卡昧貧。」（大家都有賺錢，才不會窮，不要想所有的錢都自己賺。） 「吃人一斤，要還人四兩。」 「食果子，拜樹頭；食米飯，敬鋤頭。」 在人生的過程中，遇到不如意的事是正常的，但不要使那不如意成為我們生命中的「病母」，而應該成為我們生命中的「酵母」，增長我們的智慧，常養我們的悲心。"If you eat separately, you will have spring; if you rob, you will have no share." (if you share food with each other, you will have surplus; if you rob each other, you will not eat enough.) "Leave a line of human feelings and see each other well in the future." "Everybody makes money, Carmichael." (if everyone makes money, you will not be poor. Don't think you can make all your money by yourself.) "If you eat a kilo, you have to pay back four or two." "Eat fruit, worship tree head; eat rice, respect hoe." In the process of life, it's normal to encounter something unsatisfactory, but don't make it the "sick mother" in our life, but should become the "yeast" in our life, so as to increase our wisdom and cultivate our sadness. F！一世巔峰林炎柳幕妍免費閱讀·一世巔峰林炎免費閱讀·林炎柳幕妍小說