There is a kind of friend, which is based on mutual utilization. Ouyang Xiu said in his "theory of friends" that "those who are fond of villains will be rewarded with profits, and those who are greedy will be rich. When they are in the same interest, the temporary prime minister will be regarded as a friend In reality, if you have used it, you will break up. If you can't squeeze oil, you will give up. Just now, you can't tell each other apart from your friends. If you turn your back, you will become a crow and sparrow. There are many "false friends" who can't speak any language.Maybe you often eat, drink and have fun together. It seems that you are very close to each other. Sometimes he does something for you and you help him with something. In fact, everyone has a "little nine nine" in his heart. Sometimes the voice of calculating the human relationship account can be heard. Is such a friend a friend?Perhaps you are an official, he takes your choice as the choice, takes your likes and dislikes as likes and dislikes. Look at your face. In order to please you, I bow down all day long, figure out your mind, stare wide eyes, erect ears, try to find out your hobbies, hobbies, temper, taste, and so on, and then some put "arrow" to their liking: if you like to fly in the clouds, you will be sent "China"; your children should go to school, send red envelope form to congratulate; when your birthday comes, that is, before running busy, after filial piety son How do you do with calligraphy, calligraphy and painting to get "treasure ink" hanging in the hall. You think he is a good friend, but the smile behind his face is full of fake rigidity. Is such a friend a friend? If you think so, he is also a friend with your official position.Maybe you're all officials and call each other old friends. You transfer his sister-in-law to your "one acre three parts of the land" to have a free meal. He takes your brother-in-law under his command as "staff". After meeting or calling to thank each other, maybe you two are trying to figure out who is more worthwhile. Is such a friend a friend?有一種朋友，是以互為利用作前提的，歐陽修在《朋黨論》裡說「小人所好者祿利也，所貪者財貨也。當其同利之時，暫相黨引以為朋者，偽也。」在現實中這樣利用過了便散夥，榨不出油就撒手，剛才還「朋友」成一坨稀泥分不出彼此，轉背就成了烏鴉麻雀不通語言的「偽朋友」者多矣。 或許你們經常在一起吃喝玩樂，看似十分投緣，有時他為你辦件事，你也幫他辦件事，其實各人心裡都打著「小九九」，有時算計人情帳的聲音都能聽得見，這樣的朋友是朋友嗎？ 或許你是個官，他以你的取捨為取捨，以你的好惡為好惡。看你的臉色說話。為了討得你的歡心，整天低眉折腰，揣摸你的心思，瞪大眼睛，豎起耳朵，設法對你的愛好、嗜好、脾氣、口味等進行摸底，然後有的放「矢」，投其所好：你愛騰雲駕霧，便送上大「中華」；你的孩子要上學，送上紅包表祝賀；你的壽誕到來即，跑前忙後孝過子；你好揮毫書字畫，求得「寶墨」堂中掛。你覺得他好夠朋友，可是那滿臉的笑容後面卻堆滿了假意的呆板，這樣的朋友是朋友嗎？如果你覺得是，那他也是和你的官位是朋友。 或許你們都是個官，互稱老朋友。你把他的小姨子調到你的「一畝三分地」吃閒飯，他把你的小舅子弄到他的麾下當「參謀」，見了面或打個電話互相致謝後，說不定你兩人正算計著誰更合算，這樣的朋友是朋友嗎？F!你是遲來的歡喜阮喻已免費{完結/全文}
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所有舊雨重逢的暗戀，都是蓄謀已久的套路。阮喻發表在晉江的作品《好想和你咬耳朵》被指抄襲。她發博感慨：天知道這個有關暗戀的故事，是我學生時代的親身經歷。對方作者回頭撥通一個電話：「哥，我好像……找到你暗戀對象了。」 幾天後，被人肉出來的阮喻看著她小說男主角的原型，連連擺手：「不認識，不認識……」 許淮頌微笑咬牙：耳朵都咬了，現在裝傻晚了吧。