本文部分中文素材來自GQ實驗室
轉眼間微信都已經存在8年了,從一開始的「某個app」,已經變成了生活中絕對不能沒有的一環。
現在出門聯繫父母靠微信,看新聞靠微信,連出婚禮的份子錢都可以靠微信,簡直就是已經活在微信裡了。
但是,直到今天,似乎還是有不少人不知道怎麼才能做一個得體的微信人。
不少新認識的人的一些舉動,真的……
今天英大就給大家盤點了25條「第一套全國微信禮儀基礎考試」,一起來看看自己和朋友都得了多少分吧~
不要隨便拉新人進私密群,拉之前問一下大家。
Don't just suddenly add someone new to a private group-chat. Ask for other members' consent first.
不要隨便把朋友的微信給陌生人。
Don't just decide to give your friends' numbers to strangers.
如果你還有某人的微信消息放著沒回復,不要在回復前發朋友圈。
If you left someone's messages unanswered, don't post anything new on Moments before you answer them.
不要在朋友圈發你和別人的對話截圖,除非先打馬賽克。
Don't post the sceenshots of your conversations with others on Moments without adding mosaic.
偷拍別人的照片別發朋友圈。
Don't post any photo that you took of someone secretly.
不是特別親密的話,不要發語音,別人不一定能聽,也不一定想聽。
Don't send voice message to someone you're not close to. They may not be able to listen to it. And they may not want to.
不要發60秒的長語音,也不要發OK一類的一秒語音。
Don't send a voice message as long as 60s. And don't send a voice message that contains something as short as an "OK".
誰先加的微信,誰就應該自報家門。
If you make the move to add someone else, you tell them who you are first.
不要給別人很久以前的朋友圈點讚,別人會覺得你在調查他。
Don't give thumbs-up to the posts that someone posted long time ago. It makes people feel like that you're investigating them.
不要連續點讚別人的一堆朋友圈,別人會覺得你在例行公事。
Don't give thumbs-up to a bunch of someone's posts in a row. It makes people feel like you're just doing it as a routine.
不熟不要打語音電話,打之前要先問問對方是不是方便。(視頻通話也一樣)
Don't make voice calls to someone who doesn't know you very well. If you do make such a call, ask first if it's convenient for them to do so. (It's the same for video calls)
不要主動加朋友的男女朋友的微信。
Don't ask to add a friend's boyfriend or girlfriend.
別發「在嗎」。那是人家的微信,他不在誰在?有正事直接說。
Don't ask someone "Are you there?"
It's their WeChat accounts, of course they are there.
If you have something to say, say it.
別給微信運動墊底的人點讚,那不是讚美,是侮辱。
Don't give thumbs-up to someone who ranked at the bottom of the WeChat Exercise. They won't take it as a compliment or encouragement. They'll take it as an insult.
聚會不要隨便拍視頻,別人不一定想被拍。
Don't just shoot videos of others when you hang out with them. They may not want to be in it.
長期不聯繫的人就不要去問有沒有員工優惠了。
If you haven't contacted someone in a long time. Don't ask them for employee discounts.
P圖不要只P自己,也不要把朋友P得太失真。
Don't only photoshop yourself in a group photo. And don't photoshop others beyond recognition.
不要找不熟的人代購。
Don't ask someone who doesn't know you that much to do overseas purchasing for you.
不要給別人發一堆淘寶連結然後讓對方給你當參謀,一個個點開看很麻煩。發截圖。
Don't just send a bunch of Taobao links to someone and ask for their advice. It's really annoying for them to open these links one by one. Send screenshots, please.
不要發「只有我一個人這麼覺得嗎」,大家可能根本不在乎你怎麼覺得。
Don't post things like "Am I really the only one who think this way?"
There are not that many people who care about what you think.
不要說「有句話不知道當講不當講」,誰都知道你打算講,而且現在誰都知道你虛偽。
Don't say things like "I don't know whether I should say this or not."
Everybody can see that you already plan to say it. And now everybody knows that you are fake.
要取關就直接取關,特地留言說「取關」很幼稚,而且很可能是在高估自己在對方心裡的重要程度。
If you want to unfollow someone, just unfollow them. It's really childish to tell them that you're about to unfollow them. And chances are high that you are overestimating how much you mean to them by doing so.
別用合照做頭像,不然不知道哪個是你。真那麼想用那張合照的話,就用成朋友圈封面。
Don't use a group photo as you avatar, or many people won't know which one is you. If you really want to use that photo, use it as the cover of you personal homepage.
太過私人的東西別發朋友圈,別人不一定想知道那麼多。
Don't post things too private on Moments. People may not want to know that much about you.
不要什麼內容都配個自拍,這會讓人很想屏蔽。
Don't post your selfies with everything you post. It really makes people want to block your posts.
這次考試你及格了嗎?
你考了多少分呢?
還是說你覺得這個考試根本不全面,你還有更多的禮儀要補充?全寫到留言區來吧!
來學習一些關於微信的英語吧:
朋友圈 WeChat Moment
群聊 group chat
自拍 selfie
語音通話 voice call
視頻通話 video call / facetime