導語：佔有欲就是愛情嗎？佔有欲和愛情到底有什麼區別呢？
喜歡，是看某物好甚至極好，隨之而來的念頭是：欲佔有。
To like is to look at something good or even excellent, and the following thought is: desire to possess.
愛，則多是看某物不好或還不夠好，其實是盼望它好以至非常好，隨之而得的激勵是：願付出。
Love is mostly about looking at something bad or not good enough. In fact, it is looking forward to it being good or even very good. The resulting incentive is: willing to give.
佔有是以自己為出發點，最終是為了自己高興，自己滿足。
Possession is based on yourself, and ultimately for your own happiness and satisfaction.
愛是走出了一己之私。學會聆聽，嘗試理解，在所愛之人的角度成全。
Love is going out of selfishness. Learn to listen, try to understand, and fulfill from the perspective of the one you love.
佔有欲是一隻冰冷堅硬的鐵爪，從我身上伸出來，把你一人攥住，看你掙扎又不能逃離，才是滿足。
Possessiveness is a cold and hard iron claw that stretches out from me, holding you alone, watching you struggle and can't escape, is content.
愛情是一陣暖融融的春風，我和你，兩個人一起處在這盈盈的微風中，便是滿足。
Love is a warm spring breeze, and you and I are satisfied when we are in this surging breeze together.
佔有欲是，自己不會和追求者在一起， 還希望追求者一直對自己好 ，不和別人在一起。
Possessiveness means that oneself will not be with the suitor, but also hope that the suitor will always be nice to oneself and not be with others.
愛情是怦然心動，是不厭其煩，是不顧一切傾情付出，愛對心上人朝思暮想魂牽夢繞，是為了ta所有的原則都可以破例，所有的底線都可以放下。
Love is a heartbeat, tirelessness, desperate effort, love to the sweetheart, dreaming and dreaming, so that all principles can be an exception, and all bottom lines can be laid down.