小孩子理解力尚且不足,但記憶力逆天的好,很多爸爸媽媽給孩子讀繪本,都會發現讀幾遍,孩子就能自己講了,然後覺得這本書會了,繼續下一本書吧.
小孩能讀下來一本書,和她理解一本書,有我們無法想像的距離.簡單說呢,就是她其實在鸚鵡學舌,未必理解.所以,繪本都要精讀的,無論漢語還是英語繪本,都要詳細給孩子解釋書裡的內容.不多說了,150節後課程會有英文繪本精讀.
再來看下一個問題.小孩子發脾氣,要不要管.要管,三歲以內一定要管.但不是批評她.她發脾氣的時候,一定要先一把抱過來.緊緊抱住,先哄好,安撫好情緒.然後等孩子開心了,或者情緒穩定了,再問她究竟怎麼了.接納情緒,比講道理有用.接納情緒是最好的教育.這也是在培養情商,孩子從小看著父母接納他的情緒,長大就會學著接納別人的情緒.
生活不可能一帆風順的,總有不如意的時候,和小孩子一樣,有人抱抱,就有力量.抱完了再去論短長利弊,論對錯得失,這是一個很重要的能力.不僅要教會寶寶,也要教會自己.接納別人情緒,是對別人寬容也是對自己寬容.
好啦,繼續第51天的英語啟蒙吧~
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親子互動場景1:
現在什麼最發達,商業,可以說是全民從商,好處是顯而易見的,想要什麼,點點手機就送到家了.玫瑰花,買的人多,養的人少,家裡買幾隻花苞,看著它開看著它謝,開謝也就半個月,短期易觀察,讓寶寶感受生命的變化發展和興衰.
可以進行如下對話:
Look.Here are a bunch of red roses.這是玫瑰
They are in bud.快開花了
Yes,bud.
We can see buds here.這麼多花蕾
Buds will develop into flowers in future.以後就變成花了
We will see flowers appear by then.到時就看到花了
Ok.Now let's take a good look at this rose.咱們好好看看玫瑰
It has long stems and green leaves.長長的莖和綠色的葉子
What are those pointed thing on the stems?莖上面尖尖的是什麼?
They are thorns.是刺
Touch them gently.輕輕摸下
Be careful.小心哦
They are pointed.
If we treat them without care,we may get hurt.一不小心就會受傷的
Just be very careful.
A lot of plants have thorns.很多植物有刺的
When we see them outside,mommy will show you.如果碰到,媽媽會指給你看的
OK.
Look at this picture.圖片在上面
This is a hedgehog.這是一隻刺蝟
Look at the things covering its back.看它背上
They look like thorns too.看起來像刺
But they aren't.
We call them spikes or spines.
They are as pointed as thorns.一樣尖尖的
Ok.
Now look at this.再看這個
What is it?
Mommy has told Baby before.以前告訴過寶寶的
Does Baby remember?還記得麼
It is a needle.是針
We use a needle to sew.
Touch this end of the needle.摸摸這頭
It is pointed as well.尖尖的
It is not a hedgehog or a rose.
It is a needle.
They are all pointed and powerful.它們都是尖尖的
They can hurt us easily.很容易傷到我們的
So we should be very careful with them.要格外小心
拓展:
1.過幾天,花開了,要和寶寶說:Look!Roses are in blossom.Look at these petals.How many petals does this flower have?1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,13,14.............
2.再過幾天,花謝了,要和孩子說:Look!Roses have withered.Petals of the flower drop on the floor.There are no petals left.All gone.
這個場景主要是感受尖尖的東西,無論是玫瑰刺,刺蝟,還是針,都是尖尖的.
親子互動場景2:
情商培養,從接納情緒開始.小孩子會哭,說明孩子是正常的,不哭不鬧的孩子,是需要仔細觀察的,看她是不是有什麼不對勁的地方,或者回顧下自己的育兒方式,是不是對孩子太冷漠.被呵護,在愛中長大的孩子,他理所當然會鬧人的,兩歲以內未必會撒嬌,但兩歲以後要注意區分她是故意撒嬌還是確實"不舒服',分心理不舒服和身體不舒服,無論哪種,都要先安撫好.
可以進行如下對話:
Oh,Baby is not happy.寶寶不高興了
Baby is crying.
Come here.
Let mommy give you a warm hug.媽媽抱抱吧
Mommy cradles Baby in arms.
Mommy kisses Baby on the forehead.親親額頭
Then another kiss on the cheek.親親臉蛋
Then another kiss on the cute hand.親親小手
Does Baby feel better now?好點了麼
No?
That's ok.
You seem so sad.這麼不高興
Something terrible may happen.沒準是發生了什麼事
What is it?
Did you hurt yourself?傷著了
Are you mad at mommy?生媽媽氣了
Do you fail to do something that you want to do?做不成事不高興
Is Baby not very well?不舒服
Is baby hungry?餓了
Or Baby just wants to be fussy?就是想發脾氣?
That's all right.
We have lots of things to play.我們有很多好玩的
Please don't be fussy.別發脾氣啦
Let's be happy.
Look,mommy is happy.媽媽開心
Mommy smiles.
Baby could smile too.寶寶笑一個吧
Oh,baby doesn't want to smile.不想笑?
Then don't.那就不笑哈
That's all right.
Let mommy hold you in arms and give you more kisses.再抱抱你親親你吧
Do you feel better now?感覺好點了麼
If you do,please nod your head.覺的好點就點點頭
All right.Baby is better now.寶寶好點啦
Could you tell mommy why you were so sad just now?剛才為什麼不開心啊
You can point to the things that make you sad.什麼讓你不開心了,指一下
Oh,baby has no idea of the reason.寶寶不知道呀
That's ok.沒事
Do you want to play something else now?咱們玩點別的吧
Let's go and play.
拓展:一歲內的孩子,她不會說話,很多人覺得孩子聽不懂,其實他都能聽懂.說的越多,越能聽懂.她會從大人的表情和語氣判斷大致的意思,然後隨著積累慢慢精確對話的含義.所以量變引起質變,這是毋庸置疑的.
好啦,今天課程就到這裡,明天見吧~