誇獎的話你可以脫口而出,詆毀的話你要三思而後行
Not long ago, in the variety show "Friends please listen ", there is such a scene.
A girl called for advice because of heterosexual problems.
Many netizens listened, but one after another in the screen scolded the girl, think she is a person playing with feelings.
To this phenomenon, host he Jiong said such a meaningful sentence.
He said :" You can blurt out praise words, slander words you should think twice ."
He further explained that because of other people's right and wrong, we as relatively distant people, in fact, is not clear.
Although everyone feels that they are just "gently stepping on ", but for that person, it is a thousand troops.
Teacher he's words, also triggered a heated debate among netizens.
Some people say :" very meaningful words, after all, you are not a party, you have no right and position to judge others ."
Some people say :" evil from the mouth, really must think twice before doing ."
People can be feared, three people become tigers.
In life, there are always some people, in the case of no real reason, at will to point to others, and even cause "network violence ".
According to the "Blue Book of Society" released by the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences in 2019, the data show:
One in three adults has been subjected to cyber violence. One in two minors has been subjected to cyber violence ."
These unthought-provoking comments seem to be only a catharsis of individual emotions, but when thousands of denigration converge on the same person, they will bring heavy pressure to the parties like mountains, and even lead to extremely serious consequences.
Good words warm three winters, evil words hurt people cold in June.
Take care of your mouth, think twice before you act, is born people should practice.
良言一句三冬暖,惡語傷人六月寒。
管好自己的嘴,三思而後行,才是生而為人該有的修行。