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169. Don't let yesterday use up too much of today. 別留念昨天了，把握好今天吧。(Will Rogers) 170. If you are not brave enough, no one will back you up. 你不勇敢，沒人替你堅強。171. If you don't build your dream, someone will hire you to build theirs. 如果你沒有夢想，那麼你只能為別人的夢想打工。172. Beauty is all around, if you just open your heart to see. 只要你給自己機會，你會發現你的世界可以很美麗。173. The difference in winning and losing is most often...not quitting. 贏與輸的差別通常是--不放棄。(華特·迪士尼) 174. I am ordinary yet unique. 我很平凡，但我獨一無二。175. I like people who make me laugh in spite of myself. 我喜歡那些讓我笑起來的人，就算是我不想笑的時候。176. Image a new story for your life and start living it. 為你的生命想一個全新劇本，並去傾情出演吧！177. I'd rather be a happy fool than a sad sage. 做個悲傷的智者，不如做個開心的傻子。178. The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. 未來屬於那些相信夢想之美的人。(埃莉諾·羅斯福) 179. Even if you get no applause, you should accept a curtain call gracefully and appreciate your own efforts. 即使沒有人為你鼓掌，也要優雅的謝幕，感謝自己的認真付出。180. Don't let dream just be your dream. 別讓夢想只停留在夢裡。181. A day without laughter is a day wasted. 沒有笑聲的一天是浪費了的一天。(卓別林) 182. Travel and see the world; afterwards, you will be able to put your concerns in perspective. 去旅行吧，見的世面多了，你會發現原來在意的那些結根本算不了什麼。183. The key to acquiring proficiency in any task is repetition. 任何事情成功關鍵都是熟能生巧。《生活大爆炸》 184. You can be happy no matter what. 開心一點吧，管它會怎樣。185. A good plan today is better than a perfect plan tomorrow. 今天的好計劃勝過明天的完美計劃。186. Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'! 一切皆有可能！「不可能」的意思是：「不，可能。」(奧黛麗·赫本) 187. Life isn't fair, but no matter your circumstances, you have to give it your all. 生活是不公平的，不管你的境遇如何，你只能全力以赴。188. No matter how hard it is, just keep going because you only fail when you give up. 無論多麼艱難，都要繼續前進，因為只有你放棄的那一刻，你才輸了。When Paul Jobs was mustered out of the Coast Guard after World War II, he made a wager with his crewmates. They had arrived in San Francisco, where their ship was decommissioned, and Paul bet that he would find himself a wife within two weeks. He was a taut, tattooed engine mechanic, six feet tall, with a passing resemblance to James Dean. But it wasn’t his looks that got him a date with Clara Hagopian, a sweet-humored daughter of Armenian immigrants. It was the fact that he and his friends had a car, unlike the group she had originally planned to go out with that evening. Ten days later, in March 1946, Paul got engaged to Clara and won his wager. It would turn out to be a happy marriage, one that lasted until death parted them more than forty years later. Paul Reinhold Jobs had been raised Italy for General Patton. His talent as a machinist and fireman earned him commendations, but he occasionally found himself in minor trouble and never rose above the rank of seaman. Clara was born in New Jersey, where her parents had landed after fleeing the Turks in Armenia, and they moved to the Mission District of San Francisco when she was a child. She had a secret that she rarely mentioned to anyone: She had been married before, but her husband had been killed in the war. So when she met Paul Jobs on that first date, she was primed to start a new life. Clara, however, loved San Francisco, and in 1952 she convinced her husband to move back there. They got an apartment in the Sunset District facing the Pacific, just south of Golden Gate Park, and he took a job working for a finance company as a 「repo man,」 picking the locks of cars whose owners hadn’t paid their loans and repossessing them. He also bought, repaired, and sold some of the cars, making a decent enough living in the process. There was, however, something missing in their lives. They wanted children, but Clara had suffered an ectopic pregnancy, in which the fertilized egg was implanted in a fallopian tube rather than the uterus, and she had been unable to have any. So by 1955, after nine years of marriage, they were looking to adopt a child. Like Paul Jobs, Joanne Schieble was from a rural Wisconsin family of German heritage. Her father, Arthur Schieble, had immigrated to the outskirts of Green Bay, where he and his wife owned a mink farm and dabbled successfully in various other businesses, including real estate and photoengraving. He was very strict, especially regarding his daughter’s relationships, and he had strongly disapproved of her first love, an artist who was not a Catholic. Thus it was no surprise that he threatened to cut Joanne off completely when, as a graduate student 僅次於木星和土星。天王星的大氣層中83%是氫，15%為氦，2%為甲烷以及少量的乙炔和碳氫化合物。上層大氣層的甲烷吸收紅光，使天王星呈現藍綠色。大氣在固定緯度集結成雲層，類似於木星和土星在緯線上鮮豔的條狀色帶。天王星雲層的平均溫度為零下193攝氏度。質量為8.6810±13×10²⁵kg，相當於地球質量的14.63倍。密度較小，只有1.24克/立方釐米，為海王星密度值的74.7%。[54] 恆星 恆星 海王星是離太陽的第八顆行星，直徑49532千米。海王星繞太陽運轉的軌道半徑為45億千米，公轉一周需要165年。海王星的直徑和天王星類似，質量比天王星略大一些。海王星和天王星的主要大氣成分都是氫和氦，內部結構也極為相近，所以說海王星與天王星是一對孿生兄弟。[55] 海王星有太陽系最強烈的風，測量到的時速高達2100公裡。海王星雲頂的溫度是－218 °C，是太陽系最冷的地區之一。海王星核心的溫度約為7000 °C，可以和太陽的表面比較。海王星在1846年9月23日被發現，是唯一利用數學預測而非有計劃的觀測發現的行星。[56] 冥王星，位於海王星以外的柯伊伯帶內側，是柯伊伯帶中已知的最大天體。[57] 直徑約為2370±20km，是地球直徑的18.5%。[58] 2006年8月24日，國際天文學聯合會大會24日投票決定，不再將傳統九大行星之一的冥王星視為行星，而將其列入「矮行星」。大會通過的決議規定，「行星」指的是圍繞太陽運轉、自身引力足以克服其剛體力而使天體呈圓球狀、能夠清除其軌道附近其他物體的天體。在太陽系傳統的「九大行星」中，只有水星、金星、地球、火星、木星、土星、天王星和海王星符合這些要求。冥王星由於其軌道與海王星的軌道相交，不符合新的行星定義，因此被自動降級為「矮行星」。[59] 冥王星的表面溫度大概在-238到-228℃之間。冥王星的成份由70%巖石和30%冰水混合而成的。地表上光亮的部分可能覆蓋著一些固體氮以及少量 衛星拍月球經過地球，可見清晰月球背面 衛星拍月球經過地球，可見清晰月球背面 [60] 的固體甲烷和一氧化碳，冥王星表面的黑暗部分可能是一些基本的有機物質或是由宇宙射線引發的光化學反應。冥王星的大氣層主要由氮和少量的一氧化碳及甲烷組成。大氣極其稀薄，地面壓強只有少量微帕。[61] 地球是離太陽第三顆行星，是我們人類的家鄉，儘管地球是太陽系中一顆普通的行星，但它在許多方面都是獨一無二的。比如，它是太陽系中唯一一顆面積大部分被水覆蓋的行星，也是目前所知唯一一顆有生命存在的星球。質量M=5.9742 ×10^24 公斤，表面溫度：t = - 30 ～ +45。[62] 英國科研人員在《天體生物學》雜誌上報告說，如果沒有小行星撞擊等可能劇烈改變環境的事件發生，地球適宜人類居住的時間還剩約17.5億年，不過人為造成的氣候變化可能縮短這一時間。[63] 彗星是由灰塵和冰塊組成的太陽系中的一類小天體，繞日運動。[64] 科學家使用探測器對彗星的化學遺留物進行分析，發現其主要成份為氨、甲烷、硫化氫、氰化氫和甲醛。科學家得出結論稱，彗星的氣味聞起來像是臭雞蛋、馬尿、酒精和苦杏仁的氣味綜合。[65-66] 「67P/楚留莫夫-格拉希門克」彗星 「67P/楚留莫夫-格拉希門克」彗星 [67] 在太陽系的周圍還包裹著一個龐大的「奧爾特雲」。星雲內分布著不計其數的冰塊、雪團和碎石。其中的某些會受太陽引力影響飛入內太陽系，這學說，在原有的軌道（或稱小天體軌道）上又增加了更多的天體運行軌道。這一模式稱每顆行星都沿著一個小軌道作圓周運行，而小軌道又沿著該行星的大軌道繞地球作圓周運動。幾百年之後，這一模式的漏洞越來越明顯。科學家們又在這個模式上增加了許多軌道，行星就這樣沿著一道又一道的軌道作圓周運動。哥白尼想用「現代」（16世紀的）技術來改進託勒密的測量結果，以期取消一些小軌道。在長達近20年的時間裡，哥白尼不辭辛勞日夜測量行星的位置，但其測量獲得的結果仍然與託勒密的天體運行模式沒有多少差別。哥白尼想知道在另一個運行著的行星上觀察這些行星的運行情況會是什麼樣的。基於這種設想，哥白尼萌發了一個念頭：假如地球在運行中，那麼這些行星的運行看上去會是什麼情況呢？這一設想在他腦海裡變得清晰起來了。一年裡，哥白尼在不同的時間、不同的距離從地球上觀察行星，每一個行星的情況都不相同，這是他意識到地球不可能位於星星軌道的中心。經過20年的觀測，哥白尼發現唯獨太陽的周年變化不明顯。這意味著地球和太陽的距離始終沒有改變。如果地球不是宇宙的中心，那麼宇宙的中心就是太陽。的發現才使牛頓有能力確定運動定律和萬有引力定律。哥白尼的日心宇宙體系既然是時代的產物，它就不能不受到時代的限制。反對神學的不徹底性，同時表現在哥白尼的某些觀點上，他的體系是存在缺陷的。哥白尼所指的宇宙是局限在一個小的範圍內的，具體來說，他的宇宙結構就是今天我們所熟知的太陽系，即以太陽為中心的天體系統。宇宙既然有它的中心，就必須有它的邊界，哥白尼雖然否定了託勒玫的「九重天」，但他卻保留了一層恆星天，儘管他迴避了宇宙是否有限這個問題，但實際上他是相信恆星天球是宇宙的「外殼」，他仍然相信天體只能按照所謂完美的圓形軌道運動，所以哥白尼的宇宙體系，仍然包含著不動的中心天體。但是作為近代自然科學的奠基人，哥白尼的歷史功績是偉大的。確認地球不是宇宙的中心，而是行星之一，從而掀起了一場天文學上根本性的革命，是人類探求客觀真理道路上的裡程碑。哥白尼的偉大成就，不僅鋪平了通向近代天文學的道路，而且開創了整個自然界科學向前邁進的新時代。從哥白尼時代起，脫離教會束縛的自然科學和哲學開始獲得飛躍的發展。哥白尼的科學成就，是他所處時代的產物，又轉過來推動了時代的發展。順應時代變化 十五、六世紀的歐洲，正是從封建社會向資本主義社會轉變的關鍵時期，在這一二百年間，社會發生了巨大的變化。14世紀ndali soon after. She held out hope, she would later tell family members, sometimes tearing up at the memory, that once they were married, she could get their 別讓夢想只停留在夢裡。181. A day without laughter is a day wasted. 沒有笑聲的一天是浪費了的一天。(卓別林) 182. Travel and see the world; afterwards, you will be able to put your concerns in perspective. 去旅行吧，見的世面多了，你會發現原來在意的那些結根本算不了什麼。183. The key to acquiring proficiency in any task is repetition. 任何事情成功關鍵都是熟能生巧。《生活大爆炸》 184. You can be happy no matter what. 開心一點吧，管它會怎樣。baby boy back. Arthur Schieble died in August 1955, after the adoption was finalized. Just after Christmas that year, Joanne and Abdulfattah were married in St. Philip the Apostle Catholic Church in Green Bay. He got his PhD in international politics the next year, and then they had another child, a girl named Mona. After she and Jandali divorced in 1962, Joanne embarked on a dreamy and peripatetic life that her daughter, who grew up to become the acclaimed novelist Mona Simpson, would capture in her book Anywhere but Here. Because Steve’s adoption had been closed, it would be twenty years before they would all find each other. Steve Jobs knew from an early age that he was adopted. 「My parents were very open with me about that,」 he recalled. He had a vivid memory of sitting on the lawn of his house, when he was six or seven years old, telling the girl who lived across the street. 「So does that mean your real parents didn’t want you?」 the girl asked. 「Lightning bolts went off in my head,」 according to Jobs. 「I remember running into the house, crying. And my parents said, 『No, you have to understand.』 They were very serious and looked me straight in the eye. They said, 『We specifically picked you out.』 Both of my parents said that and repeated it slowly for me. And they put an emphasis on every word in that sentence.」 Abandoned. Chosen. Special. Those concepts became part of who Jobs was and how he regarded himself. His closest friends think that the knowledge that he was given up at birth left some scars. 「I think his desire for complete control of whatever he makes derives directly from his personality and the fact that he was abandoned at birth,」 said one longtime colleague, Del Yocam. 「He wants to control his environment, and he sees the product as an extension of himself.」 Greg Calhoun, who became close to Jobs right after college, saw another effect. 「Steve talked to me a lot about being abandoned and the pain that caused,」 he said. 「It made him independent. He followed the beat of a different drummer, and that came from being in a different world than he was born into.」 Later in life, when he was the same age his biological father had been when he abandoned him, Jobs would father and abandon a child of his own. (He eventually took responsibility for her.) Chrisann Brennan, the mother of that child, said that being put up for adoption left Jobs 「full of broken glass,」 and it helps to explain some of his behavior. 「He who is abandoned is an abandoner,」 she said. Andy Hertzfeld, who worked with Jobs at Apple in the early 1980s, is among the few who remained close to both Brennan and Jobs. 「The key question about Steve is why he can’t control himself at times from being so reflexively cruel and harmful to some people,」 he said. 「That goes back to being abandoned at birth. The real underlying problem was the theme of abandonment in Steve’s life.」 Jobs dismissed this. 「There’s some notion that because I was abandoned, I worked very hard so I could do well and make my parents wish they had me back, or some such nonsense, but that’s ridiculous,」 he insisted. 「Knowing I was adopted may have made me feel more independent, but I have never felt abandoned. I』ve always felt special. My parents made me feel special.」 He would later bristle whenever anyone referred to Paul and Clara Jobs as his 「adoptive」 parents or implied that they were not his 「real」 parents. 「They were my parents 1,000%,」 he said. When speaking about his biological parents, on the other hand, he was curt: 「They were my sperm and egg bank. That’s not harsh, it’s just the way it was, a sperm bank thing, nothing more.」 Silicon Valley The childhood that Paul and Clara Jobs created for their new son was, in many ways, a stereotype of the late 1950s. When Steve was two they adopted a girl they named Patty, and three y的甲烷吸收紅光，使天王星呈現藍綠色。大氣在固定緯度集結成雲層，類似於木星和土星在緯線上鮮豔的條狀色帶。天王星雲層的平均溫度為零下193攝氏度。質量為8.6810±13×10²⁵kg，相當於地球質量的14.63倍。密度較小，只有1.24克/立方釐米，為海王星密度值的74.7%。[54] 恆星 恆星 海王星是離太陽的第八顆行星，直徑49532千米。海王星繞太陽運轉的軌道半徑為45億千米，公轉一周需要165年。海王星的直徑和天王星類似，質量比天王星略大一些。海王星和天王星的主要大氣成分都是氫和氦，內部結構也極為相近，所以說海王星與天王星是一對孿生兄弟。[55] 海王星有太陽系最強烈的風，測量到的時速高達2100公裡。海王星雲頂的溫度是－218 °C，是太陽系最冷的地區之一。海王星核心的溫度約為7000 °C，可以和太陽的表面比較。海王星在1846年9月23日被發現，是唯一利用數學預測而非有計劃的觀測發現的行星。[56] 冥王星，位於海王星以外的柯伊伯帶內側，是柯伊伯帶中已知的最大天體。[57] 直徑約為2370±20km，是地球直徑的18.5%。[58] 2006年8月24日，國際天文學聯合會大會24日投票決定，不再將傳統九大行星之一的冥王星視為行星，而將其列入「矮行星」。大會通過的決議規定，「行星」指的是圍繞太陽運轉、自身引力足以克服其剛體力而使天體呈圓球狀、能夠清除其軌道附近其他物體的天體。在太陽系傳統的「九大行星」中，只有水星、金星、地球、火星、木星、土星、天王星和海王星符合這些要求。冥王星由於其軌道與海王星的軌道相交，不符合新的行星定義，因此被自動降級為「矮行星」。[59] 冥王星的表面溫度大概在-238到-228℃之間。冥王星的成份由70%巖石和30%冰水混合而成的。地表上光亮的部分可能覆蓋著一些固體氮以及少量 衛星拍月球經過地球，可見清晰月球背面 衛星拍月球經過地球，可見清晰月球背面 [60] 的固體甲烷和一氧化碳，冥王星表面的黑暗部分可能是一些基本的有機物質或是由宇宙射線引發的光化學反應。冥王星的大氣層主要由氮和少量的一氧化碳及甲烷組成。大氣極其稀薄，地面壓強只有少量微帕。[61] 地球是離太陽第三顆行星，是我們人類的家鄉，儘管地球是太陽系中一顆普通的行星，但它在許多方面都是獨一無二的。比如，它是太陽系中唯一一顆面積大部分被水覆蓋的行星，也是目前所知唯一一顆有生命存在的星球。質量M=5.9742 ×10^24 公斤，表面溫度：t = - 30 ～ +45。[62] 英國科研人員在《天體生物學》雜誌上報告說，如果沒有小行星撞擊等可能劇烈改變環境的事件發生，地球適宜人類居住的時間還剩約17.5億年，不過人為造成的氣候變化可能縮短這一時間。[63] 彗星是由灰塵和冰塊組成的太陽系中的一類小天體，繞日運動。[64] 科學家使用探測器對彗星的化學遺留物進行分析，發現其主要成份為氨、甲烷、硫化氫、氰化氫和甲醛。科學家得出結論稱，彗星的氣味聞起來像是臭雞蛋、馬尿、酒精和苦杏仁的氣味綜合。[65-66] 「67P/楚留莫夫-格拉希門克」彗星 「67P/楚留莫夫-格拉希門克」彗星 [67] 在太陽系的周圍還包裹著一個龐大的「奧爾特雲」。星雲內分布著不計其數的冰塊、雪團和碎石。其中的某些會受太陽引力影響飛入內太陽系，這學說，在原有的軌道（或稱小天體軌道）上又增加了更多的天體運行軌道。這一模式稱每顆行星都沿著一個小軌道作圓周運行，而小軌道又沿著該行星的大軌道繞地球作圓周運動。幾百年之後，這一模式的漏洞越來越明顯。科學家們又在這個模式上增加了許多軌道，行星就這樣沿著一道又一道的軌道作圓周運動。哥白尼想用「現代」（16世紀的）技術來改進託勒密的測量結果，以期取消一些小軌道。在長達近20年的時間裡，哥白尼不辭辛勞日夜測量行星的位置，但其測量獲得的結果仍然與託勒密的天體運行模式沒有多少差別。哥白尼想知道在另一個運行著的行星上觀察這些行星的運行情況會是什麼樣的。基於這種設想，哥白尼萌發了一個念頭：假如地球在運行中，那麼這些行星的運行看上去會是什麼情況呢？這一設想在他腦海裡變得清晰起來了。一年裡，哥白尼在不同的時間、不同的距離從地球上觀察行星，每一個行星的情況都不相同，這是他意識到地球不可能位於星星軌道的中心。經過20年的觀測，哥白尼發現唯獨太陽的周年變化不明顯。這意味著地球和太陽的距離始終沒有改變。如果地球不是宇宙的中心，那麼宇宙的中心就是太陽。的發現才使牛頓有能力確定運動定律和萬有引力定律。哥白尼的日心宇宙體系既然是時代的產物，它就不能不受到時代的限制。反對神學的不徹底性，同時表現在哥白尼的某些觀點上，他的體系是存在缺陷的。哥白尼所指的宇宙是局限在一個小的範圍內的，具體來說，他的宇宙結構就是今天我們所熟知的太陽系，即以太陽為中心的天體系統。宇宙既然有它的中心，就必須有它的邊界，哥白尼雖然否定了託勒玫的「九重天」，但他卻保留了一層恆星天，儘管他迴避了宇宙是否有限這個問題，但實際上他是相信恆星天球是宇宙的「外殼」，他仍然相信天體只能按照所謂完美的圓形軌道運動，所以哥白尼的宇宙體系，仍然包含著不動的中心天體。但是作為近代自然科學的奠基人，哥白尼的歷史功績是偉大的。確認地球不是宇宙的中心，而是行星之一，從而掀起了一場天文學上根本性的革命，是人類探求客觀真理道路上的裡程碑。哥白尼的偉大成就，不僅鋪平了通向近代天文學的道路，而且開創了整個自然界科學向前邁進的新時代。從哥白尼時代起，脫離教會束縛的自然科學和哲學開始獲得飛躍的發展。哥白尼的科學成就，是他所處時代的產物，又轉過來推動了時代的發展。順應時代變化 十五、六世紀的歐洲，正是從封建社會向資本主義社會轉變的關鍵時期，在這一二百年間，社會發生了巨大的變化。14世紀以前的歐洲，到處是四分五裂的小城邦。後來，隨著城市工商業的興起，特別是採礦和冶金業的發展，湧現了許多新興的大城市，小城邦有了聯合起來組成國家的趨勢。到 15世紀末葉，在許多國家裡都出現了基本上是中央集權的君主政體。當時的波蘭不僅有像克拉科夫、波茲南這樣的大城市，也有許多手工業興盛的城市。1526年歸併于波蘭的華沙已成為一個重要的商業、政治、文化和地理的中心，在16世紀末成了波蘭國家的首都。與這種政治經濟變革相適應，文化、科學上也開始有所反映。當時，歐洲是「政教合一」，羅馬教廷控制了許多國家，聖經被宣布為至高無上的真理，凡是違背聖經的學說，都被斥為「異端邪說」，凡是反對神權統治的人，都被處以火刑。新興的資產階級為自己的生存和發展，掀起了一場反對封建制度和教會迷信思想的鬥爭，出現了人文主義的思潮。他們使用的戰鬥武器，就是未被神學染汙的古希臘的哲學、科學和文藝。這就是震撼歐洲的文藝復興運動。文藝復興首先發生於義大利，很快就擴大到波蘭及歐洲其他國家。與此同時，商業的活躍也促進了對外貿易的發展。在「黃金」這個符咒的驅使下，許多歐洲冒險者遠航非洲、印度及整個遠東地區。遠洋航行需要豐富的天文和地理知識，從實際中積累起來的觀測資料，使人們感到當時流行的「地靜天動」的宇宙學說值得懷疑，這就要求人們進一步去探索宇宙的秘密，從而推進了天文學和地理學的發展。1492年，義大利著名的航海家哥倫布發現新大陸，麥哲倫和他的同伴繞地球一周，證明地球是圓形的，使人們開始真正認識地球。[4] 對他國的影響 在教會嚴密控制下的中世紀，也發生過轟轟烈烈的宗教革命。因為天主教的很多教義不符合聖經的教誨，而加入了太多教皇的個人意志以及各類神學家的自身成果，所以很多信徒開始質疑天主教的教義和組織，發起回歸聖經的行動來。捷克的愛國主義者、布拉格大學校長揚·胡斯（1369～1415年）在君士坦丁堡的宗教會議上公開譴責德意志封建主與天主教會對捷克的壓迫和剝削。他ears later they moved to a tract house in the suburbs. The finance company where Paul worked as a repo man, CIT, had transferred him down to its Palo Alto office, but he could not afford to live there, so they landed in a subdivision in Mountain View, a less expensive town just to the south. There Paul tried to pass along his love of mechanics and cars. 「Steve, this is your workbench now,」 he said as he marked off a section of the table in their garage. Jobs remembered being impressed by his father’s focus on craftsmanship. 「I thought my dad’s sense of design was pretty good,」 he said, 「because he knew how to build anything. If we needed a cabinet, he would build it. When he built our fence, he gave me a hammer so I could work with him.」 Fifty years later the fence still surrounds the back and side yards of the house in Mountain View. As Jobs showed it off to me, he caressed the stockade panels and recalled a lesson that his father implanted deeply in him. It was important, his father said, to craft the backs of cabinets and fences properly, even though they were hidden. 「He loved doing things right. He even cared about the look of the parts you couldn’t see.」 His father continued to refurbish and resell used cars, and he festooned the garage with pictures of his favorites. He would point out the detailing of the design to his son: the lines, the vents, the chrome, the trim of the seats. After work each day, he would change into his dungarees and retreat to the garage, often with Steve tagging along. 「I figured I could get him nailed down with a little mechanical ability, but he really wasn’t interested in getting his hands dirty,」 Paul later recalled. 「He never really cared too much about m189. It requires hard work to give off an appearance of effortlessness. 你必須十分努力，才能看起來毫不費力。190. Life is like riding a bicycle.To keep your balance,you must keep moving. 人生就像騎單車，只有不斷前進，才能保持平衡。(愛因斯坦) 191. Be thankful for what you have.You'll end up having more. 擁有一顆感恩的心，最終你會得到更多。192. Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. 美是一種內心的感覺，並反映在你的眼睛裡。(索菲亞·羅蘭) 193. Friendship doubles your joys, and divides your sorrows. 朋友的作用，就是讓你快樂加倍，痛苦減半。194. When you long for something sincerely, the whole world will help you. 當你真心渴望某樣東西時，整個宇宙都會來幫忙。echanical things.」 「I wasn’t that into fixing cars,」 Jobs admitted. 「But I was eager to hang out with my dad.」 Even as he was growing more aware that he had been adopted, he was becoming more attached to his father. One day when he was about eight, he discovered a photograph of his father from his time in the Coast Guard. 「He’s in the engine room, and he’s got his shirt off and looks like James Dean. It was one of those Oh wow moments for a kid. Wow, oooh, my parents were actually once very young and really good-looking.」 Through cars, his father gave Steve his first exposure to electronics. 「My dad did not have a deep understanding of electronics, but he』d encountered it a lot in automobiles and other things he would fix. He showed me the rudiments of electronics, and I got very interested in that.」 Even more interesting were the trips to scavenge for parts. 「Every weekend, there』d be a junkyard trip. We』d be looking for a generator, a carburetor, all sorts of components.」 He remembered watching his father negotiate at the counter. 「He was a good bargainer, because he knew better than the guys at the counter what the parts should cost.」 This helped fulfill the pledge his parents made when he was adopted. 「My college fund came from my dad paying $50 for a Ford Falcon or some other beat-up car that didn’t run, working on it for a few weeks, and selling it for $250—and not telling the IRS.」 The Jobses』 house and the others in their neighborhood were built by the real estate developer Joseph Eichler, whose company spawned more than eleven thousand homes in various California subdivisions between 1950 and 1974. Inspired by Frank Lloyd Wright’s vision of simple modern homes for the American 「everyman,」 Eichler built inexpensive houses that featured floor-to-ceiling glass walls, open floor plans, exposed post-and-beam construction, concrete slab floors, and lots of sliding glass doors. 「Eichler did a great thing,」 Jobs said on one of our walks around the neighborhood. 「His houses were smart and cheap and good. They brought clean design and simple taste to lower-income people. They had awesome little features, like radiant heating in the floors. You put carpet on them, and we had nice toasty floors when we were kids.」 Jobs said that his appreciation for Eichler homes instilled in him a passion for making nicely designed products for the mass market. 「I love it when you can bring really great design and simple capability to something that doesn’t cost much,」 he said as he pointed out the clean elegance of the houses. 「It was the original vision for Apple. That’s what we tried to do with the first Mac. That’s what we did with the iPod.」 Across the street from the Jobs family lived a man who had become successful as a real estate agent. 「He wasn’t that bright,」 Jobs recalled, 「but he seemed to be making a fortune. So my dad thought, 『I can do that.』 He worked so hard, I remember. He took these night classes, passed the license test, and got into real estate. Then the bottom fell out of the market.」 As a result, the family found itself financially strapped for a year or so while Steve was in elementary school. His mother took a job as a bookkeeper for Varian Associates, a company that made scientific instruments, and they took out a second mortgage. One day his fourth-grade teacher asked him, 「What is it you don’t understand about the universe?」 Jobs replied, 「I don’t understand why all of a sudden my dad is so broke.」 He was proud that his father never adopted a servile attitude or slick style that may have made him a better salesman. 「You had to suck up to people to sell real estate, and he wasn’t good at that and it wasn’t in his nature. I admired him for that.」 Paul Jobs went back to being a mechanic. His father was calm and gentle, traits that his son later praised more than emulated. He was also resolute. Jobs described one exampl What made the neighborhood different from the thousands of other spindly-tree subdivisions across America was that even the ne』er-do-wells tended to be engineers. 「When we moved here, there were apricot and plum orchards on all of these corners,」 Jobs recalled. 「But it was beginning to boom because of military investment.」 He soaked up the history of the valley and developed a yearning to play his own role. Edwin Land of Polaroid later told him about being asked by Eisenhower to help build the U-2 spy plane cameras to see how real the Soviet threat was. The film was dropped in canisters and returned to the NASA Ames Research Center in Sunnyvale, not far from where Jobs lived. 「The first computer terminal I ever saw was when my dad brought me to the Ames Center,」 he said. 「I fell totally in love with it.」 Other defense contractors sprouted nearby during the 1950s. The Lockheed Missiles and Space Division, which built submarine-launched ballistic missiles, was founded in 1956 next to the NASA Center; by the time Jobs moved to the area four years later, it employed twenty thousand people. A few hundred yards away, Westinghouse built facilities that produced tubes and electrical transformers for the missile systems. 「You had all these military companies on the cutting edge,」 he recalled. 「It was mysterious and high-tech and made living here very exciting.」 In the wake of the defense industries there arose a booming economy based on technology. Its roots stretched back to 1938, when David Packard and his new wife moved into a house in Palo Alto that had a shed where his friend Bill Hewlett was soon ensconced. The house had a garage—an appendage that would prove both useful and iconic in the valley—in which they tinkered around until they had their first product, an audio oscillator. By the 1950s, Hewlett-Packard was a fast-growing company making technical instruments. Fortunately there was a place nearby for entrepreneurs who had outgrown their garages. In a move that would help transform the area into the cradle of the tech revolution, Stanford University’s dean of engineering, Frederick Terman, created a seven-hundred-acre industrial park on university land for private companies that could commercialize the ideas of his students. Its first tenant was Varian Associates, where Clara Jobs worked. 「Terman came up with this great idea that did more than anything to cause the tech industry to grow up here,」 Jobs said. By the time Jobs was ten, HP had nine thousand employees and was the blue-chip company where every engineer seeking financial stability wanted to work. The most important technology for the region’s growth was, of course, the semiconductor. William Shockley, who had been one of the inventors of the transistor at Bell Labs in New Jersey, moved out to Mountain View and, in 1956, started a company to build transistors using silicon rather than the more expensive germanium that was then commonly used. But Shockley became increasingly erratic and abandoned his silicon transistor project, which led eight of his engineers—most notably Robert Noyce and Gordon Moore—to break away to form Fairchild Semiconductor. That company grew to twelve thousand employees, but it fragmented in 1968, when Noyce lost a power struggle to become CEO. He took Gordon Moore and founded a company that they called Integrated Electronics Corporation, which they soon smartly abbreviated to Intel. Their third employee was Andrew Grove, who later would grow the company by shifting its focus from memory chips to microprocessors. Within a few years there would be more than fifty companies in the area making semiconductors. The exponential growth of this industry was correlated with the phenomenon famously discovered by Moore, who in 1965 drew a graph of the speed of integrated circuits, based on the number of transistors that could be placed on a chip, and showed that it doubled about every two years, a trajectory that could be expected to continue. This was reaffirmed in 1971, when Intel was able to etch a complete central processing unit onto one chip, the Intel 4004, tronic amplifier. 「So I raced home, and I told my dad that he was wrong.」 「No, it needs an amplifier,」 his father assured him. When Steve protested otherwise, his father said he was crazy. 「It can’t work without an amplifier. There’s some trick.」 「I kept saying no to my dad, telling him he had to see it, and finally he actually walked down with me and saw it. And he said, 『Well I』ll be a bat out of hell.』」 Jobs recalled the incident vividly because it was his first realization that his father did not know everything. Then a more disconcerting discovery began to dawn on him: He was smarter than his parents. He had always admired his father’s competence and savvy. 「He was not an educated man, but I had always thought he was pretty damn smart. He didn’t read much, but he could do a lot. Almost everything mechanical, he could figure it out.」 Yet the carbon microphone incident, Jobs said, began a jarring process of realizing that he was in fact more clever and quick than his parents. 「It was a very big moment that’s burned into my mind. When I realized that I was smarter than my parents, I felt tremendous shame for having thought that. I will never forget that moment.」 This discovery, he later told friends, along with the fact that he was adopted, made him feel apart—detached and separate—from both his family and the world. Another layer of awareness occurred soon after. Not only did he discover that he was brighter than his parents, but he discovered that they knew this. Paul and Clara Jobs were loving parents, and they were willing to adapt their lives to suit a son who was very smart—and also willful. They would go to great lengths to accommodate him. And soon Steve discovered this fact as well. 「Both my parents got me. They felt a lot of responsibility once they sensed that I was special. They found ways to keep feeding me stuff and putting me in better schools. They were willing to defer to my needs.」 So he grew up not only with a sense of having once been abandoned, but also with a sense that he was special. In his own mind, that was more important in the formation of his personality. School Even before Jobs started elementary school, his mother had taught him how to read. This, however, led to some problems once he got to school. 「I was kind of bored for the first few years來源：水木君說（ID:shuimujunshuo）作者：才華水木君
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2018年12月1日的寒冬，她在加拿大機場經歷了人生最動蕩無眠的夜晚。
光天化日之下搶人，最講文明的國家對她用上了最土匪的手段。
接下來是長達2年，沒完沒了的起訴，庭審，宣判，上訴，她帶著電子腳鐐，被囚禁監視已經700多天.
14億人都靜候佳音，然而歸期遙遙無期。
任正非含淚說，已經做好永遠見不到女兒的準備。
孟晚舟含恨說，我本人寧可把美國和加拿大的牢底坐穿！
這對父女的堅毅和無畏，一脈相傳，又青出於藍。
48歲的孟晚舟身上有太多彪悍的標籤，隨便拿出任何一個，就足矣讓國人淚流，西方畏怯。
今天小編想聊一聊她剛硬外表下，那些溫暖又柔軟的標籤，她的愛情，親情與人生，她是個好妻子，更是個好母親。
所愛隔山海，山海皆可平。
萬幸在加拿大隱忍囚禁的艱難時刻，有一個人，一直為她遮風擋雨。
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2018年的12月，孟晚舟在加拿大中轉飛機時，在美國授意後，被扣押，面臨著終身監禁。
有一個男人知道消息後，做了兩件事：
一，第一時間飛去加拿大。
二，緊急變賣在加拿大的房產，籌集孟晚舟的保釋金。
人人都看到了孟晚舟的臨危不懼，卻沒看到她身後一直站著的，為她拿衣服拎包，一言不發，但寸步不離的男人。
他就是孟晚舟的丈夫——劉曉棕。
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好的感情，勢均力敵。孟晚舟著實出眾，劉曉棕也毫不遜色。
劉曉棕1976年出生，比孟晚舟小三歲，一路拿著學霸的劇本長大，高中時就讀於大名鼎鼎的成都七中。
這所號稱「清華北大」的生源地，走出了現在網際網路的半壁江山：
搜狗CEO王小川，B站CEO陳銳，騰訊CEO任宇昕，美團金融CTO包塔，滴滴研究院院長何曉飛.
就連今年拿到華為200萬年薪的「天才少年」張霽，也出自成都七中。
劉曉棕的實力可見一斑。
畢業後，劉曉棕赴美留學，拿下碩士學位，1996年畢業後，進入了華為遼寧分公司，2001年又被派去墨西哥開拓市場。
從國內營銷到海外市場，從銷售員到項目經理、再到子公司CEO.
劉曉棕的華為十年，很勵志，很風光，很彪悍。
（劉曉棕（右一）)
他自稱是「從一個大學生成長為一方諸侯」，但歷盡千辛萬苦做上諸侯的他，卻放棄大好前途，在2006年突然離職。
背後的原因，幾年後才被人得知，原來他遇到了孟晚舟。
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那個時候孟晚舟剛剛結束了第一段婚姻，自己帶著三個孩子。
雖然貴為華為千金，但早年的孟晚舟和劉曉棕有著同樣白手起家的經歷。
因為隨母姓，沒有人知道她是任正非的女兒。
1993年孟晚舟大學畢業後進入華為，做的是最辛苦的接線工作，作為僅有的三個接線員之一，孟晚舟每天承受著非常大的工作壓力。
一直到5年後，她才從行政轉到財務，2011年，孟晚舟被正式任命為CFO。
彼此的相遇，恰逢其時，惺惺相惜的兩個人，經過三年戀愛，在2007年，攜手走入婚姻。
在決定結婚的前一年，不知道是孟晚舟家族的要求，還是不想給別人留下自己吃軟飯走關係的猜忌，劉曉棕辭掉了華為CEO的職位。
有了十年的沉澱和積累，劉曉棕和朋友一起創業，做起了老闆，據悉他低調行走在科技和資本圈，很有作為。
相識於華為，相戀於華為，回到江湖，各有千秋，即使耀眼如孟晚舟，也終究能碰到和她並駕齊驅的愛人。
婚後兩個人生育了一個女兒，如今兒女雙全。
生活中，他們是愛人是親人，13年相濡以沫；
事業上，他們鼎力相助的合伙人，實力旗鼓相當。
加拿大的這場飛來橫禍，無論從哪個角度看都是至暗時刻，但唯獨回歸到愛情這件小事上，閃耀著熠熠生輝的光。
都說夫妻本是同林鳥，大難臨頭各自飛，劉曉棕不然。
他深知自己無力改變現狀，也知曉」終身監禁「意味著什麼，但是依然拋開一切工作，堅定地留了下來。
以陪伴，以鼓勵，以勇氣，以深情，他選擇去踏平波濤海浪，做妻子最溫柔的靠山。
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如果你曾留意，孟晚舟的每次重要時刻，都看得見劉曉棕的身影。
（劉曉棕（後方紅圈））
第一次帶著鐐銬去聽證會，開庭之前，孟晚舟瞥了一眼身後的丈夫，劉曉棕向她豎起了大拇指。
整個過程，她不卑不亢，從容地否認不實指控，淡定自若。
第三次庭審，被宣布當庭保釋的時候，她邊擦拭眼淚，一邊看向丈夫，兩個人相視一笑，勝過千言萬語。
在加拿大24小時被監視，不得自由，但劉曉棕陪著她，兩個人一起散步，閒庭信步，心靜如水。
孟晚舟是個工作狂，拘禁的日子閒不住，劉曉棕就為她打點一切，聯繫當地商學院的博士課程。
申請保釋時，她要說一段保證詞，讓法官信服自己絕不會逃跑，她如是說：
「如果我被放了，我只想和我的丈夫和女兒待在一起，我已經好幾年沒有好好讀上一本小說了。」
這個從來以女戰士示人的事業強人，亦把所有的溫柔，留給了丈夫和孩子。
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有的婚姻修煉得人強大，有的婚姻教會你柔軟，但非此即彼都不是我們擇一人終老的意義。
孟晚舟得以在兩個身份之間，自由切換。
走出法院的時候，她是任正非的女兒，華為的CFO，眼神堅毅，言辭不屈，「我以華為為傲，我以祖國為傲！」
在高大健碩的劉曉棕面前，孟晚舟只是一個妻子和母親，嬌小溫柔，幸福甜蜜。
孟晚舟曾發過一張圖，配文是——偉大的背後都是苦難，觸動了無數人。
誠然，偉大的背後是苦難，可是她的背後，卻站著華為，站著中國，站著奮力託舉的愛人。
每一個聲音都在鼓勵著她，「別放棄」。
苦難的土壤，會開出燦爛的花，也會結出最深情的果。
最好的婚姻一如他們二人。
贈你最堅強的鎧甲，護你最溫柔的軟肋，有著肝膽相照的義氣，共赴人生海海，成就更好的彼此。
祝福孟晚舟，祝福他們的愛與人生，願路途遙遙，早日回家，若無佳音，愛就是最好的歸途。
作者簡介：才華水木君，來源：水木君（ID：shuimujunshuo），清華人的視角，剖析人間萬象。我是水木君，加入我的讀書會，每天免費領好書。
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