大家好,很高興又和大家見面了,我是霞姐。今天霞姐想和大家談談死亡。
死亡伴隨著恐懼,我們所有人似乎都沒有學會直面死亡,我們沒有勇氣談論死亡,甚至沒有勇氣去思考死亡。
So! What is death?
死亡是什麼?
Most of people have fear over death. But nobody knows what is death? And what it takes away from us.
大部分人對死亡心存恐懼,但是沒有人知道到底什麼是死亡,也沒有人知道死亡到底從我們身邊帶走了什麼?
Death is a topic that is relevant to us all, and yet it simply isn’t pleasant to talk about.
死亡是一個和我們所有人息息相關的話題,只是談論死亡並不好受。
So think about it, how will you tell your kids about death if you are a parent?
那麼想想看,你該如何教你的小孩去理解死亡呢?
Here is a great example I want to share with you.The example came from Zhihu.
和大家分享一個案例:知乎上有人寫過自己小時候的一段關於死亡教育的經歷。
When he was 7, his grandpa died. It was the first time he faced death.
Without too much sad, he started to wonder what death really is?
He asked his mum why should people die, where would they go if they died?
She smiled and asked him:you like playing slides, don’t you?
He nodded.
She added: when you are playing a slide, do you have to wait in a line for your turn?
He nodded again.
His mum said:People, like slides, will decline slowly, growing old before touching the ground and then they will rise to go away so that his little friends behind are not stopped.
作者7歲時,外公去世,那是他第一次面對死亡。並沒有很多悲傷,他只是開始想,死到底是什麼?於是晚上問媽媽,人為什麼要死呢?人死了以後去哪兒?
媽媽看著他笑了下,問他,你是不是愛玩滑滑梯呀?
他點點頭。
那玩滑梯的時候,你跟其他小朋友是不是要排隊?
他點點頭。
人啊,就像坐滑梯一樣,會慢慢下降,慢慢變老,等到落地,就要起身走開,不然會擋住後面的小朋友。
那外公去哪兒了呢?
外公變成小朋友重新排隊去了呀!
今天的分享就到這裡了,如果你對於死亡有更浪漫,更加讓人感動的看法,也歡迎大家關注molistudy公眾號留言告訴霞姐哦!