其實想要的幸福就在身邊女友漂亮如花，自然也就有了挑剔男友的資本。大學4年，她將戀愛事業經營得風生水起。往往我的祝福還不到三個月，她便又開始了新一輪的戀情。在她的戀愛字典裡，從沒有失敗二字。畢業後，她去了蘭州，我回了新疆。我以為她那樣的女子，一定會繼續挑剔下去，非得嫁給鑽石王老五才能停住腳步。沒想她卻讓我大跌眼鏡，竟愛上了大她9歲的離婚男人。男人和她一個公司，擔任保衛科長，有點錢，特為女友買了一架鋼琴。女友畢業於音樂學院，她最大的理想是成為歌唱家。女友的這段戀情遅至全家人的反對，特別是她的父親，為此沒來參加她的婚禮。我想女友拼命維護的愛情，在她心底一定過於強大。但僅僅過了2年，那個曾經優秀的男人就在她嘴裡一無是處了。她毫無留戀地離婚，快速尋找到新的幸福。一個小她2歲的男子，與她志同道合，會多種樂器，是音樂老師。他們幸福地結合了。3年後，女友辭職，和男人一起赴新疆演出。她告訴我，她沒法滿足現狀了。在她眼中，小小的蘭州猶如死水一潭，她的廣闊天地不在這裡。她要去外面的世界實現她的音樂夢。於是，33歲的女友決心闖蕩深圳了。男人和她一起出發了。最初的日子，他們跟著一香港老闆走穴演出，吃了不少苦頭。其間，男人的母親病重，男人回蘭州去照顧。孤零零的女友不習慣身邊沒人的日子，一次次催促男人回來，語言也刻薄：「**怎麼還不死啊？」男人沒生氣，低聲下氣地求她寬限幾日。「我讓他幹啥他就幹啥，他離不開我。」女友對自己的控制力感到萬分得意。後來，走穴演出變得越來越困難了。女友終於收了心，參加了一所私立學校的應聘，順利地成為一名音樂教師。學校條件不錯，分了房子給她。而男人只在東莞一家單位找到了工作。好在兩個城市離得不遠，他可以每星期回來和她相聚。但，女友已不需要男人照顧她了。在應聘的瞬間，她和小她3歲的校長撞出了火花。女友雖是35歲的已婚婦女，但因保養得當，看起來不過二十七、八歲的樣子。而且，她在應聘時有意隱瞞了已婚的事實。如此風情的漂亮女子，校長怎能不迷戀呢？他們愛上了，甚至談婚論嫁。我大驚，在電話裡問她：「你忘了你是已婚婦女？他怎麼辦？那個跟了你8年，為了你不要孩子，不要母親，義無反顧愛你的男人，你怎麼狠心扔了他？」可是女友已經聽不進去了，她不管不顧，飛蛾撲火般奔向她的新愛情。但校長變卦了，不知哪個環節出了問題，兩個人的戀情灰飛煙滅。沒有舊人哭，也沒有新人笑，生活又回到了原地。我以為經歷了挫折的女友會醒悟，會靜下心來愛男人。可是沒有，她還是覺得不甘心，還是想往外飛，還是不想為男人生孩子。「我沒心思生孩子。還有許多男人向我示愛，我要好好挑一個。」她對我的規勸充耳不聞。我嘆息，我不知道女友的漂泊生活步伐何時結束。那個愛她的男人經歷了一系列的變故，依然對她痴愛不改，她想要的幸福就在身邊，怎麼不知道珍惜呢？我憂心忡忡地等待著她的新愛情。但意外的是，僅過了一年，女友竟然懷孕了。「我徹底想明白了，只有他對我是真心。這些年，我不停地往前奔跑，遭遇許多磨難。還有誰會像他一樣，願意站在原地等我？以後我要和他好好過日子，為我祝福吧。」女友平靜地對我說。我欣喜地點頭。是啊！不是每個人都願意在原地等你。幸好，女友醒悟了。In fact, the happiness you want is around you. Your girlfriend is as beautiful as a flower, so naturally you have the capital to pick on your boyfriend. After four years of University, she has made her love career prosperous. Often less than three months after my blessing, she began a new round of love. In her love dictionary, there is never the word failure. After graduation, she went to Lanzhou and I went back to Xinjiang. I thought that a woman like her would continue to be picky. She had to marry a diamond king to stop. I didn't think about her, but I fell in love with the divorced man who was 9 years older than her. Man and her a company, as head of the security section, a little money, especially for his girlfriend bought a piano. My girlfriend graduated from the Conservatory of music, her biggest dream is to become a singer. The girlfriend's love affair aroused opposition from the whole family, especially her father, who did not attend her wedding. I think the love that my girlfriend is trying to protect must be too strong in her heart. But only two years later, the once excellent man was nothing in her mouth. She divorced without nostalgia and quickly found new happiness. A man, 2 years younger than her, is a music teacher with the same aspiration and can play many kinds of musical instruments. They are happily United. Three years later, her girlfriend resigned and went to Xinjiang to perform with her man. She told me that she couldn't satisfy the status quo. In her eyes, little Lanzhou is like a pool of stagnant water. Her vast world is not here. She is going to the outside world to realize her music dream. As a result, her 33 year old girlfriend decided to go to Shenzhen. The man set out with her. In the early days, they went to perform with a Hong Kong boss and suffered a lot. Meanwhile, the man's mother was seriously ill, and the man went back to Lanzhou to take care of him. The lonely girl friend is not used to the days when there is no one around. She urges the man to come back again and again, and the language is also mean: "how can * * not die?" The man didn't get angry. He asked her for a few days' grace in a low voice. "He will do whatever I ask him to do. He can't do without me." My girlfriend is very proud of her control. Later, it became more and more difficult to perform. My girlfriend finally accepted me and applied for a job in a private school. She successfully became a music teacher. The school conditions are good. I gave her a house. But the man only found a job in Dongguan. Fortunately, the two cities are not far away. He can come back to meet her every week. However, the girlfriend no longer needs a man to take care of her. At the moment of applying for the job, she and her 3-year-old principal had a spark. Although her girlfriend is a 35 year old married woman, she looks like she is only 27 or 8 years old because of proper maintenance. Moreover, she deliberately concealed the fact that she was married when she applied for the job. How can the headmaster not be infatuated with such a beautiful woman? They fell in love and even talked about marriage. I was shocked and asked her on the phone, "did you forget you were a married woman? What does he do? The man who has been with you for 8 years, for you to have no children, no mother and love you without hesitation, how can you throw him away But her girlfriend can't listen to her any more. She goes to her new love like moths. But the headmaster changed his mind, and I don't know which link went wrong, so the relationship between the two fell apart. No old people cry, no new people laugh, life is back in place. I think the girlfriend who has experienced setbacks will wake up and calm down to love men. But no, she still feel not reconciled, or want to fly out, or do not want to have children for men. "I'm not in the mood to have children. There are many men who show their love to me. I'll choose one. " She turned a deaf ear to my advice. I sigh, I don't know when my girlfriend's wandering life will end. The man who loves her has gone through a series of changes, but he is still infatuated with her. The happiness she wants is around her. How can he not cherish it? I waited anxiously for her new love. But unexpectedly, only a year later, my girlfriend was pregnant. "I completely understand that he is the only one who is sincere to me. Over the years, I kept running forward and encountered many hardships. Who else, like him, is willing to wait for me in the same place? I'll have a good life with him in the future, and bless me. " My girlfriend said to me calmly. I nodded with joy. Yes! Not everyone is willing to wait for you in the same place. Fortunately, my girlfriend woke up.Alan es pas bella. Es cort e cort. Es pas fòrça alta dins la publica. Es solament un estudiant de universitat junior. Debela èsser un persona transparent dins una companias amb las talents altas. Pasmens, es la puera favorida dins la companias, e es fòrça importanta per la companias.博弈顧名思義就是兩個人或兩個群體之間的一場較量，而運用在心理學中就是兩個人不依靠物質，把主要精力放在心理上的一種較量。因此，在心理博弈之中，能夠清晰地掌握並了解對方的心理狀態，有助於我們更好地在愛情中掌握主動權。《歡樂頌》中的曲筱綃在和趙醫生的這段感情中一開始是處於被動地位的，因為是她先喜歡上的對方，所以一直以來都是她在主動。只不過人主動的久了就會感覺到累，而另一個習慣的久了就會成為一種依賴，因此後期的曲筱綃不再對趙醫生獻殷勤，而是開始在朋友圈曬自己和其他異性朋友合作的照片。Lo mai grand avantat de Alan es que son EQ es fòrça alta!Sèva que non es bèla, alara que pas jamai la prevèsta. Pasmens se son collègis portan un novèl roba o cambia un color de ligas, Alan pòt trobar e plaçar d'una d'un autre. Pasmens la mamma de l'epòca, Alan tanben attacha una granda importantia a la e la respècta.這時的趙醫生感覺到了自己的地位開始受到威脅，所以之前的地位來了一個角色互換，變成了趙醫生主動去追求曲筱綃。其實在兩性關係之中，男女之間的相處就是一場心理博弈，並不是付出得越多得到的越多，而是需要看時機，去琢磨對方的內心狀態。只有掌握好對方內心的需求，才能夠精準地把握命脈，才能夠知道自己什麼付出才是最有效的，而不是盲目的、像一個無頭蒼蠅似的，付出了十份努力，結果連一份的收穫都沒有得到。S'sovent chata e rida amb la, coma un ancian amic. A vegadas quand compra las sernas, los dona a la.La onèma, la onèma es fòrça desplaçada, dins una compania fòrça, Alan es lo sol qu'l'atent.假如對方想要的是一份別出心裁的禮物，結果你還沒有做好任何實際準備，就告訴對方你所準備的禮物將會是多麼驚喜。結果對方看到的時候並沒有想像中的那麼獨一無二，而這是他（她）內心對這份禮物的喜愛程度就會大大降低，連帶著對你也有些許不滿。心理預期效應中，喜悅=現實-心理預期，失望=心理預期-現實，也就是說想要讓對方的內心感受是充滿了喜悅色彩的。Qu'es dramatic es que l'epòca d'auntie sweeper qu'agrada de far diferents apartaments dins sa familha, coma çò se dich sus l'Internet. L'agrada d'introduire a sa filha sens que s on aparéncia. Anque enthusiasticament s'arangís per dos jovents de rencontar. Pasmens Alan es pas bella, son naut EQ l'ganhèt lo favore de puers.那麼就不要操之過急，而是應該緩慢的、穩重的去構建好你所能考慮好的一切，爾後在一個恰當的時機在給予對方，哪怕這個東西對方真的很想要。慢慢來可以避免親密關係中的過度索取。舉個例子：當我想要一束花的時候，你馬不停蹄地送給我，如此這般，接二連三地送給我之後，我會覺得這束花來得很容易，就像我想喝水，我可以立馬解渴一般簡單，所以我就覺得這一株花不再能滿足我，我開始要得更多，而你一旦不給，我就會對你的愛意表示懷疑。Lo filh de la matina diguèt qu'èsser amb Alan faguèt que los personas sentir dins la casa. Es benign, natural, umor e calor cord. 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