Research shows that the average person listens with only 25 percent efficiency meaning there's a 人和人的聚散，像天上的雲，像水中的浮萍，時而聚合，時而分離。聚聚合合，是天地間的神秘。絕大多數人都知道個人是很渺小的，命運無法由自己操縱，遂而聽天由命，於是一切「隨緣。 「隨緣」，凡事不強求；把人的聚散一場，全說成是一種緣分。到底什麼是緣分呢？字典上的說法是自然的機遇。什麼又是「自然的機遇」呢？問到後來仍然是一團茫然。 年輕時候追求，年老時候逃避。人的一生裡，最初，我們凡事好奇，渴望認識新的朋友，接觸新的環境。這世界其實是由無數小圈圈、小團體組成的，就像中央車站發出的各班列車，你買了票，追上了車，希望它帶我們到一個城市，或一個鄉鎮；在起點和終點之間，你認識了一些人，由聚而散，最後總要分離。天下無不散的筵席。比較悲哀的是，原先想打進去的小圈子，接納了你，你也成為小圈子裡的一個成員，到了後來，你卻又覺得無趣而自動逃離，如此周而復始——參加團體又脫離團體。和朋友親近，又和朋友疏離。從希望開始，到失望結束。在聚聚散散之間，最後我們剩下的是一顆蒼老、寂寞而孤獨的心。 人為什麼對別人失望？或問，別人為什何會對我失望？你可以說是誤解，但有時更因為是了解。「因誤解而結合，因了解而分開」，人和人之間的聚散，總是一方故意一方無意，在無意和故意之間，就像天空裡飄走的兩片雲，他們或許還會相遇，但心境早已不同，有時再相逢形同陌路，真的是相見不如不見。 聚散的故事說不完，有時聚散兩依依，有時互相躲避，惟恐窄路相見，真是「既有今日，何必當初！」 聚是歡樂，散是蒼涼。但友情和愛情走到後來，有人硬是寧選蒼涼而舍快樂，必有其錐心之痛。 人生故事，無非都是聚散一場，好像一部電影一齣戲，一旦開演，總會結束。一堆朋友，無論七位八位九位……甚至自稱十三太妹或十三太保，今天聚明天聚，聚到後來，仿佛彼此的歡笑聲還在迴蕩，但仔細回想，甲到了天國，乙在異域，丙正和病魔掙扎，丁失蹤了，戊財務有了困難逃之夭夭……原來人人都有困境，少年時候的朋友，星散各地，全失去了音訊，也有的明知對方在哪裡，卻彼此裝作不知道，你不找我，我也不找你，所謂老死不相往來，這是朋友之間另一種散，這一種散，豈是當初彼此相見恨晚之時所能想像。The gathering and scattering of people, like clouds in the sky, like duckweed in the water, sometimes gather and sometimes separate. Gathering together is the mystery between heaven and earth. The vast majority of people know that the individual is very small, and the fate can not be controlled by themselves, so they leave it to fate, so everything goes with fate. "With fate", everything is not forced; the gathering and scattering of people is a kind of fate. What is fate? The dictionary says it's a natural opportunity. What is "natural opportunity"? I was still at a loss. Pursue in youth and escape in old age. At the beginning of our life, we are curious about everything, eager to meet new friends and new environment. In fact, the world is made up of numerous small circles and groups, just like the trains sent out by central station. You buy tickets and catch up with the train, hoping that it will take us to a city or a town. Between the starting point and the ending point, you know some people, who will gather and disperse, and finally separate. The world is a feast that comes to an end. It's sad that the small circle that you wanted to enter accepted you and you became a member of the small circle. Later, you felt bored and ran away automatically, and so on again and again - joining the group and leaving the group. Close to friends, but also alienated from friends. From hope to disappointment. Between gathering and scattering, what we have left is an old, lonely and lonely heart. Why are people disappointed in others? Or, why are others disappointed with me? You can say it's misunderstanding, but sometimes it's understanding. "Because of misunderstanding and combination, because of understanding and separation", the gathering and scattering between people, is always one side intentionally, the other side unintentionally, between unintentionally and intentionally, like two clouds floating in the sky, they may meet, but the mood has long been different, sometimes meet again, like strangers, it is better not to see each other. There are endless stories about gathering and scattering. Sometimes they are dependent on each other, sometimes they evade each other for fear of meeting each other in a narrow road. It's really "today, why at the beginning!" Gathering is joy, scattering is desolation. However, when friendship and love come to an end, some people choose desolation rather than happiness, which is bound to be painful. Life story is nothing more than a gathering and parting, like a movie and a play. Once it starts, it always ends. A bunch of friends, seven, eight, nine They even call themselves the thirteen Tai Mei or the thirteen Tai Bao. They get together today and tomorrow. Later, it seems that the laughter of each other is still reverberating. But when you think about it carefully, a goes to heaven, B is in a foreign land, C is struggling with the disease, D is missing, and E has financial difficulties and runs away It turns out that everyone is in trouble. Friends in their youth are scattered all over the world and have lost all information. Some of them pretend they don't know where they are, but they pretend they don't know. You don't look for me, and I don't look for you. The so-called old and dead don't communicate with each other. This is another kind of dispersion between friends. This kind of dispersion can't be imagined when we met too late. lot we're letting go one ear and the other. But as listening expert Paul Sacco, Ph.D., an assistant professor at the University of Maryland School of Social Work, explains, there are just a few simple habits that set the real good ners apart from the rest. 研究顯示一般人傾聽的效率只有25%——這意味著我們讓很多東西一耳進一耳出了。然而，正如傾聽方面的專家保羅·薩科博士所講，講真正好的傾聽者和其他人區分開的，只有幾個簡單的習慣。保羅現在馬裡蘭大學社會工作學院擔任助理教授。為簡單起見，這個計算假設每年的回報率在12%左右，而且不考慮納稅。So where do you start? Experts recommend to start investing in your 401(k) or Roth IRA. 所以，你從什麼時候開始呢？專家推薦從你的401(k)退休儲蓄計劃或者羅斯個人退休帳戶開始投資。Bach also advises to refrain from spending on small daily purchases like buying coffee every morning and instead to invest that money. Decades from now, that money will be worth enough for you to buy more than just one coffee.ne迪士尼公司 高管4日在和分析師開財報電話會議時講述了發行《花木蘭》的新計劃。除了Di洛sney+平臺6.99美元的會員費，還要繳納30美元的點播費。"We thought it was important to find alternative ways to bring [Mulan] in a timely manner," Disney CEO Bob Chapek said. In countries where Disney Plus is not available, Disney is relea Mulan in thers on the same date. The new release date follows Warner Bros.' announcement that Christopher Nolan's Tenet would get a taggered release. Tenet will open in approximately 70 international territorieson August 26th before getting a limited release in the United States on September 3rd. It will go city by city in the United States as the country battles climbing coronavirus cases. performance area where I'm pleased to see an improvement is in audio,which could periodically cut out on the old iPad Pro.With this A12Z-based update,everything from video to audio runs smoother.The audio file going missing is no longer an issue,and real-time edits are jitter-free.Processing time is speedier,too,not just for post-processing but during the wireless file transfer from the Insta360 One R camera to the iPad itself. 我很快樂-看到一個nature能方面的改進，那便是音頻方面，舊的iPad Pro或許會周期nature地中斷。通過這個聽雨文刊tinyuwk依據a12z的更新，從視頻到音頻的全部都運轉得更流通。音頻文件丟掉不再是一個問題，實時修改是無抖動的。處理速度也更快，不只是在後期處理，還包含從Insta360 One R相機到iPad自身的無線文件傳輸過程中。