關於孤獨那些事
About loneliness
關於孤獨那些事
02:25來自LearningYard學苑
孤獨,是憂愁的伴侶,也是精神活動的密友。——(黎)紀伯
孤獨並不是身邊沒有人陪你、沒人聽你講話、你說的話沒人聽，它是來自靈魂深處的一種不知什麼時候冒出的感覺，它不像悲傷和高興那樣來得猛烈，它更像是一層紗，若隱若現，但就是掉不了，籠罩在身上。它是上天給人的恩賜，它不斷折磨著人也不斷地在提醒人—每個人都是獨一無二—除了你自己真正知道你想要什麼，其他人都不知道。
孤獨的形成
The formation of loneliness
孤獨初體驗
相信每一個人在小時候都會有一段孤獨的經歷，可能是下課了你的好朋友沒有喊你，你一個人走，回到家時你大聲喊也發現爸媽不在家沒有人回應你時的空蕩蕩，這些都是孤獨的初體驗，但嚴格來說，這還不算是真正意義上的孤獨，只是平時習慣的人和事缺失而帶來的一種缺失感。但在經歷這種感覺後，你會不自覺地對身邊的人和事更加珍惜，因為你已經初步嘗到了那種失去的感覺。你很害怕一個人，這讓你感覺很難受，這種難受的感覺就是初級孤獨。
進化的孤獨
Evolutionary loneliness
孤獨也會進化
漸漸地，你長大了，當你再次發現你的好朋友不理你時，沒人有回應你時，你不再感到難受，你對自己說這是成長，對，這是成長，你變得更加堅強了，但孤獨也慢慢隨著你變而變了，它就像是套在你身上的一件衣服， 你長高了，它也變寬鬆了，以前感到孤獨時和小夥伴一起吃一頓好的，玩耍一會兒可能就好了，但現在仿佛是就是纏在身上，擺脫不了。
享受孤獨
Enjoy solitude
孤獨的好處
孤獨是人的一個屬性，無論是什麼人都會感到孤獨，孤獨不一定就是壞事，孤獨會讓你意識到你是一個人，從而讓你對於自己的人生有更加仔細的思考和安排，這更能讓自己的人生有意義。
About loneliness
Loneliness is not around no one to accompany you, no one to listen to you, no one to listen to what you say, it is from the depths of the soul of a feeling that does not know when to come out, it is not as violent as sadness and joy, it is more like a layer of yarn, if looming, but just can not fall, shrouded in the body. It's a gift from Heaven, it's constantly torturing people and constantly reminding people - everyone is unique - that no one knows what you want except that you really know what you want.
一、The formation of loneliness
I believe that everyone in childhood will have a lonely experience, may be after class your good friend did not shout you, you walk alone, when you come home you shout also found that parents are not at home when no one responds to your empty, these are lonely first experience, but strictly speaking, this is not really lonely, but the usual habits of people and things missing and bring a sense of absence. But after experiencing this feeling, you will unconsciously cherish the people and things around you, because you have initially tasted the feeling of loss. You're scared of being alone, and it makes you feel bad, and it's a feeling of primary loneliness.
二、Evolutionary loneliness
Gradually, when you grow up, when you find that your good friend ignores you again, no one has to respond to you, you no longer feel uncomfortable, you say to yourself that this is growth, yes, this is growth, you become stronger, but loneliness also slowly changes with you, it is like a dress on your body, you grow tall, it also becomes loose, before feeling lonely and small partner to eat a good meal together, play for a while may be good, but now it may not be able to get rid of.
三、Enjoy solitude
Loneliness is an attribute of human beings, no matter who will feel lonely, loneliness is not necessarily a bad thing, loneliness will make you realize that you are a person, so that you have more careful thinking and arrangements for your own life, which can make your life more meaningful.
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