Good Morning Sunday It's the 1491th day Lily's Greeting shared with you. Have a nice weekend
一是,收到會回復。First, reply when we receive it.有一種尊重,叫收到請回復。
There is a kind of respect, please reply when you receive it.
每個人的時間都很寶貴,沒人願意浪費。如今是信息發達的時代,手機24小時攜帶,但有一些人,安排工作的信息從來不回復,關鍵時刻總是聯繫不上,這樣的人常被大家定義為「不靠譜」。而靠譜的人,就是凡事有交代、件件有著落、事事有回音。
Everyone's time is precious and no one wants to waste it. Today is an era of information development. Mobile phones are carried around 24 hours a day. However, some people never reply to the information about work arrangements and can't contact them at critical moments. Such people are often defined as "unreliable". A reliable person is one who has an account for everything, a place for everything, and an echo for everything.
人與人之間的安全感,有時也來自於你看到消息就會及時回復。一個會及時回復消息的人,通常也是有耐心、對他人負責的人。
The sense of security between people sometimes comes from the fact that you will reply promptly when you see a message. A person who responds to messages in a timely manner is usually patient and responsible to others.
二是,守時不爽約。Second, punctuality is not good. 守時,是對他人最基本的尊重,很多時候也代表了一個人的形象。Punctuality is the most basic respect for others. It also represents the image of a person.
我們身邊可能都有幾個愛遲到的朋友,無論是同學聚會還是好友約飯,總有人超出約定的時間,姍姍來遲,事後不僅沒有一句抱歉,反而覺得這是小事,不必斤斤計較。
We may have a few friends who usually be late. Whether it's a classmate party or a good friend's dinner appointment, there are always some people who are late and beyond the appointed time. After the event, we don't have a word of apology. On the contrary, we feel that this is a small matter and we don't need to be fussy.
每個人的生活都很忙碌,願意花時間陪伴你的人是因為在乎你,但這並不是可以讓別人久等的理由。若是平白無故的遲到,總是讓別人把時間浪費在毫無意義的等待上,事後甚至還沒有半點愧疚之意,這其實就是一種自私。
Everyone's life is very busy. People who are willing to spend time with you care about you, but that's not a reason to keep others waiting. If you are late for no reason, you always let others waste their time on meaningless waiting, and there is no sense of guilt afterwards. This is actually a kind of selfishness.
三是,承諾會遵守。Third, keep what promised .一言既出,駟馬難追。答應了別人的事情,就要盡力做到。如果無故毀約,那就是在磨滅別人對你的信任。
Once a word has been said, it can never be recalled. If you promise others something, you should try your best to do it. If you break the contract without any reason, you are wearing out the trust of others.
誠實守信是安身立命之本,人無信,則不立。人只有做到守信,才能問心無愧,經得起考驗。
Honesty and faithfulness are the foundation of a man's life. If a man has no faith, he will not be established. Only by keeping faith can one have a clear conscience and stand the test.
作出承諾前,一定要考慮好,不能做到的事情不要逞強答應。嘴上靠譜不如行動靠譜,遵守約定的人才靠譜。
Before you make a promise, you must consider it well. If you can't do something, don't dare to promise. Words are better than actions, and those who abide by the agreement are reliable.
四是,低調不吹噓。Fourth, keep a low profile and don't brag.靠譜的人,往往說話謹慎、行動敏捷。換句話說就是嘴上不吹噓,會踏實做好自己的事。
Reliable people tend to speak cautiously and act quickly. In other words, you will do your own thing well without boasting.
正所謂,謙謙君子,虛懷若谷。謙虛的人更容易被人信任和喜歡,而愛吹噓的人則難以讓人產生信任感。況且真正有本事的人,大都低調內斂、不顯山露水的。
As the so-called, modest gentleman, modest as valley. Modest people are more likely to be trusted and liked, while boastful people are less likely to have a sense of trust. Moreover, most of the people who really have the ability are low-key and introverted and do not show off their talents.
謙虛低調的人往往有一種世事盡在掌握之中的沉穩之氣,這樣的人也常常給人一種靠譜和值得信賴的感覺。
Modest and low-key people often have a kind of calm atmosphere in the control of the world, such people also often give people a sense of reliability and trust.5
一旦有了自己想堅守的正確的信念,就要一如既往地堅持,無論遇到什麼誘惑都不為所動。
Once you have the right faith that you want to stick to, you should stick to it as always, no matter what temptation you encounter, you should not be affected.
有底線的人才有定力,有底線的人才有骨氣,有底線的人才更靠譜。
People with bottom line have determination, those with bottom line have backbone, and those with bottom line are more reliable.
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六是,勇敢有擔當。Sixth, be brave and responsible.「事不避難,義不逃責。」一個人最好的底牌,就是擔當。人生在世,每個人都要承擔屬於自己的責任,做人要有尊嚴,遇事要有擔當,不逃避,不推卸。
"If you do not seek refuge, justice will not escape responsibility." A person's best card is to play. In this world, everyone should bear his own responsibility. He should be dignified. He should take responsibility when he is in trouble. He should not evade or shirk.
越是有擔當的人,越容易有一個成功的人生。沒有擔當的人,不僅會讓人看不起,更會透支自己的信譽。
The more responsible people are, the more likely they are to have a successful life. Those who are not responsible will not only be looked down upon by others, but also overdraw their own reputation.
一個人值不值得深交,也要看他有沒有擔當。沒有擔當的人,萬萬不能與之為友,否則一不小心就可能被他坑騙。
Whether a person is worth deep friendship or not depends on whether he is responsible or not. Those who do not take responsibility should never be friends with them, otherwise they may be cheated by them if they are not careful.
靠譜的人,遇到困難,表現出的是不逃避、敢於擔當;遇到問題,會反省自身、主動承擔責任。人生路上一定要和靠譜的人同行,才能少走彎路。更重要的是,我們自己也要努力成為這樣靠譜的人。
Reliable people, when encountering difficulties, show that they do not evade and dare to take responsibility; when they encounter problems, they will reflect on themselves and take the initiative to take responsibility. On the road of life, we must walk with reliable people to avoid detours. More importantly, we should strive to be such a reliable person.