No one likes to be around an arrogantperson since it is a quality that does not attract people. Yet some people maybe arrogant and find it difficult to recognize it. Here are 15 signs thatyou’re arrogant though you might not feel like you are.
沒有人喜歡和傲慢自大的人在一起，這個品質一點都不吸引人。然而，一些人或許很傲慢，但是自己很難意識到。下面這15個跡象表明你很傲慢，即使你覺得並非如此。
1.You are constantly late
你經常遲到
There is nothing absurd in being or showingup late once in a while. This may be a bad habit on your part. However when youconstantly do this intentionally, this could be a sign that you are arrogantbecause you seem to feel like your time is more valuable than that of others.
偶爾遲到無可厚非，這或許只是你的一個壞習慣。然而，如果你經常故意遲到，這就是傲慢自大的跡象，因為你似乎覺得自己的時間比其他人的時間寶貴。
2. You interrupt others a lot
你經常打斷他人說話
When you interrupt others a lot to showthat you have something more important to say than what others are saying, itmeans you have little regard for the opinion of others and this could be a signof arrogance.
當你經常打斷他人說話，表示你有更重要的事情要說時，這意味著你不在乎他人的觀點，這是傲慢的一個標誌。
3. You believe you are better than others
你相信自己比別人好
Whether in terms of your looks,intelligence or in your status you believe you are better than others anddeserve to be treated better, this means you show a sign of arrogance.
無論是外表，智慧還是地位，你都相信自己比別人好，值得優待，這也表明你有點傲慢自大。
4. You go out of your way to be right
竭力證明自己是正確的
You can’t just accept that you are wrong orthat you can be wrong at all. You go to the extreme to offer an explanation foryour being right. And after all is said and done you brag about this.
你不僅不能接受自己是錯的，甚至不能接受自己會出錯。你竭力解釋自己是正確的。達到目的後你還會自吹自擂。
5. You think your status is more importantthan whatever contribution you make
你認為身份地位比貢獻更重要
When you want to take a job or a task youare focused on the title or the status attached to it. You are more interestedin how the job will make you feel rather than the commitments involved.
當你決定接受一份工作或一項任務時，你更注重相應的頭銜或地位。你對這份工作給你帶來的優越感比工作責任更感興趣。
6. When asked, 「can you do it?」 you alwayssay 「yes」
別人問你「能不能做到？」你總是會回答「能」
You don’t want to be looked down at. Youfeel like you are always capable and anytime you back out from a task youdemonstrate a flaw.
你不想被小看。你覺得你總是能做到任何事，任何時候退出一項任務都會覺得自己有瑕疵。
7. People constantly tell you to give theman opportunity to prove their abilities
人們總是懇求你給他們證明自己能力的機會
You seem to question everyone’s ability toget a task done. You believe you are the only one who can get the job done andthus people offer or plead for you to tolerate them and believe in them ratherthan stifle them.
你似乎質疑每個人完成任務的能力。你認為只有你才能勝任這項工作，導致其他人請求你寬容他們，相信他們，而不是扼殺他們。
8.You despise the weak
你鄙視弱者
You can’t tolerate people who show signs ofbeing fallible. If someone backs out from accepting responsibility and takingcharge of a situation, you resent and despise such a person.
你不能容忍容易出錯的人。如果某人拒絕接受一項任務或者為某個局面負責，你就會憎恨並鄙視這樣的人。
9. You have a hard time self reflecting
你很難自我反省
You find it difficult to stare at themirror and see yourself for what you really are. You have a hard time to lookback at your failures and weaknesses.
你覺得站在鏡子前端看自己的真實樣子很困難。你不想回顧自己的失敗和弱點。
10. You love to be talked about
你喜歡被別人談論
Anytime there is a discussion you like thediscussion to be about you. During a gathering you want everyone’s attention tobe on you. And if it is about a general subject you want everyone to agree toyour opinion.
你希望人們任何時候討論的對象都是你。聚會期間你希望每個人的注意力都在你身上。如果大家討論的是一般的話題，你希望每個人都贊同你的觀點。
11. You consider people you don’t like asenemies or threats
你把自己不喜歡的人視為敵人或威脅
Think of the people you don’t like. Do youconsider them as threats to your perfect world? Does your blood start to boilwhen you hear their names or concoct reasons to prove that this person is anidiot?
想想你不喜歡的人。你認為他們是對你的完美世界的威脅嗎？當你聽到他們的名字時是否全身的血液都沸騰起來？你是不是想要編造理由證明這個人是白痴？
12. You can’t stand people who are not likeyou
你不能容忍和你不同的人
You want everyone to be like you. You findit difficult to speak positively about anyone who doesn’t measure up to yourstandards.
你想要每個人都和你一樣。如果有人達不到你的標準，你就覺得說他的好話非常困難。
13. You have issues building relationships
你發現建立人際關係很困難
People find it difficult to flock to you.Most likely the negative quality of arrogance has a way of turning people away.Arrogant people have a way of sacrificing their relationships with friends andother people for the sake of success or self gratification.
人們發現很難聚集在你周圍。傲慢自大這種負面品質很有可能會把人們趕走。傲慢自大的人為了獲得成功或自我滿足感不惜犧牲與朋友的關係。
14. You shield your inferiority with asuperiority complex
你用優越感來掩飾你的自卑
Arrogant people always have an Achillesheel, but this they do not want exposed or known by people. Thus they use aninvincible front to protect their vulnerabilities.
傲慢自大的人總是有一個致命的弱點，但是他們不想暴露，不想被人知道。因此他們使用堅不可摧的面具來保護自己的弱點。
15. You show false charm but beneath itexists some cruelty
你表現出虛假的魅力，但是迷人的外表下卻隱藏著殘忍
You show false charm as a tool to drawattention to you. But this element of false magnetism can be easily recognizedbecause you cannot sustain it for so long.
你表現出虛假的魅力，作為吸引注意力的工具。但是這種虛假的吸引力很容易被識破，因為你難以維持很長時間。
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