大噶好. 我今天來的比較早, 但是還是要按時複習的, 下個星期 媽媽可能去醫院做檢查, 我需要陪護, 希望SD 保守!
開始啦, 今天歌曲是!!!!
這個是少年犯裡面的背景音樂, 我真的好喜歡呀.
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How do we come to terms with loss? Part of saying goodbyeinvolves creating our own rituals for commemorating 紀念, 慶祝, celeberatethe life that we no longer have.
Rituals are a vital part of marking transitions andassigning meaning to them. They help to speed up acceptance, and they allow usto integrate整合, 融入 our pasts into使..成為一體. the new futures (which are) awaiting us. Somerituals can involve literally marking change on our bodies. For example, anex-Nazi chose to cover all his fascist 法西斯主義tattooswith religious symbols to signify his conversion轉變, 轉化. Other peoplechoose to get new piercings 耳洞, …洞, or a wild new hairstyle after a divorce.
The key message here is: Rituals help us to say goodbye tothe lives we’re leaving behind.
Communal公共的,公社的eventsare an important form of ritual, providing a way to celebrate happy occasionsand landmarks as well as mourn losses. 哀悼損失… Parties can mark the beginning of an important trajectory like a gender transition or pregnancy. They can also be used to signify an endpoint, like the completion 結束,完成of a PhD thesis or cancer treatment.
Objects can play an important part in rituals, too. A formerprisoner and a veteran老兵, 有經驗的人sharedtheir stories of keeping their dirty boots in sight at home. The bootssymbolized a past they wanted to acknowledge, even though they never wanted toreturn there. For others, wearing a particular piece of jewelry can help themfeel the presence of a place or person they love.
Of course, rituals are especially important when it comes togrief and loss. This was something that Larry, a rabbi, discovered when hisfirst child was stillborn 流產的,死在胎中的. There were no established rituals of mourningwithin thesynagogue猶太人集會for miscarried 流產 noun and stillbornchildren, and no way for him and his wife to publicly express their grief. Sohe set about creating his own rituals, and wrote a thesis advising how rabbis拉比, 教會裡面的學者could support community members who weregoing through the same thing.
Rituals can make visible some of our internal turmoil.混亂, 動蕩 They also allow us to be in connection with a broadercommunity of people. Accepting painful emotions and creating our own ritualsallows us to start accepting that our lives are changing. As we』ll discover inthe next blink, the next stage involves shedding 脫落,蛻落allthe parts of our old lives that don’t work for us anymore.