If a man has verbally told you that he has committed to you, you still worry about that he just considers you as a short term placeholder. Your concern is understandable, as many men do that to women in order to get some gf benefit without having to go through the hustle of hunting more girls that not only costs his money time energy, and also avoids the constant risks of being rejected by women.
However, if you are just a placeholder in his heart, and he just pretends that you are his special girl, then he shall keep waiting for his magical woman to appear! If this is the case, this indicates he is inauthentic to you, this is an issue of his Character- loyalty (integrity).
A man cannot be loyal to two women whose benefits are opposing to each other, he either is loyal to you or is loyal to another woman. There is no middle ground for him if you want to establish authority in the relationship!
So the solution to this problem is to check his loyalty evidence in his life.
Is he very loyal to his best friend? If he betrays his best friend for stupid reasons, then probably he won’t be loyal to you long-termly too!
If he is very loyal to his friend, then you probably can predict that his verbal promise to you means something serious for both him and you!
So Ladies, you should proactively participate and penetrate his life to know more about his relationship with everything in his world, then you can have a better understanding about who he is. And then you can decide to proceed your relationship with this man or not consciously!
I hope that this article will improve your Dating Life!
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- Joy Yang, Dating and Relationship Coach.
She helps Singles rebuild Self-Concept, Self-Worth, Self-Trust, Study the Art of Communication and Decision, so that they can attract and keep quality partners Effortless, and become their best version.
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