1)電視劇女主角真好啊,遇到什麼事都可以側過頭來向觀眾眨眨眼,我也嘗試了一下,但是始終不確定鏡頭在哪邊。
2)So, it turns out it's quite hard to come up with something original to say about love. But I've had a go. Love is awful. It's awful. It's painful. It's frightening.
Makes you doubt yourself, judge yourself. Distance yourself from the other people in your life. Make you selfish. Makes you creepy. Makes you obsessed with your hair. Makes you cruel. Makes you say and do things you never thought you would do!
It's all any of us want. And it's hell when we get there! So, no wonder, it's something we don't want to do on our own.
I was taught if we're born with love, then life is about choosing the right place to put it. People talk about that a lot: 'It feeling right', 'When it feels right it's easy'. But I'm not sure that's true.
It takes strength to know what's right. And love isn't something that weak people do.
Being a romantic takes a hell of a lot of hope.
I think what they mean is... when you find somebody that you love, it feels like hope.
So thank you for bringing us all together here today. To take words from this book of love. Be strong and take heart. All you who hope in the lord.
3)Women are born with pain built in. It's our physical destiny. Period pains, sore boobs, childbirth, you know. We carry it within ourselves throughout our lives.
Men don't. They have to seek it out. They invent all these gods and demons and things. Just so they can feel guilty about things, which is something we also do very well on our own.
And then they create wars. So they can feel things and touch each other. And when there aren't any wars they can play rugby. And we have it all going on in here, inside. We have pain on a cycle for years and years and years.
And then, just you feel you are making peace of it all. What happens? The menopause comes. The fucking menopause comes. It is the most wonderful fucking thing in the world! And, yes, your entire pelvic floor crumbles, but then you're free. No longer a slave, no longer a machine, with parts.
You're just a person in business. It is horrendous, but then it's magnificent. Something to look forward to.
4)最後在車站她在等他。我全身也跟著她一起顫抖。我們的內心沒有不安,我們同樣篤定地知道不會有好下場,但我們還是會像是為了證明自己的猜測一樣不死心地詢問對方的態度。
得知結論與自己想的一樣,痛苦竟然抵不上猜中了結局的那種「我就知道」的快感。所有的笑都不是刻意裝作堅強而是太習慣了自嘲,儘可能以最痛最快的方式先自己親手劃開這道傷口,因為之後誰再補刀都不可能更痛了。
5)可Fleabag卻是那種把一整顆心都交出去的人。她最真誠地告解,她最虔誠地下跪。她說即使她知道一切都沒有意義,她還是希望有人告訴她意義是什麼。
最後我們發現每個人都愛Fleabag,沒錯吧?
她明白意義並不存在,但她還是選擇繼續等、繼續尋找。她真是一腔孤勇,誰能不愛上這樣的人呢?
7)而我是個平凡矮小、感情生活貧瘠、蹲圖書館逃避人生的一點也不酷女孩。然而,在某一些瞬間,跨越文化的界限,撥開情節的迷霧,我會看到,噢,Fleabag。看完發愣,好像微醺,在那個氛圍裡一下子拔不出來。
8)第二季的最後,Fleabag和神父在公交站頭告別。Fleabag說:可是我愛上你了。神父說:我也愛你。神父又說:會過去的。
這個結尾真好。是啊,愛和苦痛最終都會過去,但身處其中的時候不必故作冷酷,dwell on it,稍作沉溺亦無妨。因為這些記憶,將是我們所能擁有的一切。
9)短髮 & 主導權:「英國髮型歷史學家蕾切爾·吉布森表示:當生活中出現重大事件時,你會剪短頭髮再次控制自己。所以,我們看到了很多人剪短髮,我認為,擁有一頭簡潔的短髮讓人感覺非常強大。
10)這種精分狀態是她自己的愧疚心導致的。就是說,當別人表達對她的愛時,她會覺得自己不配。但是當大家都遠離她,她又希望有誰能來告訴她她的過去可以被原諒。
11)神父能看到她的小神遊,他能看到神父的狐狸,這是互相可以走進彼此內心深處的原因吧。
12)因為自我成長的實現,不是靠一個白馬王子霸道總裁腳踩祥雲從天而降來拯救自己於水火這種童話奇遇,而是得靠自我意識的獨立,試煉,蛻變,升華,變得更通透達觀,也更勇敢堅強,從此笑傲江湖不再怕水深火熱,天高海闊任我行。
真的勇士,敢於直面慘澹的人生,哪怕跌跌撞撞磕磕絆絆又沒有王子作伴,也能活得肆意又灑脫。
13)-為什么女主總會把事情搞砸,越不讓做的事情越要做?-我們也是這樣的啊,有時候也是明知不可為而偏為之,這就是人性的弱點。
14)其實我覺得和最後在爸爸的婚禮上,在閣樓裡爸爸對她說的那句話是呼應的,他說「我覺得你才是那個最懂愛的人」。愛不一定要顯而易見,循規蹈矩,它可以有各種表現形式,葬禮上沒有顯得憔悴並不能代表不愛,其實女主內心就是那個最懂愛的人,她用她那不世俗、不循規蹈矩的方式一直在向她愛的人傳達善意。
15)
It will pass.