我有愛我的家人,有跟我嬉笑打鬧的朋友,能夠擁有這些就很滿足啦。
過去那些讓我難過的人和事,我都不會再去想了,我現在只想找回自己的快樂。
I have family members who love me and friends who play with me. It's very satisfying to have these.
I won't think about the people and things that made me sad in the past. Now I just want to find my happiness.
當大人的那份辛苦也是有趣的呀。
不用再聽誰的話,頭髮可以染成喜歡的粉色,想打幾個耳洞都可以,有能力選擇自己喜歡的,甩掉討厭的,有能力賺錢給爸爸媽媽買禮物,對自己在乎的人好,這種幸福感已經超越了辛苦感了。
It's fun to be an adult.
You don't have to listen to anyone's words. You can dye your hair pink as you like. You can make a few ear holes. You have the ability to choose what you like and get rid of what you hate. You have the ability to make money to buy gifts for your parents. You are good to the people you care about. This sense of happiness has surpassed the sense of hard work.
世界總是門當戶對的,運行了千年的人類規律,怎麼可能因為你一個「灰姑娘遇上白馬王子」的故事就打破?
畢竟還是魚找魚,蝦找蝦,烏龜配王八!你可以不信,但得承認。
The world is always right. How can you break the human law that has been running for thousands of years because of the story of "Cinderella meets prince charming"?
After all, it's fish for fish, shrimp for shrimp, tortoise for bastard! You can't believe it, but you have to admit it.
做一個不動聲色的大人吧,沉迷又獨立於俗世,活得無怨並且盡興,歸來時滿載而且清白。
Be a quiet adult, addicted and independent of the secular world, live without complaint and enjoy, and come back full and innocent.
人還是要保持因生活細碎而滿足的能力,比如品嘗久違的美食,重溫熟悉的街角,買到鍾意的裙子,感知溫柔的剎那,這些看似雞零狗碎的生活碎片卻是通向快樂星球的秘密通道。
People still need to maintain the ability to be satisfied with the details of life, such as tasting the long lost food, revisiting the familiar street corner, buying the favorite skirt, and perceiving the tender moment. These seemingly trivial fragments of life are the secret passage to the happy planet.
很早之前看到的一句話:人品這東西,如果你沒有,就看不出來對方有沒有。我深表贊同 。
A sentence I saw a long time ago: if you don't have character, you can't see whether the other party has it or not. I agree.
要我說啊,早點斬斷那些亂七八糟的關係,學會及時止損真的蠻重要的。坐錯車並不可怕,不能因為已經投了幣上了車,就捨不得下去,這樣只會錯過更多。
If you want me to say, it's really important to cut off those messy relationships early and learn to stop losses in time. It's not terrible to take the wrong bus. You can't be reluctant to go down just because you've put money into the bus. You'll only miss more.
我很享受儀式帶來的幸福感,所以遇到節日會想要好好慶祝。
生活本來就是一天天瑣碎的重複,而儀式感會顯得那一天格外不同,甚至多年以後再回想起來,我仍然能感覺到治癒,況且人生有太多一期一會的事,錯過了就真的不會再有了。
I enjoy the happiness brought by the ceremony, so I want to celebrate the festival.
Life is a trivial repetition day by day, and the sense of ceremony will make that day very different. Even when I look back many years later, I can still feel cured. Moreover, there are too many things in my life. If I miss them, I will never have them again.
其實我現在根本不怕任何人的離開,因為我很相信錯過我是他們的損失,不是我的。
In fact, I am not afraid of anyone's leaving now, because I believe that missing me is their loss, not mine.
【圖源:Mcdoll_】