德羅贊被抑鬱症困擾,美JRs心疼不已,祈禱他能快些走出陰影
DeMar DeRozan on Twitter: 「This depression get the best of me.」
德瑪爾-德羅贊推特更新狀態:「抑鬱,是在下輸了。」
[–]SpursBEE_REAL_ 3687 指標 14小時前
This isn't surprising IMO. He's been randomly irritable and has looked kinda out of it for the past month or so. Very familiar to anyone who's dealt with depression.
Hope he gets well, it's rough
我倒是一點都不意外,上個月的時候德羅贊就時不時出現易怒或者不在狀態的情況,這就很像得了抑鬱症的人了。
希望德羅贊一切安好,我知道這個很難熬。
[–]Trail Blazersdipset4444 2107 指標 13小時前
He's been flying to LA and back for the past month due to his dad's health, so that may be it
德羅贊的父親身體不太好,所以德羅贊上個月經常坐飛機往返於洛杉磯和比賽地,也許是因為這個事兒吧。
[–][BOS] Rajon Rondocs_zer0 1993 指標 13小時前*
His mom has been dealing with lupus since he's been a teenager and he broke up with his wife and mother of 2
Gotta be a hard time for him even if he's a NBA star
德羅贊還小的時候他媽媽就一直在和紅斑狼瘡作鬥爭了啊,而且之前他老婆也離開他了,帶著倆孩子一起走的。
就算他是NBA的大明星,他現在的日子過得也不容易。
[–]Raptorsbad_shoes 1170 指標 12小時前*
Just to clarify, she was his longtime girlfriend since high school but they never married.
猛龍球迷:澄清一下,準確說是「德羅贊高中時的女友」,不是「老婆」,他倆沒結過婚。
[–]RaptorsJevvyMedia 426 指標 12小時前
I'd still call that his wife tbh, even if it's not legally correct.
猛龍球迷:老實說我還是願意說她是「德羅贊的妻子」,雖然這個關係沒有得到法律認可。
[–]Heatandresq1 642 指標 12小時前
It is legally correct if theyve lived together for 2 years in Canada
不過如果他們曾一起在加拿大同居過兩年的話,那就是合法夫妻啦。[譯註1]
[譯註1]加拿大卑詩省通過的新的家庭法,同居兩年以上即可成為普通法體系中的「伴侶」,享有與夫妻關係相同的權利和義務。
[–]RaptorsThaNorth 314 指標 13小時前
You can see it when he plays. Lowry hitting that circus buzzer beater and he gives zero emotions. He literally walks away as soon as it happens. No smile, nothing. Same thing when he hit his. Basketball isn't on his mind right now.
猛龍球迷:從德羅贊的比賽狀態也能多多少少看出來點兒,之前洛瑞投進壓哨球,德羅贊連點兒反應都沒,投進了之後他就那麼走掉了。臉上沒有笑容,嘴角都不帶動的。就算是他自己投進了壓哨,他還是個撲克臉。他現在腦子裡裝的根本就不是籃球。
[–]dancedancetotheradio 429 指標 13小時前
He also posted on Instagram: "stress level max'd"
他在Ins上還發過一條:「壓力山大」。
[–][TOR] Kyle LowryJP-Ziller 188 指標 11小時前
Ah man, I honestly wish he'd just sit out the all star game and take the weekend off to spend with family and de stress from the game
猛龍球迷:心疼,我倒是希望他別參加今年的全明星了,好好跟家人去度假,釋放掉比賽的壓力。
[–]RaptorsMasai-Ujiri 147 指標 10小時前
good thing is the all star game is in LA this year. So he's close to home right now during the break
猛龍球迷:好消息是今年全明星就在洛杉磯,家很近,他沒事兒的時候想回去就能回去了。
[–]MavericksDima_Kenose 477 指標 13小時前
Most people deal with depression by being enclosed in their home. This guy has to go out see his teammates and crowds every other day. Not sure if that makes coping easier or harder...
大多數人都選擇把自己鎖在家裡來應對抑鬱。但德羅贊可是基本上每天都要出門去見自己的隊友、面對無數的觀眾啊!我也不確定這樣是能好點兒還是更抑鬱了……
[–]YoureUsingMyOxygen 243 指標 13小時前
Double edged sword.
一柄雙刃劍吶。
[–]HomeHeatingTips 220 指標 11小時前
No. Most people with depression work full time jobs. They are all around us we just never who could be dealing with it, because most choose to hide it. Also I think Derozan isn't dealing with clinical depression so much a just a lot of family issues.
也不是,大多數抑鬱的人都有全職工作的,我們身邊這樣的人到處都是,只是我們也不知道到底誰得了抑鬱症,因為大家都傾向於秘而不宣。還有吧,我覺得德羅贊這個也不是真正醫學上所謂的那種「抑鬱症」,只是太多家庭問題堆積在一起形成的困擾。
[–]Raptorssixfoh 1920 指標 13小時前
Toronto will forever have DeRozan's back like he got us...
猛龍球迷:猛龍球迷將會永遠和贊贊站在一起,就像他為多倫多所付出的那樣。
[–]loics 309 指標 9小時前
We're so fucking lucky, I dont even care if he regresses I hope we do everything possible so he retires happy with us.
我們能擁有德羅贊是多大的福分啊,哪怕德羅贊就此走上下坡路我也無所謂,但求我們能盡己所能的去為他做點事兒,德羅贊退役以後也能為有我們這群球迷而高興。
[–]LakersFamousTee 123 指標 8小時前
All of Canada will have his back. I'm a Lakers fan but what he's done for the only team my country has is unbelievable.
Love you DeMar
整個加拿大都將是德羅贊最強有力的後盾,雖然我是湖人球迷,但是德羅贊為我的國家唯一的一支NBA球隊所付出的一切都是那麼嘆為觀止。
德羅贊我愛你!
[–]Thundercaptainsausagetits 4213 指標 14小時前
I don't think I've ever seen a NBA player talk about depression or mental health issues. Other sports/athletes seem to talk about it more
我之前都從沒見哪個NBA球員公開談論抑鬱或者是其他什麼心理疾病的呢,倒是其他項目的運動員經常說到這個問題。
[–]SpursBEE_REAL_ 1584 指標 14小時前
Frye talked about it in the Players Tribune once
弗萊之前在the Players Tribune的文章裡談到過抑鬱症的話題。
[–]Cavaliersheelydon 872 指標 13小時前
Yeah Frye was surprisingly open about the struggles he went through following his parents passing.
騎士球迷:沒錯,弗萊對於他父母去世後自己經歷的那段痛苦經歷倒是持非常開放的態度,還蠻讓人意外的。
[–]CavaliersHelloImKebin 374 指標 13小時前
it was the bond with the team that got him through the hard times when losing both parents only months apart. i feel for Frye and have a weak spot because he was one of my favorites as a Cavs fan
騎士球迷:當時弗萊的父母在幾個月內接連去世,是他和球隊之間的羈絆幫他度過了那段最艱難的日子,我挺同情他的,我是騎士球迷,他曾是我最喜歡的騎士球員之一,所以我對他也格外有感覺。
[–]Cavaliersjspeed04 145 指標 13小時前*
Totally miss Frye, bro. I Wish him and his family infinitely nothing but the best and thank him for being a contributing figure in the locker room and on the court in 2016.
騎士球迷:老哥,你這一說我又開始想念弗萊了。衷心祝福他和他的家人永遠幸福安好,感謝他15-16賽季在我騎場上場下所做出的貢獻。
[–]miiike23 103 指標 10小時前
So has Ryan Anderson when talking about his girlfriends suicide
別忘了萊恩-安德森啊,他提到過自己的女友自殺給他帶來的痛苦。
[–][LAL] Stanislav Medvedenkototo04 322 指標 13小時前
Ron Artest
湖人球迷:說到抑鬱症,阿泰斯特有話要說。
[–][LAL] James WorthyPuntyMcBunty 706 指標 12小時前
So many people mocked him when he thanked his therapist after winning his first title in LA. I thought it was a beautiful thing.
湖人球迷:阿泰獲得第一個總冠軍的時候感謝了他的心理醫生,當時還一堆人看他的笑話,我倒是覺得這真的是很暖的一件事兒。
[–]CavaliersEmAreDubs 320 指標 12小時前
Yeah I didn't like how his comment about his therapist became an instant punchline for so many people. There's such a stigma against mental illness in this country. If Artest had struggled for years with knee injuries and thanked his surgeon and physical therapy team when he was able to play in and win an NBA Finals, nobody would have laughed at him.
就是說啊,我極其反感一堆人拿阿泰感謝心理醫生的事兒來拿他開玩笑,這個國家的人總是恥於治療心理疾病。換個情景,如果阿泰是感謝他的外科醫師和理療團隊讓他能夠擺脫多年膝傷困擾,上場打球並且贏下總冠軍的話,估計根本不會有人笑話他。
[–]Knicks_stateofmind 471 指標 14小時前
Royce White, Lamar Odom, Jerry West, Larry Sanders, Frye, and I'm sure there's some more that are just keeping it to themselves.
羅伊斯-懷特、拉瑪爾-奧多姆、傑裡-韋斯特、拉裡-桑德斯、錢寧-弗萊,這些球員都曾患有抑鬱症,而且我相信遠不止這些人,無非是其他人都選擇了保密。
[–]Thundercaptainsausagetits 107 指標 14小時前
I didn't know about the others but you just reminded me of Larry Sanders. Possibly a big reason why he walked away from the game at his peak
老哥你說的另外幾個我是不太清楚,不過你一說桑德斯倒是提醒我了,可能這就是為什麼他在巔峰期選擇了遠離籃球場。
[–]BucksBobbbyLight 97 指標 13小時前
This is going back to the early 2000's but another former Buck, Jason Caffey, was open about his anxiety issues.
The article talks about a few other players.
And God, who can forget Delonte West. He struggled a ton with bipolar.
雄鹿球迷:這一說一下讓我回到了二十一世紀初,那人也曾經在我鹿打球,叫賈森-卡菲,他也公開談論過自己的焦慮症。
原文連結:ATHLETES FIGHT MIND GAMES Toughest opponent is mental illness, stigma(運動員的內心鬥爭——心理疾病是最大的敵人,這個社會的現狀)
文章裡還說到了另外幾個球員。
還有還有,德隆蒂-韋斯特,忘了誰也不會忘了他,困擾韋斯特的問題是雙相障礙。
原文連結:Don’t Laugh At Delonte West -A reminder that mental illness does not discriminate.(別嘲笑德隆蒂-韋斯特了。再一次告訴我們,心理疾病面前沒有例外。)
[–][HOU] Chris PaulJesusKristaps 221 指標 13小時前*
Royce White is a clown who happened to have an anxiety disorder.
I wish him all the best, but the ways he expected the NBA to accommodate his personal struggles was a step too far.
火箭球迷:羅伊斯-懷特就像個碰巧得了焦慮性障礙的小丑。
我祝他一切順利,但是他當時希望NBA能夠為他的私人問題妥協的想法實在是有夠蠢的。
[–][HOU] Kostas PapanikolaouAkkuron 316 指標 12小時前
You're getting downvoted by people who have no fucking idea who Royce White even is.
You're right, dude's a bum. Signed his guaranteed NBA contract, self-diagnosed, rejected all professional help the Rockets hired for him, refused to play in the D-league like every single other Rockets rookie did, walked out on the team, talked shit about the Rockets on twitter, got a bunch of people pregnant and faded into obscurity.
Fucking #BeWell, Royce.
火箭球迷:老哥你被滅是因為那幫人連懷特是誰都不知道啊。
其實你說的沒毛病,懷特是挺蠢的。他籤了一份保障合同,但是卻不去看醫生,自己就給自己下了診斷書了,還拒絕了我火給他提供的所有專業幫助,而且他拒絕去發展聯盟打球。每個火箭新秀都要去發展聯盟打幾場,他不去。他離開火箭之後還在Twitter上罵火箭,更別說他還到處留種,最終落得一個默默無聞的結局。滾犢子吧。#祝好不送,懷特
[–]Timberwolves127crazie 49 指標 12小時前
For real, downvotes be damned. I saw him play a few times in high school (his was a rival team to my school which basically plucked him from the inner city to play for their rich team) and followed him throughout his brief time at the U of Minnesota and the legal antics that followed. I feel bad for the guy sure but he never helped it by coming across as a self-centered douche, both in high school and college.
講真,滅你的什麼心態啊?他高中的時候我就看過他打球(當時他是對面球隊的,對面有錢,把懷特從貧民窟找來給他們打球),也見證了他在明尼蘇達大學的短暫時光和之後的鬧劇。我是有點兒替他難過的,但是這傢伙不管是在高中還是大學都是一副「唯我獨尊」的德行,從沒想著改善自己。
[–]jwash1894 743 指標 13小時前
My heart goes out to him.
I think that sometimes as spectators, we don’t realize the negative impacts that can come from being in an environment like this.
He has both parents who are seriously ill, he broke up with his long time love and mother of his two children, he’s been handling all that stress for a while and being on the road for game after game after game, so he more than likely slipped into a deep depression.
我的心與德羅贊同在。
有時候我也會站在一個旁觀者的角度來思考問題,我們並不知道身處那樣一種環境之中會對產生什麼樣的負面影響。
德羅贊的父母身患重病,他愛了那麼多年的女友(兩個孩子的母親)也離開了他,德羅贊得去處理如此之多、之大的壓力,同時還必須踏上旅途去打一場又一場的比賽,說真的,他得抑鬱症再正常不過了。
Mental health is so important and I’m glad that some in the last few years have openly talked about their own mental health. I wouldn’t find it hard to believe if every player has dealt with depression at some point.
Prayers be with him and his loved ones. ❤️❤️❤️
心理健康是很重要的,過去幾年會有人站出來公開談論自己的心理問題,這令我十分欣慰。如果有人跟我說所有球員都曾有過一定程度上的抑鬱問題,我也根本不會驚訝。
祈禱吧,為德羅贊和他所愛的人。❤️❤️❤️
[–]Thundercaptainsausagetits 133 指標 13小時前
The worst part is that a lot of us can take some time off when we're hitting rock bottom. He most likely can't with his high pressure job. He probably just wants to get away from basketball and spend time with his parents
最慘的是,如果是我們心裡抑鬱了,大不了就給自己放假唄,可是德羅贊如此高壓的工作不允許他這麼做。也許他現在最想做的就是遠離籃球,陪伴在父母身邊吧。
[–][NOP] Jamal MashburnFunkywormm 97 指標 13小時前
I think it's underscored how difficult managing mental health symptoms must be for a professional athlete. Sure they have the money and resources to get treatment if need be, but the constant traveling and media obligations have to be so terrible when it comes to stability and rest.
已經說好幾回了,對於職業運動員來說,克服心理疾病難比登天。是,他們是有錢、有資源,如果需要的話能夠得到必要的治療,可持續的旅途和來自媒體施加給他們的「責任義務」都讓內心的平靜和休息成為了奢侈品。
Pretty surprising we don't hear this more often. Wouldn't be shocked to find out a lot of missed games are attributed to mental health rather than some of the reasons listed
倒不如說,我們沒有聽到更多類似問題的發生,這才更令我驚訝。如果最後有人透露很多球員缺席比賽的原因不是官方給出的那些而是因為心理問題的話,我的內心都毫無波動。
[–][CLE] LeBron Jamesmr_antman85 85 指標 10小時前
Depression is serious. I never admitted I had it because people always made fun of me. Many time I have thought about taking my own life. Once i went to a therapist and I was so embarrassed to admit that I had it because when I was talking i sounded so stupid...but the therapist was so open and encouraged me to not be ashamed. If you don't say something no one will ever know. I don't know the depth of his depression but I hope that he can control it... because it tough to shake it once it's on you.
Apologies for the life story...
抑鬱症可不是小事情。因為別人會笑話我,所以我從不承認自己是抑鬱症患者。無數次,我曾經有無數次想要終結自己的生命。我去看過心理醫生,我那時候特別不願意坦白自己的病症,因為我感覺我說的話聽起來特別傻……但是心理醫生非常非常開誠布公,鼓勵我,告訴我這不是什麼丟人的事兒。這種事兒,你不說那別人什麼也不知道,別人又不是你肚子裡的蛔蟲。我不知道德羅贊的情況有多嚴重,但是我希望他能控制住局面……因為一旦真的得病了,想要康復可謂是難上加難。
很抱歉讓大家聽我在這兒囉嗦。
[–]RaptorstherealAce 550 指標 11小時前
I know this will likely be buried, but even if one person sees this than maybe I've done some good.
猛龍球迷:這麼後了,不一定有人能看到了,但是哪怕只有一個人看到也是好的,也算是做了件好事兒了。
Demar has been my inspiration. Someone that I personally, even at 27 years old, look up to. When I heard what DD was going through, it hit me hard because I'm going through something similar. My best friend and grandfather is extremely sick and recently found out he has dementia, lost my girlfriend and a ton of my closest friends because I've pushed everyone out of my life. It's an everyday struggle just to want to live each day to the end. The one thing that I continuously have to look forward though is basketball. My Toronto Raptors.
德羅贊一直是我的精神支柱。即使我現在已經27歲了,德羅贊依然是我所仰望的人。當我聽說德羅贊在經歷人生最艱難的一段日子的時候,我內心五味雜陳,因為我和他同病相憐。我的父親和最好的朋友都身患重病,父親最近被診斷出老年痴呆,女朋友也和我分手了,許多曾經親密無間的朋友也離開了我,因為我自己把他們趕出了我的生活。每天一睜眼就盼著趕緊把這一天度過去,度日如年不過如此。唯一還能夠給我的生活點兒盼頭的就是籃球了,我最愛的多倫多猛龍。
Watching basketball saved my from myself when I was in a really dark time in my life. Even though it seems like some more bullshit piles up the next day, than the next day than the next, I always have basketball there for me. My basketball family.
籃球把我從人生最黑暗的一段日子裡撈了出來,儘管我知道前方還有著數不盡的糟心事兒等著我,沒有一天能夠喘息的日子,但至少我還有籃球會始終伴我左右,是籃球給了我另一個家。
Sometimes, basketball is bigger than just a sport. Just a form of entertainment. For some of, it's an outlet to feeling normal, even if it's just for a short period of time. A whole country is behind you DeRozan because right now, this is bigger than basketball.
我有時候會覺得,籃球遠遠不只是一項運動,不只是一項娛樂活動,它更是擺脫人生困境的一種方式,儘管可能只有很短的一段時間。德羅贊,整個國家都會是你的後盾,因為,此時此刻,生活大於籃球。