「我跟僱主借了兩個月的工資,回去兩周就花光了.」

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「昨天我剛丟了工作。老實說是我激她炒掉我的，因為我做得不開心。我住在她家的儲藏室，有時我會看一下手機，我的孩子們在菲律賓家裡，我看看他們有沒有給我發信息。她就老來我房間查我。昨天她說：『你工作時間不能用手機。』我說：『你怎麼了？如果你看我不爽，炒掉我就是了。』她就說：『好，好，你馬上收拾東西，我不想再看見你！』我剛收拾完東西出來的，今晚我可能要去教堂借宿了。我得找個新工作，找個好點的僱主，能幹長久一點的。我得留在香港，我得掙錢，我有3個孩子要養活：老大21，老二17，老三是閨女，12歲，他們都在上學。老實說，關於我這個前僱主，我跟朋友們說過，她們普遍的反應是『哇！太奇葩了！』所以我敢說再找一家，怎麼著也比她強。」

（人在香港）

「I just lost my job yesterday. Honestly I admit that I dare her to fire me because I’m not happy any more. I have a room in her storage. Sometimes I check my phone if I have a message from my kids. She always go to my room to keep checking. Yesterday she said:『You cannot use your phone during working hours.』 And I said:』What happened to you? If you are not happy with me, just fire me.』 She said:』OK, OK, pack your things right now, I do not want to see your face any more.』 Tonight maybe I』ll go to church. I’m just going to find another job, a better employer so I can stay with them for a long time. I really need to stay in HK. I need to earn money because I have 3 kids to raise: My 1st is 21, 2nd 17, the youngest daughter 12. They all go to school. Honestly for her I talked with my friends, they always say wow! So I can say at least I can find a better employer.」

(Humans of HK)

「在她家做了不到十個月，我們沒少吵架。她想讓我夜裡也照看孩子，而我深有體會，她孩子夜裡從不睡覺的，導致我也睡不好。我每天要幹16個小時活兒，夜裡再照看孩子，你說我怎麼辦得到？！去年11月份她去日本度假，她說她真的真的很想去，問我把孩子丟給我5天行不？我想讓她高興，我說行。她說好好！謝謝你謝謝你！然後她要求我提前兩天夜裡就照顧孩子，我說為什麼？你走了我再照顧的。她就生氣了。她去日本只是去玩，卻把孩子丟給我。那5夜我半夜兩點甚至四點才睡，每晚才睡3個小時。當時孩子才3個月大，老醒著，從不睡的。後來我們每次吵架，她就老拿那兩晚我沒提前幫她帶孩子說事兒。他們在新界工作，離家很遠，算上我晚上給她帶孩子，有時我一天工作還不止16個小時。我就說：你們下班回來得晚，我幫你照顧孩子到半夜12點，我介意過麼？」

「上次吵架是公眾假期，他們一家出去了，我工作時帶著耳機給我朋友打電話，我的孩子們在菲律賓，學校放假，我也想跟孩子們說說話。她在家裡裝了好多攝像頭，隨時在線，就喜歡盯著我。然後她就給我發信息說：『我不喜歡你工作時間打電話。』他們家都沒人在家，我又是帶著耳機打電話，我是在講電話，可也在工作啊，這怎麼了？我說我心裡難受，她說：『嗯，但我就是不讓，我就是不爽。』他們家的洗衣機濾網，開始一個月洗一次，後來她要求我一周洗兩次，再後來她說：我覺得你得一天洗一次。我說好，我從不抱怨，我都說好。但如果我忘了，她就把濾網放在洗衣機上，一句話不說，就為了提醒我——她對自己的孩子都沒這麼上心過！對不起，我忍不住想笑，有時覺得難過，有時就是想笑。你知道麼？最後以至於，在我的腦海裡，濾網比孩子還重要。」

（人在香港）

「我叫自己是個嗑藥的，我嗑了8年了，近5年嗑得多。知道我為什麼嗑藥麼？因為我在香港太孤獨了，下了班，沒事幹。要是我跟家人在一起，可能我不會這樣子。真的很難，我就是停不下來，如果我去戒毒所，就得停工不幹活，那我還怎麼養家呢？實際上我就是最近才不嗑了，當我聽到我老婆在杜拜身患重病，那就像有個人用拳頭在揍我：『醒醒吧！你得醒醒了！』我老婆可能活不成了，如果我還嗑藥，那以後誰來管我兒子呢？我不是個好丈夫好父親，我就是太自私了，只想著自己，只顧自己爽。我從沒想過家人，有時我都把他們忘了，有時我根本不給家裡錢，把錢都拿去買毒品了。他們給我發信息說：『你兒子在學校得獎了！第一名、第二名……』但我從沒上心過，就覺得毒品比家人還重要。我為我的所作所為感到難過，我為什麼要那樣對待我的老婆和孩子呢？」

（人在香港）

「I call myself a drug user. I use drugs 8years already, recent 5years, more. Do you know why I use drug? Because I’m very lonely. After work, nothing to do. Maybe if I’m with my family, I』ll not do that. It’s really hard time, I just cannot stop, because if I go to the rehab, I』ll have to stop working, so how can I support my family? I only stopped it actually recently, when I heard my wife is very sick. It’s like somebody punching me:』Wake up! You need to wake up!』 Maybe she』ll die, so if I’m still on drug, who will take care of my son? I’m not good husband and father. You know selfish? I’m selfish, too selfish, I only think of myself, my enjoyment. I never think of my family, sometime I forget them, sometime I never sent money because I’m on more drugs, I spent my money all on drugs. They sent message to me:』Oh your son have 1st, 2nd honor at school!』 But I never mind, because I’m on drugs, I don’t care, I forgot them already, the drug is more important to me than them. I’m very sad what I have done to my wife and son. Why I’m like that to them, why?」

(Humans of HK)

「他不幹活兒，就坐在那兒，跟朋友喝酒，跟我吵架。菲律賓都這樣，沒工作沒錢。但我有工作，他如果幫忙照顧孩子，我也沒話說，但他沒有。我就決定出國打工，離開他。我跟他分開10年了，孩子跟了我。我2006年出來打工的，那時我每晚都哭。孩子們很孤獨，他們想我，說：『媽媽你能回家麼？』我說：『我怎麼回家？我們一無所有啊！』從2011年來香港，去年我才回了一次家，6年，只回了1次。我們回趟家很難的，你回趟家就沒錢了。菲律賓就這樣，它是一種文化，要分享。尤其你從國外回來的，你得給所有人準備禮物，一大箱子禮物。親戚朋友，他們的孩子，所有人都會到你家來。你去哪兒他們跟到哪兒，你得給他們花錢，讓大家開心。那次回家我跟僱主借了兩個月的工資，回去兩周就花光了。不管咋說吧，我把3個孩子養大了，現在老大19，老二17，老小14。」

（人在香港）

「He doesn’t work, he just sit there, drinking with friends, fighting with me. It’s popular in the Philippines, no job, no money. While I’m working, if he can help take care of kids, I’m OK, but he didn’t. So I decided to go overseas, and leave him. That’s what I did, in 2006. It’s already separated 10years ago. I take care of my kids. For many years I’m single mother. I got used to it already. I’m OK. But when I left my kids in 2006, it’s hard. I was always crying every night every night. And my kids, they are lonely, they miss me. They just call me:』Mama, can you come back home?』 I said:『how can I? We don’t have anything.』 Since I worked in HK in 2011, I just went back home last year, 6years, 1 time. It’s difficult, you go back home, you don’t have money. Philippines is just like this, it’s Philippines culture, sharing. Especially you go back from overseas, you need to prepare a big box of gifts for everyone. And your relatives, friends, the kids, all of them will come. You go out, they will follow you everywhere, so you have to spend all for them, as long as everybody is happy. I borrowed 2months salary from my Mama and I spent all of it for only 2weeks. Anyway, now my 3 kids, the eldest 19, the 2nd 17，the youngest 14.」

(Humans of HK)

「我不麻煩任何人，有問題自己解決。我就是這樣，自立自強。我跟我父親學的。我父親小時候很窮，他結婚後，家裡的一切都是他自己賺來的。我父親有4個孩子，我是他唯一的女兒。我父親即使一無所有，也仍然會給予孩子們一些東西。我們小時候他出去幹活兒，他老闆給他一些吃的，麵包什麼的，他不吃，留著回家給我們吃。他還去河裡捕魚回來給我們吃。現在他72歲了，他老了，視力聽力都不好。我買了個智慧型手機，給了我弟弟，他如果在我父母那兒，我們就視頻，這樣我就能看到他們了。我父親如果在電話裡聽到我的聲音，他就會大聲問：『Mildred，是你麼？』我就大聲說：『嗯，是我！』如果我們視頻，他還會把臉湊到屏幕上，為了看看我。」

（人在香港）

「I don’t ask anybody for their help. If I have problem, I』ll have to fix it by myself. I just stand by my own feet. I learn it from my father. When my father was young, they were very poor. When he got married, he earned everything for his family, for us, all by himself. My father has 4 kids, and I’m the only girl. Even my father doesn’t have anything, he still has something to give his kids. When we were young, he went to work, his boss gave him some foods or bread, he didn’t eat, he kept it. When he came back home, he gave it to us. And he went to the river, caught some fish for us to eat. But now he is 72, he is old, he cannot read and hear clearly. I bought a smart phone and sent to my brother. If he is in my parents』 house, we do the video call, so I can see them. If my father hears my voice on the phone, he』ll say loudly: 'Mildred, is that you?』 I said loudly: 'Yes.』 If we are on the video call, he』ll put his eyes on the screen so that he can see me.」

(Humans of HK)

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