今天的節目將會討論另一種不安全的依戀模式——焦慮矛盾型依戀。
焦慮矛盾型依戀模式的兒童在撫養者離開並返回後，會表現得「別彆扭扭」。一方面他們很難被安撫，甚至會哭泣，但另一方面他們又會粘附在養育者身邊。
而有著焦慮矛盾型依戀風格的成年人，內心時常不安，但又滿是委屈。他們表現出的憤怒和焦躁看起來和抱怨的事情不相匹配，常常給人容易被得罪的感受。他們容易和他人形成糾纏的人際關係，而當他人維持人際邊界或後退時，他們會惶恐或憤怒。但其實他們很能關心人，也喜歡關心他人，可是不知為什麼，他們很難維持深入的關係，這讓他們又感到十分孤獨。
不安全的依戀模式來自於早年和養育者的互動，尤其是在分離方面的互動。那麼，什麼樣的養育方式更有可能造就焦慮矛盾型依戀模式呢？歡迎收聽本期節目！
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「Montauk-point」, 「Midsummer Sky」, 「Nu Flute」, 「Overture」, 「Porch Swing Days (Slower)」, 「Pride」, 「Rains Will Fall」, 「Reaching Out」, 「Reminiscing」, 「Resignation」, 「Ripples」, 「Sad Trio」, 「Reunited」 by Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com)
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