《獨自在海邊的夜晚》為什麼我在海邊睡覺，總有人過來叫醒我
為什麼我在海邊睡覺，總有人過來叫醒我。原因只是因為他們覺得這樣做危險，可是海邊睡覺，最多也不過是感冒而已不是嗎？而我在海邊睡覺，做了很好的夢呢。那些人出於擔心而好心的提醒，還必須要得到我感激的回饋，其實他們才是打擾我睡覺，做夢的人呢。
我只不過是任性地睡一場好覺而已啊，為什麼這些人自己害怕不敢做的事要逼我也回到安全，正常得和他們一樣（活得像無欲無求窩囊的家庭主夫，彪悍討厭的家庭主婦）不敢愛，因為害怕感冒或病死。我的生命是我的，當我覺得人生無趣，只想睡覺，而愛情之於我就像睡覺，一場美夢，儘管危險，會感冒甚至會因傷風而死，可是，我只是想睡覺，只是想愛啊。沒有睡覺，沒有愛情，我會死。
被金敏喜美到了，徵服了。天真自然，乾淨無邪，好像可以盛得下所有的美，動態最美，生動豐富，活得入味所以美得真實。被洪尚秀圈粉了。這世上的確有些人是有天命的，允許他們活出他們的才華和天分，就是對他們最大的善意和尊重，這世界有時候對有才華的人並不友好。因為他們具有破壞性。
平庸的生活對他們是一種磨損和浪費，如果愛情，恰好遇上了，那些註定在一起的人應該在一起，不被批判的活出自我，如果只有和某個人在一起才能活出最好的自我，那麼這個人就是你的天命。每個人都應該竭力追求自己可以獲得的最大幸福，這就是人權，就是最大的人道，天道。愛情面前，沒有先來後到，不被愛的，就應該被淘汰，物競天擇，很殘酷，但婚姻不應該是束縛內心的選擇，而應該是活得更好的途徑。
如果你和一個人真正相愛，願意一輩子在一起生活，有自信且享受婚姻生活的柴米油鹽，那麼你們在共同肯定婚姻之於彼此的意義，有著共同的婚姻觀（比如不愛了，選擇分手，只為真愛而在一起，比如即使不愛也願意在一起，因為合適生活在一起，喜歡婚姻的親密，穩定，親情般的感情）時，你們是契合的，可以彼此約定走入婚姻的，如果你們的婚姻觀不契合，一個人帶著一輩子和你在一起的心情走入你們的婚姻，而另一個只是抱著現在相愛，所以在一起，若以後遇到更好的人，就可能離開的想法，那麼你們的婚姻從一開始就充滿變數，因為抱著隨時離開的心情的人，可能隨時撤退，付出也會有所保留，這樣的婚姻叫起點（動機）不公平。所以，婚姻，如果和愛情是彼此獨立的兩件事，那麼婚姻觀一定要提前溝通清晰，合約精神在無愛的婚姻裡是值得存在的。
追逐愛情的人，或許不適合婚姻，因為愛情什麼時候來並不確定。很隨機，像生命中的不速之客，而她如此可愛。
Why do I sleep at the seaside? Some people come to wake me up. The reason is that they think it's dangerous to do so, but sleeping by the sea is nothing more than a cold, isn't it? I slept on the beach and had a good dream. Those people who are kind enough to be reminded of their worries must also receive grateful feedback from me. They are the ones who disturb my sleep and dreams. I'm just having a good night's sleep, and why are these people afraid of doing something they dare not do to force me back to safety, so normal that they dare not love, for fear of cold or death. My life is mine, when I feel that life is boring, just want to sleep, and love to me like sleep, a beautiful dream, although dangerous, cold and even death from a cold, but I just want to sleep, just want to love. No sleep, no love, I will die.
Jin Minxi was beautiful and conquered. Innocent and natural, clean and innocent, as if can hold all the beauty, dynamic most beautiful, vivid and rich, live delicious so beautiful real. Hong Shangxiu was in circles. There are indeed some people in this world who are destined to live out their talents and genius with the greatest kindness and respect, and the world is sometimes unfriendly to talented people. Because they are destructive.
Ordinary life is a kind of wear and waste to them, if love happens to meet, those who are destined to be together should be together, not criticized to live out their own, if only with someone to live out the best self, then this person is your destiny. Everyone should strive to pursue the greatest happiness that he can obtain, which is human rights, the greatest humanity, heaven. In front of love, there is no first come, not loved, should be eliminated, natural selection, very cruel, but marriage should not be a choice to bind the heart, but should be a better way to live. If you are truly in love with a person, willing to live together for a lifetime, confident and enjoyable, then you are both affirming the meaning of marriage to each other, and sharing a common outlook on marriage (such as not loving, choosing to break up, just being together for true love, for example, not loving but also willing to be together When you are in harmony with each other, you can make an agreement to go into marriage. If you don't agree with each other about marriage, one person walks into your marriage with the mood of being with you for a lifetime, while the other just loves you now. So together, if you meet a better person in the future, you may leave the idea, then your marriage from the beginning is full of variables, because people who are ready to leave the mood, may withdraw at any time, pay will be reserved, such a marriage called the starting point (motivation) unfair. Therefore, marriage, if love and love are two separate things, then the concept of marriage must be communicated clearly in advance, the spirit of contract in a loveless marriage is worth living.
Those who pursue love may not be suitable for marriage, because love is not sure when to come. It's random, like an uninvited guest in life, and she's so cute.