I have no idea how to be with someone but I certainly love to share some opinions of how to be single.
2000年零時零分，電視直播紐約時代廣場慶人潮，我有無見過你，我由布魯塞爾坐火車去阿姆斯特丹，望住窗外，飛越過幾十個小鎮，幾千裡土地，幾千萬個人。我懷疑，我們人生裡面，唯一可以相遇的機會，已經錯過了。
I have been thinking about the time that we have to be single is really the time we get good at being alone. But how good at being alone do we really want to be?
Isn't there a danger that you will get so good at being single, so set in your ways that you will miss out on the chance to be with someone great?
Some people take baby steps to settle down.
Some people refuse to settle at all.
Sometimes it is not statistics. Actually, it is just chemistry.
Sometimes it is over but doesn't mean love ends.
The thing about being single is that you should cherish it.Because in a week, or of a lifetime being alone, you may only get one moment. One moment，when you are not tied up in a relationship with anyone, a parent, a sibling, a pet, a friend. One moment，when you stand up on your own. Really truly single. Truly independent.
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