一個人,當你學會了獨處,學會了陪伴自己解決生活中的各種瑣事時,你便學會了生活的一項重要技能。
A person, when you learn to be alone, learn to accompany yourself, and solve all kinds of trivial things in life, you learn an important skill in life.
人們總說,生活就是一地的雞毛。然而有人熟視無睹,久而久之,就會成為別人手中的雞毛撣子,作用就是為他人掃雞毛;有人樂意清掃,不厭其煩,便活成了許多人心中的樣子。
People always say that life is a chicken feather in one place.
However, some people turn a blind eye, over time, will become the hands of others feather duster, the role is to sweep chicken feathers for others; some people are willing to clean, take the trouble to live into the hearts of many people.
分手後的人,為什麼依然愛著,卻不再回頭了,很大程度上是因為:我們想找回原本的自己。
People who break up, why still love, but no longer look back, in large part because: we want to find the original self.
愛上一個人的代價,如果是毀掉原本的自己,那麼這個代價太大了。儘管轉身的瞬間,留下的眼淚燙的心是真的痛。
The price of falling in love with someone, if it is to destroy the original self, then this price is too great. Despite the moment of turning around, the tears left are really painful.
人活一世,壽命區區幾十年,短暫到來不及埋怨輪迴太慢。我們的相遇,只是不同站點的人同乘了一輛車,唯一的不同是,我們坐在一起。
People live for a lifetime, and the life span is only a few decades. It is too short to complain that the reincarnation is too slow.
We met, but people from different sites took the same car, the only difference is that we sat together.
一直記得一句話:除了自渡,他人愛莫能助。
Always remember a sentence: in addition to self-crossing, others can't help.
不會再有交集的我們,會各自經歷著屬於自己的劫難,我們會遍體鱗傷,也會快速自愈,堅強的像從未經過風霜。
There will be no more intersections, we will each experience our own disasters, we will be bruised and bruised, and we will heal quickly.
Strong as if never through the wind and frost.
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「歲月」但願你等待的人,都在歸來的路上
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「歲月」如果我們能夠久別重逢,我希望你別來無恙
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