人際交往之我見
My Opinion on Interpersonal Communication
1）
沒有人在生活中能完全避免與別人碰撞。你不得不以各種方式奮力擠過人群，冒犯別人的同時也忍受別人的冒犯。——託馬斯.卡萊爾
No one can completely avoid collision with others in life. You have to try your best to squeeze through the crowd in various ways, offending others and putting up with the offense of others at the same time. -- Thomas Carlyle
2）
只懂索取而不懂回報的人，只會將別人的熱情和善意一點點消耗殆盡。
People who only know how to take but not know how to return will only consume the enthusiasm and kindness of others bit by bit.
3）
生命就像一種回聲，你給別人最好的，往往也會在不經意間，從別人那裡收穫最好的。
Life is like an echo; if you give others the best, you often inadvertently get the best from others.
4）
餘生，願你臉上帶笑，心裡有光，能給別人溫暖，也能從別人身上收穫溫暖。
For the rest of your life, may you have smiles on your face and light in your heart, so that you can give warmth to others and gain warmth from others.
5）
語言的藝術很微妙，它可以成為一團暖人的火，也可以成為一把殺人的刀。
The art of language is very subtle. It can become a flame to give warmth or a knife to kill.
6）
學會顧忌別人的感受，掌握說話的分寸，才能讓人相處舒服，如沐春風。
Learn to scruple the feelings of others, master the propriety of speech in order to make people get along comfortably, just like bathing in the spring breeze.
7）
儘量少給別人添麻煩，因為每個人都在自己的生活裡忙碌，誰都沒有義務替你分擔生活的苦難。
Try to give others less trouble, because everyone is busy in their own life,and no one has the obligation to share the suffering of life for you.
8）
舒服的社交狀態，是互不虧欠。最大限度地去理解每個人的內心世界，不虧待別人，也不為難自己。
The comfortable social state is that we don't owe each other. Try to understand everyone's inner world as much as possible, and don't treat others badly or embarrass yourself.
9）
唯有用真心回饋真心，善意回報善意，才能擁有一段長久的友誼。
Only by rewarding sincerity with sincerity and returning kindness with kindness, can we have a long-term friendship.
10）
讚美他人是高級生產力。
Being good at praising others is a high level of productivity.
如果你不願意當面誇人，可以背後誇，誇人的話早晚會傳到對方耳朵裡。
If you don't want to praise someone face to face, you can praise him behind his back. Sooner or later, the words will spread to his ears.
每個人都希望自己的行為、思想能得到他人的贊同。永遠不要吝嗇你的讚美之詞。如果你發現了他人的優點，大膽而真誠的表現出來。
Everyone hopes that their actions and thoughts can be approved by others.Never be stingy with your compliments. If you find the advantages of others, show it boldly and sincerely.
11）
能感恩的人在哪裡都能遇見貴人，沒有人會去幫助一個忘恩負義之人。學會感恩，用你的真情實意、切實行動來表現出你的感恩之心。
People who are grateful can meet dignitaries everywhere, and no one is going to help an ungrateful person. Learn to be grateful and show your gratitude with your true feelings and practical actions.
編譯者｜周柯楠
Edited and translated by Zhou Kenan
January 11th, 2021