What is something that bothers you about Chinese people?
中國人的哪些方面讓你感到困擾？（二）
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Collin Anthony Spears, Connoisseur of Random Facts from East Asian History to Population Genetics
Answered Oct 2
I’m talking specifically about people who grew up in the Greater China Region.
Also this is not universal, but it is something that I find culturally happens more in China than it does in…uhm the U.S., Germany, UK, France, or even Japan…
我主要談論的是在大中華區長大的人，而且這不是普遍現象，但是我發現這種事情在中國發生的頻率比在美國，德國，英國，法國甚至日本都高。
My wife even does this, usually in public in Mandarin to me, because she is at least savvy enough to not let others hear her. My response is usually 「yeah..okay…」 or 「uh-huh…」
甚至我妻子也這麼幹，通常是在公共場合用中文對我說，但是她不會說很大聲讓別人聽到。我的反應通常是「哦，好吧」
Paul Denlinger, Used to study human behavior; now I just observe it.
Answered Sep 29
It doesn’t bother me, but it is a characteristic which catches most non-Chinese by surprise.
我要說的其實並不會讓我感到煩惱，只不過這個特徵會讓所有非中國人感到措手不及。
If Chinese don’t agree with a certain position or situation, they do not voice their opposition up-front.
當中國人不贊同某種立場或情況時，他們不會直爽的說出自己的反對意見。
I asked W: if he pushed too aggressively, what did you do?
W said: I let him. I don’t like to fight like that. But I have an option too. I don’t always agree with him.
我問W：如果他咄咄逼人，你是怎麼應對的？
W說：我就任由他，我必須那樣對抗。但是我也有得選擇。我不總是贊同他。
I asked: what did you expect from him after you let him?
W said: I expect him to reciprocate. I need him to understand team work is more important.
我問：你任由他以後期望他怎麼做？
W說：我希望他能作出回報。我要了解團隊合作更重要。
This situation happens all the time. The answer lies at holding a better mediated, controlled meetings, fully aware of the cultural and emotional differences, ensuring both side have the chance to voice their opinions in a safe environment. There are many ways to achieve that. The meeting moderator must be very skillful.
這種情況總是發生。問題的關鍵在於舉行一個調停和克制的會議，充分意識到文化和情緒上的差異，確保雙方在一個安全的環境裡表達自己的意見。有很多方式可以實現這一點。會議的調解人必須要富有技巧。
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